We had been broken up for a long while and he would still bother me, emailing me he was going to off himself...I would panic bc I was afraid for him so often I'd reach out to his mom to give her a heads up. But it was so exhausting. My best friends told me I needed to stop letting him have that control over me, so when he started threats again...I just disregarded, even though I was so worried(bc I was like what if this time he's serious) and I left it all alone and did nothing...later I see he's on Twitter tweeting about how excited he is for the next day bc some plans he had to play some game. I was like off himself and then play video games after huh? 🥴🥴
The projection is what kills me. How can they not even see that they're projecting their own shitty behavior onto their targets? I got the cheater who liked to harass me at work and call me a whore. Uh... okay dude.
Ufff mine would always say he didn't want me having any male friends. NOR male doctor or therapist!!!! He would tell me to find new doctors!!! Bc he said there was always that "chance" they'd hit on me....as IF I'd somehow have NO self control IF that unlikely chance would even happen! Only to find out he was talking to this girl who he had on Twitter when I stopped using it so he thought I wouldn't find out he was tweeting to her asking how much a gram of her bath water would cost. Fucking weirdo
sh is something a lot of people don’t even register as a thing so unless they know it’s sh, lots of people will just have absolutely no clue what the scars are from and are more likely just concerned if anything, while not going about it the best way…
Ugh. I hear u. My mother is the same way. She won't let me help her. She takes an hour to clean herself up, and I always have to help in the end anyway. That's not the only thing either. My mother thinks I lie to her. About strange things. She thought I was hiding apples from her. Apples. There's no rhyme or reason.
Omg I know EXACTLY what you mean about them thinking we lie 😭 I have been there!! We have passed that phase for the most part. It was a frequent thing before but not so much now! Please DM me if you ever need to talk and vent!!! 🤍
Losing Toileting is one of the biggest indignities of aging and dementia. Of all of the issues, switching to Depends and accepting that she had to “go” in them because she was bed bound was the absolute hardest thing for my Mom.
I think the being in there with her and say I'll help her (mentioning to her ONLY if she needs me) maybe that will work. I don't want to make her feel embarrassed at all and don't want to force help on her. I want to offer it and make her feel comfortable to ask for help if she realizes she's struggling a little. Thank you for your insight 🤍
My friends were getting excited for me, “this could be their year!” They said. I told him to keep their mouth shut, because they clearly haven’t seen the Cowboys and a playoff game before.
Dallas had the number one offense and a top ten defense a few seasons ago and did nothing with it. They have the talent but no passion and lousy coaching. Plus a delusional owner who fires a back-to-back superbowl winning coach because he wants to micro manage the team.
I think it varies depending on the form of dementia someone has, from what I've seen and from the posts here. My grandmother showed some signs that I realize I previously overlooked... she would constantly blame others for things she did, swearing she didn't do them. She would lose items and accuse me of stealing them(this time was so rough bc she was always in this paranoid phase) she started telling stories from the past too, but adding things that didn't really happen. Also, are you very stressed bc I know I too can get forgetful sometimes and I know stress can be a contributing factor. I worry about it as well but I think for the most part my memory is good. But I get very worried also bc you never know 😞
So no, we can't have them cut it here at home bc one of the reasons we also go for a cut...is so she can enjoy the whole wash too. She just sometimes gets paranoid she will be left bald. She has never liked long hair on herself and always had shorter hair. It's been in her eyes lately and she keeps getting irritated wanting it away from her face, brushing it different ways doesn't work bc it's grown so much. So it's time for a trim. Thinking we will just have to really mention it as a spa like pampering session
Yes I've seen and know of that but sometimes nothing works which is why I was asking anyone for any tips/advice if they themselves have encountered this particular scenario
I wish it would be that simple for my grandmother, we tried and she was definitely adamant that she doesn't need them despite all the accidents she has had 😓
Actually no but we do have some bed pads that I think we will just try putting down for her and we will just try and make it a "let's just try these out to see how we like them" and see if she won't get upset bc she is very sensitive and often feels attacked or offended anytime we suggest anything so it's been ROUGH to say the least
We had been broken up for a long while and he would still bother me, emailing me he was going to off himself...I would panic bc I was afraid for him so often I'd reach out to his mom to give her a heads up. But it was so exhausting. My best friends told me I needed to stop letting him have that control over me, so when he started threats again...I just disregarded, even though I was so worried(bc I was like what if this time he's serious) and I left it all alone and did nothing...later I see he's on Twitter tweeting about how excited he is for the next day bc some plans he had to play some game. I was like off himself and then play video games after huh? 🥴🥴
The projection is what kills me. How can they not even see that they're projecting their own shitty behavior onto their targets? I got the cheater who liked to harass me at work and call me a whore. Uh... okay dude.
Ufff mine would always say he didn't want me having any male friends. NOR male doctor or therapist!!!! He would tell me to find new doctors!!! Bc he said there was always that "chance" they'd hit on me....as IF I'd somehow have NO self control IF that unlikely chance would even happen! Only to find out he was talking to this girl who he had on Twitter when I stopped using it so he thought I wouldn't find out he was tweeting to her asking how much a gram of her bath water would cost. Fucking weirdo
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sh is something a lot of people don’t even register as a thing so unless they know it’s sh, lots of people will just have absolutely no clue what the scars are from and are more likely just concerned if anything, while not going about it the best way…
THIS. It's so true. I once had a family member ask me in front of everyone, putting me on the spot asking "OMG WHAT'S THAT!?!" I froze
Ugh. I hear u. My mother is the same way. She won't let me help her. She takes an hour to clean herself up, and I always have to help in the end anyway. That's not the only thing either. My mother thinks I lie to her. About strange things. She thought I was hiding apples from her. Apples. There's no rhyme or reason.
Omg I know EXACTLY what you mean about them thinking we lie 😭 I have been there!! We have passed that phase for the most part. It was a frequent thing before but not so much now! Please DM me if you ever need to talk and vent!!! 🤍
Losing Toileting is one of the biggest indignities of aging and dementia. Of all of the issues, switching to Depends and accepting that she had to “go” in them because she was bed bound was the absolute hardest thing for my Mom.
I think the being in there with her and say I'll help her (mentioning to her ONLY if she needs me) maybe that will work. I don't want to make her feel embarrassed at all and don't want to force help on her. I want to offer it and make her feel comfortable to ask for help if she realizes she's struggling a little. Thank you for your insight 🤍
Exactly. The curse will continue until he adapts or dies. And he refuses to do either.
💀💀💀💀💀he refuses to do either. I'm going to hell for laughing so hard about that one
Honestly probably the black cat that would run around the field
As long as the Eagles don’t win I don’t really care at this point.
SAME 😂
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I legit started crying of frustration, yes I'm a big fuckin baby. Idk why I even EVER get excited.
We all get duped my friend
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Fuck dude I hope you feel better and that something really good happens for you tomorrow. Hang in there!
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Go to your sub. Go away
Fuckin hate it here man. We can never even get excited about anything ever. & Yup posts are slowly being deleted.
Mods better not delete this. I wanna know everyone's thoughts on this.
Dak extension for 60m/year before next season even starts.
THAT LAST PART!!!
I think this is jerry’s last straw. He’ll do anything it takes after this
You think so?? I'm losing hope completely 😭
Nothing ever changes!!
My friends were getting excited for me, “this could be their year!” They said. I told him to keep their mouth shut, because they clearly haven’t seen the Cowboys and a playoff game before.
SAME!!!!! I told my family and friends to stop telling me the same thing bc we all know what happens
Dallas had the number one offense and a top ten defense a few seasons ago and did nothing with it. They have the talent but no passion and lousy coaching. Plus a delusional owner who fires a back-to-back superbowl winning coach because he wants to micro manage the team.
THIS!!!!!!!!!
Yes! Love it! ☺️
So pretty!! 🤍
Happy birthday! 🥳
I think it varies depending on the form of dementia someone has, from what I've seen and from the posts here. My grandmother showed some signs that I realize I previously overlooked... she would constantly blame others for things she did, swearing she didn't do them. She would lose items and accuse me of stealing them(this time was so rough bc she was always in this paranoid phase) she started telling stories from the past too, but adding things that didn't really happen. Also, are you very stressed bc I know I too can get forgetful sometimes and I know stress can be a contributing factor. I worry about it as well but I think for the most part my memory is good. But I get very worried also bc you never know 😞
You're so beautiful ☺️
Way to go girly!! You're doing great!!🥳🤍
Happy Birthday! 🥳
Might she accept a haircut at home? You might be able to get someone to come to her.
So no, we can't have them cut it here at home bc one of the reasons we also go for a cut...is so she can enjoy the whole wash too. She just sometimes gets paranoid she will be left bald. She has never liked long hair on herself and always had shorter hair. It's been in her eyes lately and she keeps getting irritated wanting it away from her face, brushing it different ways doesn't work bc it's grown so much. So it's time for a trim. Thinking we will just have to really mention it as a spa like pampering session
Has your Grandmother been prescribed anything for her anxiety?
Yes I've seen and know of that but sometimes nothing works which is why I was asking anyone for any tips/advice if they themselves have encountered this particular scenario
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I wish it would be that simple for my grandmother, we tried and she was definitely adamant that she doesn't need them despite all the accidents she has had 😓
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Actually no but we do have some bed pads that I think we will just try putting down for her and we will just try and make it a "let's just try these out to see how we like them" and see if she won't get upset bc she is very sensitive and often feels attacked or offended anytime we suggest anything so it's been ROUGH to say the least