Been struggling making friends in college, today a girl I like said “I made you something”

  1. I love it when people just go the extra mile like that. There is a girl here who I don't talk to much but I have always taken the time to talk to when passing by her or in class. Well just yesterday she walked up to me and gave me a jar of sea shells and said I think you'll enjoy selling these on the seashore.

  2. That's normal in college life. You have to keep your composure, and enjoy it. With that present she gave, it is only just the beginning.

  3. The bracelet is cute and all but what beautiful nails you have! Mine always chip and are usually dirty, I really like your hands! Good luck making friends ♡

  4. I'm an auto mechanic, my hands are so dirty and scratched up all the time lol it would take a full month for them to look as nice as OP's

  5. Two things that'll make you stand out of the crowd- nice hands and nice shoes. The shoes don't have to be expensive as long as they're well kept.

  6. My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.

  7. I'm assuming you're female and the poster is male. The nail issue is due to testosterone production I believe. The testosterone seems to produce stronger nails.

  8. One of my biggest regrets from college was not doing enough. I didn't join any clubs and I didn't have any friends. I just went to class and came back to my dorm and that was it. And graduated by the skin of my teeth

  9. A lot of times, friends you meet in college are friends of convenience. Not always, but many. There's only 1 person I met in college that I'm still in contact with. Everyone else has spread all over the world and don't care enough to keep in touch. Now the friends I made after college, they're sticking around and actually make an effort.

  10. That was high school for me. Painfully shy and awkward and decided enough was enough and in college I did the opposite. Joined several clubs and a fraternity. Got my first gf. I overcame a lot of fears. The turning point was me being at HS graduation and the only friends I had were going off to a party without me. I just went home and sat alone in my room that night.

  11. Good things happen in time. I didn’t actually make a friend til my second year and in my third year we started hanging out more and then in my senior year that friend kind of introduced me to his group of friends and now they’re my friends.

  12. Such pretty colors! And there's a pattern to the colors too! And as a fellow hairy armed girl who hates trimming arm hair, you're beautiful just the way you are!

  13. Listen, I only made like three lasting friendships in college and hung out with one friend most of the time. Wouldn’t trade it for a huge group of friends. One is all you need! Looks like you’re already on your way to making one!

  14. Dang dude you got lucky, return the favor with a Starbucks gift card, then ask if you can join her for a cup of coffee oneday

  15. How nice. Remember there are others that feel the way you do. Finding friends is kind of like rock hunting. There are a lot of stones and only a few gems.

  16. What a sweet gift….rough days can be the worst but you have people in your corner! Have a great day today!

  17. What an awesome gesture - every time you look at it I hope that it reminds you that you made a positive enough impression on someone to take the time to make that and have the courage to give it to you.

  18. There's other kind people out there that want to make connections, it's just hard because some of us are introverted and shy! This is so pure.

  19. This reminds me of my young daughters. They love to make bracelets, cards, etc. for their friends, even brand new friends. So we can learn from this! It works for adults too!

  20. At first college can look tough, but trust me, you will remember this time like the best years of your life!

  21. No idea why this made me so happy, I love these little moments in life, something so simple makes a fucking world of difference. Everyone should be nicer man it's beutiful.

  22. I think you found one. Think of it this way... if you do not put yourself out there opportunity cannot find you. This applies to meeting people and your career.

  23. Plot twist: The curse has now been passed on to you. You need to give the bracelet to someone else or you’ll die in 7 days.

  24. Don't overthink, I use to be introvert and just wanted to fit in during high school. In university you will find all kind of people and possibilities, good friendship take time.

  25. Awe Nice dude, I’ve also been struggling but I found a neat trick to making friends, help them, for example I’m in electrical engineering and the guy in the booth next to me missed the whole class cus he didn’t have the right PPE, so I filled him in when he got back and we’ve been tight ever since, another time I was helping buddy with his CAD and two others in my class were struggling and I helped them too, two more friends just like that, good luck! You got this!

  26. Yeah this is a good sign that you arent actually struggling to make friends, you just feel that way due to anxiety!

  27. Amazing! Few things better than the knowledge that someone poured their effort into creating something with you in mind. She’s a good egg. College can be hard but you will adjust and be okay! I believe in you.

  28. The controversial comments are fucking terrifying. "She's into you bro", "ask her out" and "girls that gift you something are making a move" not knowing that the OP is not a man.

  29. insert tears My young son went to his first birthday party recently, his new friend made him a friendship bracelet. Now he’s making bracelets for everyone he meets—

  30. Then she sees this, and ghosts you. Try not to over romanticize simple gestures, play things cool (shoot your shot though), and definitely don't post things girls did for you on the internet. Good luck.

  31. Keep trying different clubs, keep talking to strangers you never spoken to, know what your hobbies are and interests and find like minded people. The only true loner, are those who gives up and stop trying. If you don’t want that, then you must be keep trying.

  32. I love it. This might be an unpopular opinion, but college really isn't about friendships, it's a time when may of us find ourselves for the first time.

  33. What was your response. You should of instantly asked for digits. She was thinking about you dude and made you something. She likes you

  34. It’s platonic, we’ve talked before and we met last year. I’ve always liked her and really wanted to be friends but I was always nervous about being annoying or something

  35. I started out with also hanging out with a lot of people in college, mostly because of DOTA, bisyo at good time, it started to dwindle as time went by and studies got in the way.

  36. The best thing about college is that it's so much bigger than high school and if you don't connect with someone you can move on to another group and try again.

  37. My son is currently in his freshman year and I’m getting calls about how people have “grouped up” and he’s just not a person he feels people want to know. It’s heartbreaking. He’s a really nice a funny person and gets along with anyone so I’m not sure what the issue is other than college is big and so it’s going to just take time?

  38. I too have been having difficulty socializing in college. I'm autistic and my life at home has been affecting me even more and I feel left out by everyone. I'm so glad you found someone that cares this much about you. Keep her ❤️

  39. It looks very similar to mine which I was given to me by my nurse at the time she made a major decision and left the nursing profession. She gave me the bracelet to wear and to always remember her whenever I looked at the bracelet. Now I am a male who normally doesn't wear anything on my arms. So this is very special to me to wear it each and every day.

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