What do you want?

  1. Shit this feels way too familiar to me. Every day, a new problem, another family drama... Life is already passing way too fast and everyone tells you to go faster. I just wanna look at some nice clouds or a cool landscape...

  2. “If you truly want to escape the things that harass you. What you’re needing is not to be in a different place but to be a different person”

  3. A really good hobby that I can't put down. That I can't wait to pour free minutes into, that I think about all the time because of the joy it brings me.

  4. Not a cheap hobby, but for me right now it's mountain biking. It takes up so much space in my head all the damn time. If I'm not out riding, I would rather be. While I ride I'm right there in the moment. Everything else in life is on mute, and all I can think of is railing the next corner, popping just right off the next jump. There's nothing else like it.

  5. If you're anything like me thats impossible because you can't just focus on one hobby or interest and need to maintain multiple at the same time.

  6. Maybe try going to the gym. It sounds like it'd be boring but it's so stress relieving. And if you take up Strength Training, you will vastly improve your aesthetics. It's addictive! I go to the gym almost every night, and I look forward to it all day! A hobby that gives back.

  7. I have 9 hobbies and my life is a mess for it. I'm trying to clean out my house, but my wife moved in last year and she has hobbies too.

  8. to know whats wrong. sometimes i feel melancholic and dont know why, i notice stress physically before i feel it mentally and then i dont know what exactly stresses me out so that would be helpful

  9. Dude, that could be a hormonal malfunction, I’ve had it before and I felt the same sometimes. Ones of the symptoms:

  10. This is such a simple thing, yet over half of the largest generation in history has had it stolen out from under them.

  11. Years ago, I started "offering" hugs as a joke. Like when people didn't look very happy, I'd offer them one almost as a joke, not expecting to be taken seriously.

  12. Being healthy enough to start traveling around the world without caring about the money. And right now a pizza would be good too

  13. A real genuine reason to live. I'm so tired of the "think of your family/dog/friend" sort of bullshit. I want something that makes me want to be alive. A hobby I can fall in love with, a career that not only doesn't drain my life force but actively engages me throughout the day, hell even just someone that makes me feel like I matter. Something that makes me feel like I am not just here to eat, breathe, sleep repeat until I am ashes in the wind.

  14. I have no idea what your situation is but this really resonated with me. And as far as work goes, I’m still searching in that regard so I can’t really help there but a few years ago I needed the same thing. I just wanted to feel alive. Wanted to feel something that made me be okay and fucking SATISFIED with being alive, instead of the same old shit.

  15. honestly this, nothing is motivating except the shit I do on my own time and volution, everything else feels like im a pet being spoken down to by its owner. I do not care about 90% of the things that currently exist, nor will I ever as they do not align with my philosophy and morals.

  16. God, I hate the idea of telling someone who wants to die that they shouldn't because someone else has ownership over their life.

  17. Im on the same boat. Pro Tip, start making a list of things you are interested in adn are not. You may find you are interested in things you didnt think you would. I was n the mentality the hobby has to come to me but we can come to the hobby. Im hoping to be joining a few poetry slams in my area and just spit out raw emotional words to strangers and vise versa. Good luck pal.

  18. You know that movie trope where someone is too depressed to take care of themself, so someone makes them a bath and washes their hair and then brushes it for them and tucks them into bed?

  19. I am doing this for my teenage son who is depressed. I'll draw his bath, make him food, tuck him into bed(even though he's been there 98% of the day)

  20. My husband has had to do this for me several times due to depressive episodes getting so bad. It being one time is very endearing.. but multiple shows a huge issue. It was wearing on him and straining our relationship. I finally got into counseling and got medicated and regulated. Much better now, but I do agree, those kinds of selfless acts of love just fill your heart and soul

  21. It's a weird feeling to be content. Like, I don't have much but I don't really need anything either right now. I have a bed, PS5, TV, wine, stuff for cooking, car and a nice bathroom. I'm not really sure what else I need.

  22. It’s unfortunate that people our age weren’t encouraged to reflect on emotion regulation the way kids are made aware of it today. You’re at step one trying to unravel a whole life of habituated response. But your awareness and commitment give you the fuel you need to do the work. You’re at the most painful part of the change cycle - you know there’s a problem you’re clear on the consequence but action seems impossible. Keep going to therapy, if you really engage and it still isn’t helping, find another practitioner or program until you get a good fit. Then do the work. It’s hard but like any exercise with repetition it becomes reflexive. You can do it.

  23. I feel this. As I get older I realize that no one is doing good unless... people do good. Every thing out there was done by someone who actually got off their ass and did good.

  24. "I'd like to live just long enough to be there when they cut off your head and stick it on a pike as a warning to the next ten generations that some favors come with too high a price. I'd look up at your lifeless eyes and wave like this. Can you and your associates arrange it for me, Mr. Morden?"

  25. "You really want to know what I want? You really want to know the truth? I want my people to reclaim their rightful place in the galaxy. I want to see the Centauri stretch forth their hand again and command the stars. I want a rebirth of glory, a renaissance of power. I want to stop running through my life like a man late for an appointment, afraid to look back or to look forward. I want us to be what we used to be! I want - I want it all back, the way that it was! Does that answer your question?"

  26. Vir was an unsung hero of that series. Poor bastard was on the sidelines of so much terrible shit. Powerless, only able to watch as it all went to pieces around him.

  27. And thus Vir became the only one to get what he wanted from Mr. Morden without having cause to regret it.

  28. What do I want? I want a fair world - a world where Babylon 5 gets the recognition it deserves - where J. Michael Straczynski is recognised as the genius and pioneer that he is - where the top comment on a question like this is naturally a reference to Kosh.

  29. I was waiting way to long for a bab5 quote. But you found the perfect one. The shadows question: What do you want? We need a sister thread with "Who are you?"

  30. Seems like a lot of the world don’t give a fuck about either of these enough. Seems so achievable though, if only…

  31. I want my current girlfriend to love me. We were together for the first 4 months, then went long distance. Have had a few two week visits since then and it’s nearly 10 months. But now she keeps talking about how she’s worried that she’s too young for serious commitment and doesn’t know what she wants. She says she loved me but I can barely a text back.

  32. That's rough and really puts my own problems in perspective. I hope things take a turn for the better soon.

  33. I'll have two number 9s, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45s, one with cheese, and a large soda.

  34. I just want my girlfriend to be happy, shit has been so tough for her, it’s been tough for her and she’s attempted suicide twice, I just want us to be happy together, we live long distance so what I really want to do is fly out to see her one day

  35. I know how that feels. My ex was the suicidal type and i wanted to love and care for her because she was almost basically my twin. Then she broke up with me because she believed it was better to fix herself alone but i took that the wrong way. That was 4 years ago.

  36. I just want a house on a large property way the fuck away from people so i can do my own shit on my own time and be as mentally unstable as i please all without the concern of others.

  37. To be honest though, I just want a fucking life. Just to get out more, meet more people, go places idk. I just want to live more I guess

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