Bernie wasn't in the wrong for what she did

  1. i think a lot of people don't have a problem with berni breaking up, but the "why" is the big problem. at least that's how it is for me. Berni had 1,000,000 good reasons to break up with Andrew, but none of them was the reason. it didn't seem to bother her that andrew stalked her and traveled so far to do it. there was just another guy who looked better and that's why she broke up. I would have LOVED if she broke up because of the stalking, because of his jealousy, or because he objectified her, but she didn't care, she wasn't even mad. that's my problem with the breakup.

  2. I agree. I don’t think I saw many posts defending Andrew, but I’m also not here a lot lol. The one guy I did see defend Andrew just used age as a defense, and when I explained the other aspects, he said he saw himself in Andrew.

  3. I didn’t realize people were defending Andrew, but I don’t exactly frequent this sub so I guess that slipped past me. I think a lot of us see a bit of ourselves in Andrew (with the whole being young and in love thing, not the jerking off to tomatoes thing lol) so I definitely felt bad for him when he ruined shit with her, but I never for a second thought Bernie was wrong for doing it. Andrews toxic and has a lot of shit to work through. You don’t just show up to your SO’s place unannounced and start freaking out like he did and act like that isn’t a gigantic red flag.

  4. For me it was just shitty "how" she dumped him. For a hot guy best friend admitting he has feelings for her in front of Andrew. Like she could have waited til later to pull Andrew aside and tell him it wasn't going to work or broken up with him sooner. Andrew isn't perfect but he didn't deserve that. Bernie could have handled it better tbh.

  5. Big Mouth is popular with many age groups, so I think - at least I hope - that most of the "Defense of Andrew" comments are made by teenagers that still have some emotional maturation to undergo.

  6. I like the fact that your trying to be a dick head over me saying something a lot of people didn't get apparently due to the amount of posts and comments saying she's a bitch

  7. I'm extremely antisocial because of my autism, so I never had any friends or a girlfriend, for that matter. As such, I cannot relate to anything middle school relationship-related, but that doesn't mean I don't feel for those suffering because I'm put in their position and understand the situations.

  8. Agree 100%, most of the people that I see saying otherwise are chronically online men that act like me are entitled to women.

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