I think ur right. I think it could make ur ocd worse cuz ur hormones are wild haha before i get my period i get easily very emotional and ocd is very mental as well. Maybe the combo makes it worse?
This is the worst. It’s been rough for me rn because it’s always a constant, “Do you love him enough? Did you enjoy your time? Ah you thought he was annoying when he said this- you don’t love him. You need some space? You hate him.”
Im a woman and never did that so far. Also never saw it. Sure we talk about each other boobs sometimes but i wouldn’t allow someone touching them. So i find it kind of weird that they do that in anime
Maybe cuz you have time to really stand still with your thoughts. No distractions like phones, laptops television etc. I think that’s why u get that at night
Being more “rebellious”. Not the dangerous type of rebellion of course. But I had basically no real life experience until my mid 20’s because I was so sheltered.
So also this other guy replied to me saying that it’s not ocd and that I’m just lusting but I don’t think I am because it used to never happen before I got with her but I think it just stems from the fear of me worrying I will and not that I actually am but now I’m worried that I am just lusting idk but I think it’s ocd but idk
I’ve just read it. I think, if i read ur story and your comments, that what he is saying is bs. I definitely see you don’t want to think about it so ur repressing it. And ur overly anxious about it. I really think u should go to a professional and see if u can get ocd(preferably erp+talking) therapy. Also literally for practice I HAVE to think about it😅 cuz that way I practice to don’t obsess over it. I have a bf of 2 years and he says its totally normal i find someone else attractive from time to time. Everyone has it. You cant stop finding other humans attractive. It isn’t an on and off switch
I know and I think erp would help me because it’s like so bad that I’ll completely be calm and the second I’m in a public area ittl go fucking ballistic on me 😭. Do you think there’s any ways I could like practice erp just from home or something or would it really require professional help?
Actually almost every assignment i get u can do at home. For example: if you have any girl friends or you hang out together with ur girlfriends and her friends. Don’t try to do your so called compulsions. A few of mine are: don’t look them in the eyes, talk to them as less as i can. If u do the same or if u do something else please do it the other way around. That way you trick your mind to think that its okay(because it is, you can look at other girls). Another one I practice is: think about the girls(men for me) you see. Super duper scary but this is also to trick your mind. These are two things u can do of the top of my head, but it’s really nice to have a therapist, cuz you can talk to them about your fears and they can encourage you into doing these things. But idk how available therapy is in ur country. Sorry if this is a lot😅 and don’t worry if you get overly anxious again and the practice’s didn’t work. It takes time. I only recently am able to do these without getting overly anxious and even that is rare
You actually cant stop intrusive thoughts. Everyone has them. I know this is hard(even i cant do it) but try not to give it such importance. Try it with sentences like these:
Cats
I like it! Very clean and simple and gives me a certain feeling idk how to describe it haha
🥲😭
I think ur right. I think it could make ur ocd worse cuz ur hormones are wild haha before i get my period i get easily very emotional and ocd is very mental as well. Maybe the combo makes it worse?
Murph
Hello
Dont answer this this feels like a scam. They are too pushy
I think relationship OCD. I hate it. I just want to be happy with my bf without overthinking every fucking thing
This is the worst. It’s been rough for me rn because it’s always a constant, “Do you love him enough? Did you enjoy your time? Ah you thought he was annoying when he said this- you don’t love him. You need some space? You hate him.”
Thank you yes i recognize things and I doubt about other things that arent necessary as well
Lost love
The earth after it rains
Ethereal
Im a woman and never did that so far. Also never saw it. Sure we talk about each other boobs sometimes but i wouldn’t allow someone touching them. So i find it kind of weird that they do that in anime
Totally relate, idk why It has to happen at night
Maybe cuz you have time to really stand still with your thoughts. No distractions like phones, laptops television etc. I think that’s why u get that at night
Just cause 4…i may be fine…
Being more “rebellious”. Not the dangerous type of rebellion of course. But I had basically no real life experience until my mid 20’s because I was so sheltered.
Damn i feel you i started to “live” once i met bf
The hobbits…
So also this other guy replied to me saying that it’s not ocd and that I’m just lusting but I don’t think I am because it used to never happen before I got with her but I think it just stems from the fear of me worrying I will and not that I actually am but now I’m worried that I am just lusting idk but I think it’s ocd but idk
I’ve just read it. I think, if i read ur story and your comments, that what he is saying is bs. I definitely see you don’t want to think about it so ur repressing it. And ur overly anxious about it. I really think u should go to a professional and see if u can get ocd(preferably erp+talking) therapy. Also literally for practice I HAVE to think about it😅 cuz that way I practice to don’t obsess over it. I have a bf of 2 years and he says its totally normal i find someone else attractive from time to time. Everyone has it. You cant stop finding other humans attractive. It isn’t an on and off switch
I know and I think erp would help me because it’s like so bad that I’ll completely be calm and the second I’m in a public area ittl go fucking ballistic on me 😭. Do you think there’s any ways I could like practice erp just from home or something or would it really require professional help?
Actually almost every assignment i get u can do at home. For example: if you have any girl friends or you hang out together with ur girlfriends and her friends. Don’t try to do your so called compulsions. A few of mine are: don’t look them in the eyes, talk to them as less as i can. If u do the same or if u do something else please do it the other way around. That way you trick your mind to think that its okay(because it is, you can look at other girls). Another one I practice is: think about the girls(men for me) you see. Super duper scary but this is also to trick your mind. These are two things u can do of the top of my head, but it’s really nice to have a therapist, cuz you can talk to them about your fears and they can encourage you into doing these things. But idk how available therapy is in ur country. Sorry if this is a lot😅 and don’t worry if you get overly anxious again and the practice’s didn’t work. It takes time. I only recently am able to do these without getting overly anxious and even that is rare
Omg this is so beautiful!!
You actually cant stop intrusive thoughts. Everyone has them. I know this is hard(even i cant do it) but try not to give it such importance. Try it with sentences like these:
Yess! And if i dont my eyes hurt for some reason
Aubrey Plaza
The cool asian man and the elf!
Let me pet this douge and give him everything he needs✨
That looks so cool!
Where did you get it? Thats badass!
I didnt get it but i found this on pinterest and i wanted to know what style this was cuz it looks so cool!
It does.... did it happen to say who and where they did it? We got to get to the bottom of this!
I think its somehwere in Asia(maybe china??) if i see it correctly at the right bottom of the screen. I am so dumb enough to not save it💀😭