Hey just wondering how long after the appt was the treatment plan sent through? I’ve been waiting for two weeks to receive mine post appt, I understand they are sooo busy. What was your experience? Thank you :-)
It was about 2 weeks later (appt on 22nd Sep, plan on 1st October). My partner didn’t follow up, but they weren’t super busy that time either, he says they are super slow, and he would follow up in your case. Hope this helps!
I agree. I also think people need to work through untangling grudges in their own timeframes. Relationships are a 2-way street and it’s unlikely that Tim’s reactions happen in a vacuum. The edit seems biased toward Lucinda, who does seem great, but she is not the right partner for him. Agree that she would be a great parent!
Given the maturity and level-headedness that Lucinda has shown so far, I reckon the only person who can decide whether she "deserves" better is actually Lucinda.
To me I think Tim is showing integrity. Lucinda is so clingy now imagine the floodgates that would open if/when they have sex. He seems very much like a man with real world experience and trauma that he is still processing. She’s a love and light, ex burlesque performer, who lives in Byron Bay and does tantra sex workshops. Big red flags from her, he’s right to take his time to make this decision.
Pretty surprising that you think those things are red flags when there is also gaslighting, narcissism, domestic violence, isolation, emotional abuse...
You obviously love her very much and are very empathetic toward her but here’s the thing: she is abusive. This is not a healthy relationship for you and you will need to get out. Since she is threatening to kill herself when you create distance, this may be tricky for you. I don’t know how much time apart you are able to have but I would really recommend seeing a therapist on your own, without her knowledge, to understand how to navigate and exit this relationship.
I am a tea drinker and I’d only consider using single packaged tea bags. I’m not keen to use any sort of shared food or drink (including spices or oil, butter, etc.). For our coffee drinkers, we provide pods for a Keurig and a French press with coffee grounds - both get used.
When you are old, unwell and perhaps not in your right mind, friends often disappear. But I do agree, people should have less kids, some none at all. far too many having kids for no particular reason.
I have had the opposite experience with my friends, many of them are long term. We continue to support one another through life, health and mental health issues (mine mostly stem from my parents to whom I often wish I hadn’t been born). They are peaceful to be around, unlike my parents and family. It is different for everyone, but I am very grateful for my friends and hope that everyone has the opportunity to make such friends.
You're playing at the top end of town. If you really need hyperfibre (who really needs HF?) it might be time to look at some dedicated 6E AP's and a dedicated router rather than an all-in-one solution.
That's pretty much what I was guessing. When they're being assholes, we can end up dealing with stress, anger, frustration, etc. And of course, it can take a lot of time and effort to work through that. What methods have you already tried? (I don't want to suggest stuff that didn't work for you.)
Okay, then-- first, how much time do you have to spend with or near them? Are you able to distance yourself, even if it's only for an hour or two, or are they forcing you to stay within their reach?
Your comment comes off pretty ignorant. There’s a lot of planning that goes into a homebirth, and it’s more than “hoping for the best”. There are also TONS of reasons women and families choose homebirth over hospitals or even birthing centers. How is this any different than your air bnb being rented for kinky sex or an orgy? Frankly it’s none of your business what it’s being used for, what’s the difference what happened there as long as it’s returned clean.
It’s not ignorant at all. This is a sub for AirBNB hosts. It’s their property, it’s 100% their business. Some might be willing to rent with the risks involved and others may not. If people want to home birth at locations that aren’t their own homes then maybe they should book hotels where the manager is less likely to own the hotel and care about what happens at the premises.
I feel that fam. I just try to surround myself with people who bring the best out of me and (aside from financial motivation) cut out those that negatively impact my conscious. I think it’s a constant battle that comes with living in a society.
This is textbook NIMBYism but I still have empathy for the dude tbh. If you absolutely loved your place and it was being developed next door into a massive development you’d be upset too I bet.
I wouldn’t consider myself a Nimby and am sometimes in the building industry. Some new buildings popped up near us and suddenly I found myself nimbying because they are very ugly. I’m not opposed to HD housing, it would be nice if it was feasible financially to develop with cladding & exteriors that were more aesthetically appealing #nimbyproblems
I’m in this exact situation now - cannot sleep on my 10 year old $$$ sleepyhead mattress it’s sumping and can constantly feel the springs coming up through foam. Anyways was wondering what you ended up going for? 😅
Ended up buying the Nero Medium boxed mattress from Target Furniture - it was much cheaper than all the other options and they had stock. It was recommended by a friend and I find it excellent! The only thing it is lacking is the cooling properties, especially on really hot days, but otherwise I am very happy with it.
Anyone thinking of building this type of house in this street would be over capitalising. It’s as simple as that. As an individual couple building this house and expecting $3.2 is just not realistic in my opinion. The market just isn’t there. The $3m+ market has better options in better positions. Good luck to them honestly, but it’s an irrational purchase at this stage considering how bespoke the taste of the interior is.
Also like who would drop $3M+ on a niche house that was put together over 12 weeks, painted by the contestants. That’s the cost of the house plus additional $$$ on any rework that needs to be done to fix anything. It doesn’t make financial sense.
I said that at the time! Probably got caught up in the whole emotion of it before hand then on auction day a big ol dose of reality set in and didn’t know how to back out and save face (or mucho $$$). Also might have been legit but is suspicious fo sho.
Hey just wondering how long after the appt was the treatment plan sent through? I’ve been waiting for two weeks to receive mine post appt, I understand they are sooo busy. What was your experience? Thank you :-)
It was about 2 weeks later (appt on 22nd Sep, plan on 1st October). My partner didn’t follow up, but they weren’t super busy that time either, he says they are super slow, and he would follow up in your case. Hope this helps!
This is so meta.
She is pure but I cant help thinking that she is going to find it hard to find a man who can deal with that much engulfment and pureness.
I agree. I also think people need to work through untangling grudges in their own timeframes. Relationships are a 2-way street and it’s unlikely that Tim’s reactions happen in a vacuum. The edit seems biased toward Lucinda, who does seem great, but she is not the right partner for him. Agree that she would be a great parent!
Is he really 62 tho. Looks ancient af.
Given the maturity and level-headedness that Lucinda has shown so far, I reckon the only person who can decide whether she "deserves" better is actually Lucinda.
Best reply.
You know lots of serial killers have wives, therapists are known to date narcissists and exx cons. She's got a bleeding heart
Cool, relevant reply. This is MAFS not Castle.
Buy glass containers, well worth the investment. Easier to clean and last way longer.
Thank you! I have been looking into these.
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What about Tahnee? Her and Evelyn don’t seem to like each other?
To me I think Tim is showing integrity. Lucinda is so clingy now imagine the floodgates that would open if/when they have sex. He seems very much like a man with real world experience and trauma that he is still processing. She’s a love and light, ex burlesque performer, who lives in Byron Bay and does tantra sex workshops. Big red flags from her, he’s right to take his time to make this decision.
Pretty surprising that you think those things are red flags when there is also gaslighting, narcissism, domestic violence, isolation, emotional abuse...
This is in the context of MAFs. They are red flags relative to Tim and the show.
You obviously love her very much and are very empathetic toward her but here’s the thing: she is abusive. This is not a healthy relationship for you and you will need to get out. Since she is threatening to kill herself when you create distance, this may be tricky for you. I don’t know how much time apart you are able to have but I would really recommend seeing a therapist on your own, without her knowledge, to understand how to navigate and exit this relationship.
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I am a tea drinker and I’d only consider using single packaged tea bags. I’m not keen to use any sort of shared food or drink (including spices or oil, butter, etc.). For our coffee drinkers, we provide pods for a Keurig and a French press with coffee grounds - both get used.
Yes I also have this apprehension about shared food or drink. I am also conscious about waste so trying to find a balance.
Loose leaf tea and a tea ball to brew it? A pot with a leaf holder?
Yes with a tea ball. I leave black tea, peppermint and am considering a third option but not earl grey you say?
Yes a lot of the younger and middle aged don't miss kids, but the old and lost their partners? I wonder.
Learn to make good friends and you’re all good. You don’t have to rely on your insular family for everything.
When you are old, unwell and perhaps not in your right mind, friends often disappear. But I do agree, people should have less kids, some none at all. far too many having kids for no particular reason.
I have had the opposite experience with my friends, many of them are long term. We continue to support one another through life, health and mental health issues (mine mostly stem from my parents to whom I often wish I hadn’t been born). They are peaceful to be around, unlike my parents and family. It is different for everyone, but I am very grateful for my friends and hope that everyone has the opportunity to make such friends.
Nandos in there is still good.
You're playing at the top end of town. If you really need hyperfibre (who really needs HF?) it might be time to look at some dedicated 6E AP's and a dedicated router rather than an all-in-one solution.
Yes that’s kind of what I’m aiming for.
YMMV, with my Unifi setup at home, I'm getting my wireless gigabit speed perfectly fine lol.
I should have stuck with Ubiquiti - thanks for this info.
That's pretty much what I was guessing. When they're being assholes, we can end up dealing with stress, anger, frustration, etc. And of course, it can take a lot of time and effort to work through that. What methods have you already tried? (I don't want to suggest stuff that didn't work for you.)
No specific methods, any suggestions are welcome.
Okay, then-- first, how much time do you have to spend with or near them? Are you able to distance yourself, even if it's only for an hour or two, or are they forcing you to stay within their reach?
Yes I can distance myself, probably there is necessary contact 3-4 times a week, but there is distance in between.
Whos wondering what race they were ya monkey dirty people exist in all races
True dat, Brad Pitt doesn’t bath
Your comment comes off pretty ignorant. There’s a lot of planning that goes into a homebirth, and it’s more than “hoping for the best”. There are also TONS of reasons women and families choose homebirth over hospitals or even birthing centers. How is this any different than your air bnb being rented for kinky sex or an orgy? Frankly it’s none of your business what it’s being used for, what’s the difference what happened there as long as it’s returned clean.
It’s not ignorant at all. This is a sub for AirBNB hosts. It’s their property, it’s 100% their business. Some might be willing to rent with the risks involved and others may not. If people want to home birth at locations that aren’t their own homes then maybe they should book hotels where the manager is less likely to own the hotel and care about what happens at the premises.
I'm not sure how to say this, but you could always try to find a way to "alienate" these folks so they would stop concerning themselves with you.
You’ve said it well. I am trying to ghost a few which is sort of working. If I wasn’t conflict/drama averse I could work up to something stronger!
I feel that fam. I just try to surround myself with people who bring the best out of me and (aside from financial motivation) cut out those that negatively impact my conscious. I think it’s a constant battle that comes with living in a society.
“I think it’s a constant battle that comes with living in a society” is 💯.
I like it! The cafe food is excellent.
This is textbook NIMBYism but I still have empathy for the dude tbh. If you absolutely loved your place and it was being developed next door into a massive development you’d be upset too I bet.
I wouldn’t consider myself a Nimby and am sometimes in the building industry. Some new buildings popped up near us and suddenly I found myself nimbying because they are very ugly. I’m not opposed to HD housing, it would be nice if it was feasible financially to develop with cladding & exteriors that were more aesthetically appealing #nimbyproblems
I’m in this exact situation now - cannot sleep on my 10 year old $$$ sleepyhead mattress it’s sumping and can constantly feel the springs coming up through foam. Anyways was wondering what you ended up going for? 😅
Ended up buying the Nero Medium boxed mattress from Target Furniture - it was much cheaper than all the other options and they had stock. It was recommended by a friend and I find it excellent! The only thing it is lacking is the cooling properties, especially on really hot days, but otherwise I am very happy with it.
She stays 100% entitled throughout. Painful personality.
Anyone thinking of building this type of house in this street would be over capitalising. It’s as simple as that. As an individual couple building this house and expecting $3.2 is just not realistic in my opinion. The market just isn’t there. The $3m+ market has better options in better positions. Good luck to them honestly, but it’s an irrational purchase at this stage considering how bespoke the taste of the interior is.
Also like who would drop $3M+ on a niche house that was put together over 12 weeks, painted by the contestants. That’s the cost of the house plus additional $$$ on any rework that needs to be done to fix anything. It doesn’t make financial sense.
I said that at the time! Probably got caught up in the whole emotion of it before hand then on auction day a big ol dose of reality set in and didn’t know how to back out and save face (or mucho $$$). Also might have been legit but is suspicious fo sho.
Yeah like if it was legit wouldn’t she have bought the house already if she wanted it?
AirBNB support really doesn’t seem to care about supporting hosts which I don’t understand.