If you were forced to marry the person you lost your virginity to, how would your life be going right now?

  1. I think it would have been just fine. She was/is a wonderful woman. But I wouldn't trade the 40 years I had with my late wife, including all the ups and the downs, for anything in the world. And when she left me, she left me with two wonderful sons and two fantastic grandchildren.

  2. Same here. I was with peron i loved and if it would go on it would be nice. We split because love didn't last and if it would, it should be just fine. Now I am in relationship i wouldn't trade for the previous big love. I'm happy where I am. No regrets.

  3. That was really nice to read! As for my first, I dont think it would have been a happy marriage. Last I heard she is an alcholoic and hooked on drugs.

  4. Same. My ex had a good job but mentally he would've driven me to becoming as much of an alcoholic as he was if not worse.

  5. Same here, but glad he is ex. My first real relationship as a teen, and I didn't really know how to stand up for myself at the time. He was 20 and a jerk to me a lot. He cheated on me right before he broke up with me and then bragged about it when he dumped me. He got her knocked up and married her less than a year later. When I heard about the upcoming nuptials, my first thought was "that could have been me" and was so relieved it wasn't. From what I was told she miscarried but they still got married. I was told he didn't really want to tho. I would have been miserable. Absolutely miserable had I been stuck with him.

  6. Mine was a stay at home wife that had five affairs that I know of in the space of two years in the early eighties, she wanted to aggressively argue every day over nothing, thankfully she ran off with a loft insulator, if I were still with her I reckon the affairs tally would be a 100 by now, I'm the type that would never cheat in a marriage, just one of those mugs that have to pay out thousands.

  7. Same here. We were quite young when we lost our virginities together 15&16. Been together for 7 years and married for 2.

  8. Me and my wife can fairly say we are each others first and last. We were each other's first during highschool. Broke up. Got thru college and adult life. Got back together and got married this time. Our story went full circle.

  9. Exactly, the same. Only ever had sex with the man who is now my husband. Together since we were 16. Got married at 19. We're both about to turn 24. Good jobs, our own house, just had our first child, he's still my best friend. There have been hard times, but I would do everything over again to be here with him.

  10. Not good. He was a sweet down-to-earth dude who turned into a massive asshole after he landed an amazing job opportunity and his dad got him a flashy car. It's like he turned into the biggest douche overnight and then dumped me over the phone probably because he thought he was now out of my league. My heart was broken but life goes on. I learned many years ago that he lost this high profile job, and because he got this job through nepotism and not because he actually knew what he was doing, he couldn't find the same type of job or at least work in the same field. He got recommended by a company to get a degree (which they would sponser) so he could return to the industry but he refused because he was under the impression that he knows more than everyone yada yada. He did nothing about the situation and ended up working at a gas station where he still is now, all these years later. I can't imagine how someone with this attitude could be a good partner in life. I would have been miserable.

  11. It might be ok, but not nearly as good as it is now. He’s a great person and I’m still in contact with him, but we weren’t meant to be together forever.

  12. This is how I feel too. He was/is a great guy. His family is awesome and all my family loved him. Sadly I didn’t! I got a lot of flack for breaking his heart, but after me, he met his now wife and they’ve got a lovely family. I met my now husband around the same time and we’ve got 3 kids. I think we both thought we were happy together but I’m glad we got a chance to realise we were simply contented.

  13. Yeah I can second this, similar story. We were in love back then but we were very young and still had lots to learn about ourselves and life. I still think highly of him, but we developed in different directions.

  14. Yeah, I mean, we would have made it work. He’s grown up a lot since we broke up, as have I. I think we would have made the best of it, but even that best wouldn’t be as good as it is now.

  15. Sounds about right. She was lovely, her family was great, we had an amazing time together growing up into adults, but we wanted different things, so broke up after school. Went to different universities and both met someone that made us happy and the contact naturally dried up.

  16. It would be completely the same, because I did marry the person whom I lost my virginity to. Almost 22 year now and we are still in love.

  17. Probably would have been awesome for a year or two - she was a legit Penthouse centerfold girl. Guarantee she would have got bored with me and moved on pretty quickly. Then I probably would have gravitated back to the path I've been on for the last 40 years and ended up right where I am.

  18. Had a buddy who dated a PH model, she was a crazy, jealous psycho. Lucky for him it didn’t last.

  19. Sorta same, I've just decided that since it wasn't consentual it doesn't count, so I never even count it among my experiences.

  20. Oof sorry. So fucked up that that’s a reality for a lot of girls around the world - being forced to marry someone who raped them. Anyways I hope that person gets a ton of massive kidney stones and then dies from sepsis after being unable to pass one 🙏

  21. I’ve thought about this from time to time. She ended up getting engaged a few times but never married. Ended up getting pregnant from a sperm donor and has been a single mom by choice for the last decade. Recently she came out not exactly as transgender but more like non-binary. Seems to be happy. I honestly have no idea what would have happened if we’d ended up together. I didn’t and still don’t want kids so that may have been a stumbling block. Also I had severe wanderlust after graduating from university and ended up on the other side of the country. Not sure if I would have been interested in staying in our home town and I’m pretty sure she never had any interest in leaving. So… either things would have hit some major roadblocks and we’d have split up after a few years. Or maybe I’d end up comfortable and lose the desire to move away and maybe settle down and have kids. Unlikely though.

  22. It wouldn't be terrible, he's a good dude and we agree on a lot of life stuff. We'd have a fun lifestyle except in the bedroom, we stopped being sexually compatible and that's why I broke up with him.

  23. Did your parents pressure you? My first marriage was an absolute nightmare. My parents nagged us to get married even though they barely knew him. He ended up being an absolute psycho.

  24. The guy I lost my virginity to is Turkish, and we broke up partly because his mum hated my guts because he wasn't dating someone of their own religion, and then partly because I discovered he had a 'thing' for girls like Bella Poarch and who acted like her. So if I married him? I wouldn't know sanity if it smashed me in the head with a brick rolled in glue, then dipped in a bowl of razor blades and lemon juice.

  25. Yikes… More than likely loveless & still be in our hometown. Definitely banging anyone else but each other, and living on her daddy’s money:under his control. Massive bullet dodged.

  26. No different as I married him 💕 I’ve seen this comment a few times which is so lovely to see! We met at 17 and will celebrate 17 years together this coming March 😊

  27. She married someone else. Divorced them, married me, divorced me when someone better off came along. So, if I was forced to marry her now, apart from the bigamy, it would mean I'd have to be a lot better off, financially, than I am actualy am.

  28. We were 15 and in love (aka horny) and he said he would marry me and buy me a double wide while he perused professional wrestling. I was heartbroken when he dumped me for the hoe next door 😂 Ps- only 1 of his promises came true and it wasn’t me or the wrestling gig

  29. No idea what she’s doing now. But if the last couple months of our relationship were any indication we would probably be in a loveless, miserable marriage.

  30. Pretty sure I’d be in some religious cult and suffering from severe mental illness but I’d have a hot AF wife

  31. I wonder that myself. Wish I could see the “alternate ending” version of things. He’s a sweetheart and we could’ve made a good life together but I’m happy with the way things are.

  32. Personally I’d be eating a gun right now if that were the case. Bad enough there’s one crazy in the relationship, but two? Oh Hell No!!!

  33. Honestly, probably be doing great. I still love the guy with all my heart and he loves me. He just had and still has a lot of shit going on rn

  34. In therapy at the very least. He was 11 years older and it turned out those “jokes” about me being too old for him….weren’t jokes.

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