had a really old crusty man in my line, when the machine spat his card out and he needed to try it again i apologized and told him that the computer was “misbehaving”
Who does that?! I’ve never floated around to different registers during my hour. Like, ever. They are ALL occupied. Ok there was that one week during the pandemic when someone thought it was a good idea so that we weren’t up against the same person for too long. Lasted like 5 days.
you’re store doesn’t work like everyone elses, hundreds of TJs out there and some like mine are slower and there are open registers on a weekday morning. if you see people lined up ignoring the registers in the back you either call them over to your reg or log off, walk over to an open register to log on and pull people to your line. also have you never been on register for more than an hour at a time? never relieved someone off another reg at top of hour by switching registers? theres a bunch of scenarios someone may move around regs.
just commenting to also say I have had two FIV+ cats in a house with my one FIV negative for 3 years and it never transferred over. they play, roughhouse, eat, poop same places. My vet also had a similar situation set up which is why i felt comfortable doing the same when we had to suddenly take in a kitten in 2019. the virus does not live outside of the body for long enough to transfer most times. unless the cats have a serious fight and whole bites occur, there is low likely hood of transfer.
seems like they didnt feel like having a whole convo, they didn’t even answer your question. but to be fair you also answered the question you asked before they could answer. also, if they dont play that game and have no idea what you meant from that context they might have just thought the conversation you initiated was confusing. i think pressing further than what you have asked may make it worse. I would wait until you hear from them again to say anything. to me it could be read two ways: 1. they were busy/uninterested/had something going on and werent active in the convo 2. they didn’t want to talk to you and were peeved by the conversation
Yeah we can’t give it to someone we KNOW doesn’t work at one, but otherwise we were told specifically it’s not our job to interrogate. If something seems suss ring a mate over. We also don’t grill people over returns. We would get in trouble and maybe fired for behavior so unbecoming lol
yeah my question is…can i call my dispensary and bitch at them for something like that? i mean one seed im not gonna say anything but if i got 12 seeds im calling SOMEONE because i paid how much for those seeds instead of flower???
thats not what i would be concerned about with only one seed, I would be lucky if I get anything from a single seed. i have a stock of a bunch of seeds i have gathered, we’ll see what strains i get when I have space to grow :)
I was like this in the beginning, I can’t say this will work for you but all I can share is my experience. I had to slowly develop a system that just smoothed the process and made it doable for me. My first shot took me 3 weeks to get courage to do myself, I gave them to myself inconsistently for a few months but finally asked for patches. Patches were uncomfortable, caused constant rashes, and my body didnt absorb that T as well.
If you can afford it, in-home euthanasia is the best way to go. It's comforting for everyone (human included) to be in their own space, with time to grieve.
unfortunately I cannot even afford regular euthanasia. that is a nice thought, but I have spent so much on vet bills the last few months im unsure what to do. thankfully he is still eating a little. time will tell.
best meme ive seen all week, really encapsulates why i get along with so many people but never feel comfortable when they ask to hang out- because ive been masking and they dont really know my actual personality just the one i use for that convo 😂
If they think it’s too soon they will tell you. But don’t be embarrassed if they do - mates know that this is something that new crew won’t know about. Weird they gave you a zip up - my store they won’t order a zip up until after your 3 months are up. Really at this time of year long sleeve shirts should be the default, although I generally wear short sleeves year round with other plain long sleeve t shirts under them when it’s cold.
I agree with this comment. we are not misconstruing the amount you are supporting her, but you are mistaking parental support for complete control over an adult.
just here to unanimously add another YTA- its common for father figures to walk people down the aisle rather than the father. how does this hurt you and why does it even bother you???
thanks for saying this. its really validating. we all got dealt an extremely shitty hand, lets not pit against each other to determine who has it worse. i love you all!
Austin's Steakhouse does good bbq and steaks, there's one in Mayfield on Wilson Mills by 271, its not going to blow your mind but it will suit everyone's tastes.
Thanks, this helped!! We’re going with Austin’s, their menu is perfect for the people coming with us. you were right we arent trying to go too fancy for the picky eaters coming!
Unfortunately Austins was very mediocre for their pricing. the food wasnt bad, and it covered our picky eaters and we all enjoyed our meals but for the dinner prices we might as well have gone elsewhere. most entrees were $18 a plate but the things we wanted were 21-23. it was a very quaint, small place that had diner vibes that seemed to have a crowd of older people enjoying. (and our waitress was very odd and pressured us to get dessert she would not let me say no, despite saying no several times and i just awkwardly gave in.)
she is an amazon flex driver, if you notice she is using her own car and it is essentially just doordash for packages. my friend does this and you get paid like $60 to drive over 80 miles and deliver packages to over 40 different houses.
OP, you can always get your friend a gift card to the binder site! that way they can pick out their size and color! GC2B had a like of pride flag binders last i checked but mostly I stick to neutral colors so they aren’t noticeable
NTA- forgiving someone doesn’t mean you need to allow them jnto your life to continue to drain your happiness. Some times, the biggest way to forgive someone is to acknowledge they cannot be a functioning part of your life. If they are willing to bust down your boundaries right now, then what they will do when you let them in is much worse.
I don't have familiarity with symptoms of high levels so I can't help there, but as far as bloodwork and levels go... 1005ng/dl is only barely too high, and for that to be your level three hours after your shot isn't concerning, based on what my own doctors have told me. They have had me do my bloodwork late in my shot cycle -- i.e. a day or so before my next shot. So considering my usual levels in the 600-700 range, I'm sure if I had my blood drawn three hours after my shot, my levels would be quite high too! That's honestly just a weird time to do bloodwork, from what I know.
okay, I’m glad you had a similar experience. she was new to me and it was kind if an awkward appointment so I was questioning the judgement of just waiting six months (plus I was worried for a sec that I had premature baldness or something…didnt include that bc i felt it was mostly facial changes from T and anxiety lol.)
NTA, GOOD JOB STANDING YOUR GROUND!!! you acknowledged these are HER problems, because they are, and I’m so proud of you! its really hard to stop compromising your well being for your parents emotions, it took me a long time to unlearn that. You are on a journey to making yourself more comfortable and letting yourself finally be you, keep standing your ground!
I was looking in the mirror and I taped down my chest (super unsafe, should have just bought a binder) and the overwhelming RELIEF that I felt seeing a flat chest, the EUPHORIA was insane, thats all I needed to confirm that it wasn’t just that I hated my body. I always thought I just hated being a woman, like every woman does, but really I felt a huge disconnect and dissociation from my body whenever i looked in the mirror at my chest or genitals. it was eye opening, finally being able to put words to the dysphoria i felt for years
had a really old crusty man in my line, when the machine spat his card out and he needed to try it again i apologized and told him that the computer was “misbehaving”
Who does that?! I’ve never floated around to different registers during my hour. Like, ever. They are ALL occupied. Ok there was that one week during the pandemic when someone thought it was a good idea so that we weren’t up against the same person for too long. Lasted like 5 days.
you’re store doesn’t work like everyone elses, hundreds of TJs out there and some like mine are slower and there are open registers on a weekday morning. if you see people lined up ignoring the registers in the back you either call them over to your reg or log off, walk over to an open register to log on and pull people to your line. also have you never been on register for more than an hour at a time? never relieved someone off another reg at top of hour by switching registers? theres a bunch of scenarios someone may move around regs.
still havent gotten mine…do you guys think all hope is lost? did it get lost? 😭
Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I have five cats and one of them has fiv. She roughhouses with the others but it hasn’t spread.
just commenting to also say I have had two FIV+ cats in a house with my one FIV negative for 3 years and it never transferred over. they play, roughhouse, eat, poop same places. My vet also had a similar situation set up which is why i felt comfortable doing the same when we had to suddenly take in a kitten in 2019. the virus does not live outside of the body for long enough to transfer most times. unless the cats have a serious fight and whole bites occur, there is low likely hood of transfer.
seems like they didnt feel like having a whole convo, they didn’t even answer your question. but to be fair you also answered the question you asked before they could answer. also, if they dont play that game and have no idea what you meant from that context they might have just thought the conversation you initiated was confusing. i think pressing further than what you have asked may make it worse. I would wait until you hear from them again to say anything. to me it could be read two ways: 1. they were busy/uninterested/had something going on and werent active in the convo 2. they didn’t want to talk to you and were peeved by the conversation
Yeah we can’t give it to someone we KNOW doesn’t work at one, but otherwise we were told specifically it’s not our job to interrogate. If something seems suss ring a mate over. We also don’t grill people over returns. We would get in trouble and maybe fired for behavior so unbecoming lol
can spouses of crew members get discounts? i have seen it happen but also experienced conflicting situations
That’s crazy man… you could get jumped for selling a $50 10th of shit like that on the streets lol
yeah my question is…can i call my dispensary and bitch at them for something like that? i mean one seed im not gonna say anything but if i got 12 seeds im calling SOMEONE because i paid how much for those seeds instead of flower???
Hybrids don't grow true from seed, so you wouldn't get the same strain, right?
thats not what i would be concerned about with only one seed, I would be lucky if I get anything from a single seed. i have a stock of a bunch of seeds i have gathered, we’ll see what strains i get when I have space to grow :)
I was like this in the beginning, I can’t say this will work for you but all I can share is my experience. I had to slowly develop a system that just smoothed the process and made it doable for me. My first shot took me 3 weeks to get courage to do myself, I gave them to myself inconsistently for a few months but finally asked for patches. Patches were uncomfortable, caused constant rashes, and my body didnt absorb that T as well.
I don't have any advice but just wanted to send virtual hugs your way op 💖
thank you, it means a lot. ❤️
If you can afford it, in-home euthanasia is the best way to go. It's comforting for everyone (human included) to be in their own space, with time to grieve.
unfortunately I cannot even afford regular euthanasia. that is a nice thought, but I have spent so much on vet bills the last few months im unsure what to do. thankfully he is still eating a little. time will tell.
you look fricken awesome!
best meme ive seen all week, really encapsulates why i get along with so many people but never feel comfortable when they ask to hang out- because ive been masking and they dont really know my actual personality just the one i use for that convo 😂
If they think it’s too soon they will tell you. But don’t be embarrassed if they do - mates know that this is something that new crew won’t know about. Weird they gave you a zip up - my store they won’t order a zip up until after your 3 months are up. Really at this time of year long sleeve shirts should be the default, although I generally wear short sleeves year round with other plain long sleeve t shirts under them when it’s cold.
I got a zip up on my orientation day… 3 weeks in now and i really need some long sleeve honestly
ever noticed negative effects of testosterone and how do you counter or ride them out?
The same as above, but I wanted to add the rolled chili lime chips, & that new facial sunscreen that is the dupe for supergoop!
our store is in a heavily jewish neighborhood and those chili lime chips are kosher- people come in and get at least 8 bags at a time.
YTA idk why you hide Halloween props when you are creepy 24/7 no toys required.
I agree with this comment. we are not misconstruing the amount you are supporting her, but you are mistaking parental support for complete control over an adult.
just here to unanimously add another YTA- its common for father figures to walk people down the aisle rather than the father. how does this hurt you and why does it even bother you???
thanks for saying this. its really validating. we all got dealt an extremely shitty hand, lets not pit against each other to determine who has it worse. i love you all!
Austin's Steakhouse does good bbq and steaks, there's one in Mayfield on Wilson Mills by 271, its not going to blow your mind but it will suit everyone's tastes.
Thanks, this helped!! We’re going with Austin’s, their menu is perfect for the people coming with us. you were right we arent trying to go too fancy for the picky eaters coming!
Just curious how this worked for your group?
Unfortunately Austins was very mediocre for their pricing. the food wasnt bad, and it covered our picky eaters and we all enjoyed our meals but for the dinner prices we might as well have gone elsewhere. most entrees were $18 a plate but the things we wanted were 21-23. it was a very quaint, small place that had diner vibes that seemed to have a crowd of older people enjoying. (and our waitress was very odd and pressured us to get dessert she would not let me say no, despite saying no several times and i just awkwardly gave in.)
Especially if you work for amazon
she is an amazon flex driver, if you notice she is using her own car and it is essentially just doordash for packages. my friend does this and you get paid like $60 to drive over 80 miles and deliver packages to over 40 different houses.
OP, you can always get your friend a gift card to the binder site! that way they can pick out their size and color! GC2B had a like of pride flag binders last i checked but mostly I stick to neutral colors so they aren’t noticeable
NTA- forgiving someone doesn’t mean you need to allow them jnto your life to continue to drain your happiness. Some times, the biggest way to forgive someone is to acknowledge they cannot be a functioning part of your life. If they are willing to bust down your boundaries right now, then what they will do when you let them in is much worse.
I don't have familiarity with symptoms of high levels so I can't help there, but as far as bloodwork and levels go... 1005ng/dl is only barely too high, and for that to be your level three hours after your shot isn't concerning, based on what my own doctors have told me. They have had me do my bloodwork late in my shot cycle -- i.e. a day or so before my next shot. So considering my usual levels in the 600-700 range, I'm sure if I had my blood drawn three hours after my shot, my levels would be quite high too! That's honestly just a weird time to do bloodwork, from what I know.
ahhhh thank you!! this was very helpful. makes me feel a lot better.
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okay, I’m glad you had a similar experience. she was new to me and it was kind if an awkward appointment so I was questioning the judgement of just waiting six months (plus I was worried for a sec that I had premature baldness or something…didnt include that bc i felt it was mostly facial changes from T and anxiety lol.)
NTA, GOOD JOB STANDING YOUR GROUND!!! you acknowledged these are HER problems, because they are, and I’m so proud of you! its really hard to stop compromising your well being for your parents emotions, it took me a long time to unlearn that. You are on a journey to making yourself more comfortable and letting yourself finally be you, keep standing your ground!
I was looking in the mirror and I taped down my chest (super unsafe, should have just bought a binder) and the overwhelming RELIEF that I felt seeing a flat chest, the EUPHORIA was insane, thats all I needed to confirm that it wasn’t just that I hated my body. I always thought I just hated being a woman, like every woman does, but really I felt a huge disconnect and dissociation from my body whenever i looked in the mirror at my chest or genitals. it was eye opening, finally being able to put words to the dysphoria i felt for years