AITA for ruining my brother's relationship because i wanted his girlfriend to be more involved with our family?

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I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed.

A sense of impending doom

Are you being serious right now?

  1. Maybe. I'm just nervous to bring it up because arguments🤣🤦

  2. Bring it up as concern for adult stepkid and their wellbeing. “What if something were to happen to us, he needs to be able to navigate the world without us. It’s much better for his mental health to learn to stand on his own two feet now, while we’re here to catch him if he falls”

  3. As an actual Christian gal myself (not fundie), I feel like this is super explicit!! How is this different than content conservatives usually get upset about?

  4. Because it came from a Good Christian Wife™️, that makes it God honoring explicit content 😄

  5. Men like blow jobs so much that they’ll accept them even if we insist on calling them blowies, beejers, slobber-jobbers. I get a kick out of propositioning my partner in the least sexy ways possible and I’m still pretty much batting 1,000.

  6. Yesterday I told my husband to checkout my guns 💪when he was in the shower right before we were about to be together. He looked out of the shower door quickly and gave me a little chuckle… then when he was getting ready to climb up onto our bed and get busy I hit him with “ahhh, so you’re ready to get down with ‘Ole Buns and Guns now!!!” And flexed a little 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I cackled at my own joke, and he definitely groaned at it… but two seconds later we were busy getting busy anyway 💪🤣

  7. He's only got one, and it bounces around in his head like the DVD logo

  8. The Orange babies all share 1 single brain cell, and some go their whole orange lives never having a turn with it 🤣🤭 it sounds like yours is hogging that 1 single cell from everyone else…

  9. hahaha it’s bc it’s some dumb shit i came up with on my own one day when i first started doomscrolling here at FSU after getting bored of duggar snark a couple years ago 😂

  10. That’s hilarious!!! I was definitely thinking that sounded like something Mr. Hairspray might actually try… 🤣

  11. This PSA being clearly brought to you by the mom cat featured in this video lmao

  12. This used to be my DH(not holding them accountable during his short custody time) But I'm so proud of him: Recently he went to pick up SS18 and SD15 to take them to dinner. His kids are generally respectful, But SS that day was super mad(had a bad day I guess) and he proceeded to take it out on my DH and shout at him for things out of DHs control, etc.

  13. My 11 month old is currently learning to use a fork, she can get her greens even with a plastic one 🤣

  14. This is the biggest non-problem I’ve ever seen on this sub.

  15. (They’re 21, 16, and 14) not all adults but i completely agree with you! Leave them money for pizza and tell them to text if there’s any issues that come up… and then go enjoy your sisters wedding 😄

  16. Who in their right mind calls a 14 yr old ‘grown’? I just can’t with this OP

  17. But I have my own wife, and I can't handle just one, how am I gonna fare with two?

  18. Theoretically they might just get along so well they handle each other… 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

  19. Finances are a common reason for relationship breakdown, but his reaction to your request for equality is very telling. He’s upset he can’t manipulate you - that’s the mega problem.

  20. That’s exactly what I was coming to the comments to say myself! It makes me wonder how else he might be manipulating OP

  21. I think that’s all of them, but if I missed any I’ll be sure to share them with you also! ☺️

  22. He shouldn't have gotten into the relationship if he didn't have time to make me a priority.

  23. Oh, he absolutely expected them to pay for both trips because that’s tradition. Someone pointed out that tradition also states the groomsmen PLAN the bachelor party. He said something like yeah, but I’m worried they would pick something boring.

  24. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  25. That is refreshing to hear. I feel terrible because I can’t see him as my own. Even though his mom doesn’t do much she still messages him. I completely resent her too for thinking I’ll just pick up where she left off. Like I said, I can’t seem to put all the prices together. It’s not black and white.

  26. Your husband’s son is your Child-in-Law, just like if he has a sister she’s your Sister-in-Law, you wouldn’t feel terrible for not seeing her as your own sister too would you?

  27. Thanks for the assurance. Thing is; she is not shy about introducing me to friend or even stand by me or give me a good bye hug in front of friends. It’s like the only behaviour indicating this is that she doesn’t say I love you to anyone.

  28. I think that her actions speak louder than her lack of words. Just keep up what you’re doing, it’s clear she cares about you. This sounds a bit like autism to me tbh, but even if it’s completely not, it’s probably not something you can just “fix”. If she’s going to feel comfortable saying it it’ll come in it’s own time. Pressure or force to change is often what causes kids to push back or regress.

  29. Super easy. If your kid is prone to screaming don't take him/her to crowded public places. If the baby screams, take him/her out. Problem solved.

  30. Yes!!!!!!!!!! INCREDIBLY so!!!!! I’m just struggling to keep up physically, like literally my sexual organs are sore this morning, and things like that are why I’m struggling, but it’s NOTHING about how attracted I am to him, he’s the HOTTEST person I’ve EVER SEEN!!!!!

  31. I mean, there's hand stuff you can still enthusiastically do while the parts recover.

  32. Yeah, definitely!!! I do that everyday pretty much, and I’m always enthusiastic!!! He often wakes me up 4 or more times a night to “give him a hand” with his troubles. We have small children so that’s tough because they need me too, no matter how tired I am in the morning/throughout the day, but I do that with a smile too!

  33. My SD13 has done this weird thing for YEARS, she asks me to help her find things that she already knows exactly where they are and she pretends to not see them until I help her, and it only ever happens when we’re both getting along especially well… I can’t put my finger on exactly what is motivating her to do this, but since it doesn’t feel negatively motivated I play along and “help” her… 🤷🏻‍♀️

  34. This is the same child that laughs at special education children at her junior high for crying (I know because she recorded it and shared it online, we only saw it because her phone had taken away due to similar behavior/bullying) and who thinks it’s ok to say the N word because in her words “people don’t REALLY take it personally, they KNOW she’s just kidding….” Her bio parents and I are all disgusted by her actions and are working hard to correct these and other behaviors…. So I don’t take ANYTHING she does at face value, and I probably won’t for quite a while

  35. Long story. To make it short SD was born when my husband and BM were teenagers and BM's family took responsibility. My husband was only able to start having a relationship with her when the grandfather died and by that time he was already living in the US

  36. Honestly, it sounds to me like he didn’t bond with her correctly. He knows he fathered her but he was never her dad…

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