Do your children own their stuff ?

Of couse it's the kids' clothes. Don't ever need to "allow" cuz it's literally the clothes that the children wear.

That's a very reasonable mentality to have

Their stuff is theirs. One thing I do tell them though is that their electronics are useless without the electricity, internet, phone plan, and big TV. I think it's important to know that there a lot more going into things than what they may realize.

My dad said the same lol

Child’s clothes. You don’t get to say a gift is “yours” once you’ve given it and the same applies to a parent purchasing essential goods for their kid.

It's their clothes. I gave the items to them. We did hand me downs but only after they outgrew the clothes. And then that was for younger kids who didn't care.

Anything I buy or give my son it's his personal property.

Anything that could reasonably be considered 'theirs' is, clothes isn't even something I would consider as not to be honest.

My children own their things I buy them. I’m not that petty. Now, my home is my home, they occupy space here. LoL

I take a different approach. It is our home. We need to take care of it together.

I think it’s very important for kids to have ownership over the stuff that they have and use regularly.

The clothes belong to the kid but occasionally she needs a reminder of how she got them when she gets huffy about not getting something.

Yes

Who wears the clothes? The person who wears the clothes is whose they are, or who the clothes belong to. Period. Who cares who bought them?

hahaha