NTA. Good for you. Sucks if he doesn't like the consequences of his own selfish actions. You deserve a hell of a lot better than the pos you're married to, OP.
You're going to need a few teeth pulled, at least a few fillings, maybe root canals + crowns. You aren't at an irreversible stage yet but you'll end up there if you don't do something fast. Get your oral hygiene together and get a checkup at the dentist ASAP
Take your time. Do what feels right for your family (wife and baby). Easier said than done but work at not thinking about relatives who treat you like crap. They all know how your egg donor is but are cowards who want to sacrifice you so they don't have to deal with her malfunctions. She's a professional victim who is addicted to drama so it's always going to be something from her. An apology from her is insufficient. This woman needs professional help. DNA doesn't make you family. It makes you related. Family are the people who love and support you. Family are the people you can count on. This internet stranger is so damned proud of you and your wife. Stay strong and keep pushing through. It really does get easier.
NTA and document this incident in the divorce as to why stbx should have limited, supervised visits only. Clearly he can't be trusted to protect his children. Thank you for being a good mom.
NTA and YIKES. Girl, start documenting everything. On your psychotic MIL and mama's boy as well. When you divorce him you'll be able to legally keep her away from your child. He clearly will not protect his child and should have monitored visits only. You aren't alienating your MIL, her disrespect and psychotic behavior is.
It's why I was so tragically pro Olitz for so long. They were horribly toxic, but man they looked good together. That said, I stopped watching it and couldn't even tell you who ended up together, it's sad when a show that hooks you so obsessively at the start falls so far off a cliff later on.
It was so good for a while there!! The toxic characters were too much for me and I drew the line at the obvious Donald Trump character. I remember specifically telling someone that I watch TV for escapism and in 2015/2016 the "ripped from the headlines" stories were 100% not what I wanted.
NTA. She literally abandoned you. She does not deserve another chance. Tell your dad he isn't any better and your mom will no doubt find another bf she can abandon you for again so she'll be alright. You don't owe either of them a damn thing.
NTA. If the genders were reversed that would be looked at like a sex criminal. You told everyone you could and tried to avoid it. Anyone outside of her and her parents being salty is an asshole too.
You are correct. He'd have been put UNDER the jail if he'd sexually harassed and assaulted her like she did him. Also his ex and her parents knew it wasn't a joke. They just wanted him to put up with it so they didn't have to deal with it. The gf even got mad when he protected himself by avoiding Eppstein house. The entire family is trash and I recommend he avoid. Double standards and hypocrisy out of control here.
Were you never 20 years old? You never kissed a girl who had a boyfriend? Do you think sensibility magically overcomes emotion at that age? She promised to love him forever. This isn't a friend or coworker. He's her son. And she's going to break him for "humiliating her femininity." I've been cheated on. I assure you it hurts, but not as much as being rejected by a parent. She's doing this because of her ego. When her son kills himself in 10 years, you think she should just say it was good own descion? You think that's right? It's just too easy hate and divide. Maybe you challenge your beliefs.
Let dh read it and send it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with your response.
Don't let them come crawling back.
I would vote for a dem corpse over ANY republican.
NTA. Good for you. Sucks if he doesn't like the consequences of his own selfish actions. You deserve a hell of a lot better than the pos you're married to, OP.
Queen!!!!!!! So happy for you and proud of you.
Every person who votes for them feels the same.
You don't need a baker, you need a fucking wizard
Or wal-mart. :facepalm::facepalm:
NTA. As my mom used to tell us kids, don't dish it if you can't take it.
You're going to need a few teeth pulled, at least a few fillings, maybe root canals + crowns. You aren't at an irreversible stage yet but you'll end up there if you don't do something fast. Get your oral hygiene together and get a checkup at the dentist ASAP
It's way too expensive.
20-40 a month for dental care
That's for insurance that will only cover max 30% of massive amounts for procedures.
Awww, so smart.
Yes, he actually told my wife last night that it was because my mom couldnāt live so close to us and not see her grandchild.
It's truly pathetic when people refuse to take responsibility for their own actions. Block them all.
Thank you!
Take your time. Do what feels right for your family (wife and baby). Easier said than done but work at not thinking about relatives who treat you like crap. They all know how your egg donor is but are cowards who want to sacrifice you so they don't have to deal with her malfunctions. She's a professional victim who is addicted to drama so it's always going to be something from her. An apology from her is insufficient. This woman needs professional help. DNA doesn't make you family. It makes you related. Family are the people who love and support you. Family are the people you can count on. This internet stranger is so damned proud of you and your wife. Stay strong and keep pushing through. It really does get easier.
They want to use OP as their care taker. Avoid.
NTA and document this incident in the divorce as to why stbx should have limited, supervised visits only. Clearly he can't be trusted to protect his children. Thank you for being a good mom.
Give her the same energy and MAKE your husband go to therapy.
NTA and YIKES. Girl, start documenting everything. On your psychotic MIL and mama's boy as well. When you divorce him you'll be able to legally keep her away from your child. He clearly will not protect his child and should have monitored visits only. You aren't alienating your MIL, her disrespect and psychotic behavior is.
Why are you still with him?
NTA. You'd be a fool to not renew. Keep them out of your life.
NTA
Definitely not. He's a keeper awayer.
It's why I was so tragically pro Olitz for so long. They were horribly toxic, but man they looked good together. That said, I stopped watching it and couldn't even tell you who ended up together, it's sad when a show that hooks you so obsessively at the start falls so far off a cliff later on.
Totally agree. Such twists!!! And then... blah.
It was so good for a while there!! The toxic characters were too much for me and I drew the line at the obvious Donald Trump character. I remember specifically telling someone that I watch TV for escapism and in 2015/2016 the "ripped from the headlines" stories were 100% not what I wanted.
Totally agree. Especially on the escapism.
You only have 1 child. See an attorney asap.
This is why everyone should get themselves sterilized as a big eff you to the trash who has a problem trying to control others.
NTA. She literally abandoned you. She does not deserve another chance. Tell your dad he isn't any better and your mom will no doubt find another bf she can abandon you for again so she'll be alright. You don't owe either of them a damn thing.
NTA. If the genders were reversed that would be looked at like a sex criminal. You told everyone you could and tried to avoid it. Anyone outside of her and her parents being salty is an asshole too.
You are correct. He'd have been put UNDER the jail if he'd sexually harassed and assaulted her like she did him. Also his ex and her parents knew it wasn't a joke. They just wanted him to put up with it so they didn't have to deal with it. The gf even got mad when he protected himself by avoiding Eppstein house. The entire family is trash and I recommend he avoid. Double standards and hypocrisy out of control here.
Fine, take the action not dating out of it - yeah, that was her choice. You're right. Who cares what her reasons were.
Agree. People inadvertently reveal their character (or lack of it) every day.
Were you never 20 years old? You never kissed a girl who had a boyfriend? Do you think sensibility magically overcomes emotion at that age? She promised to love him forever. This isn't a friend or coworker. He's her son. And she's going to break him for "humiliating her femininity." I've been cheated on. I assure you it hurts, but not as much as being rejected by a parent. She's doing this because of her ego. When her son kills himself in 10 years, you think she should just say it was good own descion? You think that's right? It's just too easy hate and divide. Maybe you challenge your beliefs.
Wow.
You need a lawyer.
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Tell your family to stop bullying you. It's funny they refuse to see their own behavior.
Uhhhhhhhhā¦ What? Please read what you just wrote aloud āif only they didnāt want me aroundā.
They clearly DON'T care. They've chosen the bully and the gc.