yeah rape was DEFINITELY not broadly illegal 200 years ago. back then it was basically considered 'property damage' (unless it's your own wife, then it's fine!) (disgusting)
I agree with you. I think it hurt his ego more than anything. Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesnt a sleeve increase size? Maybe it could be that he doesnt want people to think he has a small penis. Either way dude talk to your wife and establish strict boundaries with her. Give her a warning and let her know exactly how you are feeling.
(Sorry if duplicate but by comment disappeared) I second UU. Sometimes I have a feeling like church was just a place for queer people to gather back when it wasn't socially acceptable to be queer or areligious based on number of queer people.
Thirding UU! In my old city they were very involved in activism, both for LGBT issues & for racial justice issues. Their space was always open for anyone who needed it. In my new city, they just hosted a queer craft fair & a trans lesbian wedding.
haha from what I've seen, there seems to be a lot of people who like the community & rituals of going to church, but either dont believe in god or had bad experiences in other churches.
Nerves are super weird. I haven’t had too yet but I had surgery for thoracic outlet syndrome years ago and as my damaged nerves regrew, I got some super bizarre stuff happening with misdirected sensations and intense temporary sensitivities. One time exactly half of my index finger spontaneously pruned up like when you spend too long in the water and stayed that way for nearly half an hour. For like two and a half years every time I got horny my wrists would tingle. The motor nerves were affected too, one day a significant reconnection to my thumb happened and I ended up accidentally launching my leftover takeout halfway across the kitchen because my grip calibration was no longer remotely accurate.
Even without a bidet, a simple shower massage on a hose makes it possible to reach difficult to clean areas. Unless you’re absolutely homeless, you probably have access to running water and soap. There’s simply no excuse for this sort of filth. I can’t imagine why someone would put up with this.
I know multiple actually homeless people who still manage to have good hygiene! leagues better than this guy, who presumably lives in a real house with a shower & at least one sink
In my case I'm not completely flat, because my shitty low blood pressure almost killed my nips mid-surgery lol (even tho they were still connected to the stalk). I told my doc to prioritize keeping them functional, so she left a little tissue & is doing a revision in a couple months to finish the job.
Happened to me as well ugh. The issue is that health insurance never has the ability to put preferred name/pronouns on the account and the agents are required to use your name and say sir/ma’am
I hate when employees are required to use honorifics. It's so old fashioned, & so easy to go wrong. I hate being called ma'am for obvious reasons....but every cis women I know also hates getting ma'am'd, because it makes them feel old!
Similar here! I did burlesque and do all the gender bendy bits. I want to make a metallic version that’s well disguised until I reveal and then remove it :))) I hope you have so much fun and the most spectacular act, king!
ohh this does seem like a good option!! i definitely want to prioritize NOT being that teardrop shape. :) do you think i’m small enough to qualify?? any other info that may be helpful??
Youre a good size for it, & you should definitely ask at your consultation! it partially depends on skin elasticity, which we can't really tell from a pic.
Yess I have all these skimpy little tops with cutouts and I can't wait for summer so i can wear them. Also during pride season ohhh my god this year's pride month is gonna go so hard dude
There's a bunch of weird-ass names in the Netherlands. Basically everybody was 'son of' for ages (you were Peter Johnson, then your son would be Michael Peterson, then Jack Michaels etc etc). until Napoleon came along and made us French for a while. He mandated proper last names that would carry over and had to be registered. So you got a lot of names that were still son of (but wouldn't change), or "of my hometown" or 'my profession". And then you had a couple of guys that just thought "YOLOOOOO I'm sure it'll got back to normal after Napoleon". So then you get Poepjens (little poos), Lachniet (doesn't smile), Schele (Cross-eyed), Naaktgeboren (born naked)...you get the iea
Planet Fitness banned a cis woman for filming a trans women in the locker room. The trans woman was being normal & minding her own business. The cis woman was breaking the pretty normal & reasonable rule of "dont film people in locker rooms without their consent".
It's bizarre how all the people who go on and on about the horrors of HRT and how it's "unnaturally" messing with your hormones/etc. are totally fine with HRT when it's being prescribed to cis people. Like hormonal birth control, for example, which is often prescribed to help with menopause, or like, I'm cis and I'm taking it now to help with PCOS... and people with PCOS are also often prescribed spironolactone, because it's a hormone issue that's treated with hormone therapy. But when trans women want to take medication to increase estrogen and decrease testosterone, suddenly that's "dangerous".
My cis mom took "MTF hormones" because she was experiencing early menopause. She got "top surgery" for breast cancer - then got implants, bc she didn't feel comfortable in her titless body & wanted to modify it. Everyone was 100% okay with this. Insurance paid for the whole thing without requiring an abnormal amount of hoop-jumping
Impressive the number of redlibs in the comments ready even to support conservative media if someone dares only to pronounce the words "whore" and "homosexual". Bourgeoisie degeneracy put roots in their brain
bruh saying a meme sucks doesn't mean we like conservatives. youre doing the "oh so you like trump?" thing that libs do when we criticize them. be better than a lib.
What libs do is get offended by words and support identity politics to the point of criticising a meme criticising conservative media just because of "mean" words. Be better than a lib.
I can see like a very specific niche scenario (like David Reimer-esque) where they were originally male but raised female for whatever reason & transitioned back to being a dude. But that's like. probably not the case with the dude OP is talking about
i can't tell you what post-op vaginas smell or taste like but on a separate post on a different subreddit someone linked to pictures of how they look and i can assure you there is no noticeable difference. vaginas are already so varied among different cis women that if you mixed in the trans women's post-op vaginas with cis women's vaginas i wouldn't be able to pick them out. i really doubt anyone else would be able to either.
im convinced that terfs are only looking at the "<1 week post-surgery" pics, bc nothing looks good 4 days post-surgery. a ton of the fully healed pics look better than mine lol
The current law was written 20 years ago :/
yeah rape was DEFINITELY not broadly illegal 200 years ago. back then it was basically considered 'property damage' (unless it's your own wife, then it's fine!) (disgusting)
I agree with you. I think it hurt his ego more than anything. Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesnt a sleeve increase size? Maybe it could be that he doesnt want people to think he has a small penis. Either way dude talk to your wife and establish strict boundaries with her. Give her a warning and let her know exactly how you are feeling.
Yeah sleeves add girth & usually also length. I thought this post was going to be "my wife made fun of my small dick to her friends"
I'm gay and Muslim.
I wish people realized that Islam has the same breadth of belief that Christianity & Judaism do.
What really drives me nuts is when evangelical Christians appropriate Judaism. "Judeo-Christian values." And all that.
dont get me started about 'messianic jews' lol
Tongue would like to chat with you...
as if the men who made those laws were aware of cunnilingus....lmao
I mean, I do have a micro. And I want that fucking appreciated, not mocked.
That's not extreme at all - more people should know how they deserve to be treated!
(Sorry if duplicate but by comment disappeared) I second UU. Sometimes I have a feeling like church was just a place for queer people to gather back when it wasn't socially acceptable to be queer or areligious based on number of queer people.
Thirding UU! In my old city they were very involved in activism, both for LGBT issues & for racial justice issues. Their space was always open for anyone who needed it. In my new city, they just hosted a queer craft fair & a trans lesbian wedding.
haha from what I've seen, there seems to be a lot of people who like the community & rituals of going to church, but either dont believe in god or had bad experiences in other churches.
yeah all the presidential shit is absolutely a show. the only actual democracy americans have is at the local level
I was thinking that too... then she'd gleefully go "oh no, you can't transition now, a baby needs her mother"...
Somehow i dont think OP's sex-positive "let me buy you a strap on" mother is a hardcore christian....
Just as how not every Christian is evil, don't assume that there's only Christian weirdos. :P
Dont get me wrong, the mom is definitely a weirdo! just a different genre of weirdo than the religious weirdos
idk what my surgeon did but i had DI and my nipple sensation is higher after the graphs so ~ usually ~ it goes down but not guaranteed i would warn
huh that's crazy, I'd never heard of that before. Nerves are just weird sometimes I guess
Nerves are super weird. I haven’t had too yet but I had surgery for thoracic outlet syndrome years ago and as my damaged nerves regrew, I got some super bizarre stuff happening with misdirected sensations and intense temporary sensitivities. One time exactly half of my index finger spontaneously pruned up like when you spend too long in the water and stayed that way for nearly half an hour. For like two and a half years every time I got horny my wrists would tingle. The motor nerves were affected too, one day a significant reconnection to my thumb happened and I ended up accidentally launching my leftover takeout halfway across the kitchen because my grip calibration was no longer remotely accurate.
That's all so wild 😂 better than just hurting tho, I guess!
Even without a bidet, a simple shower massage on a hose makes it possible to reach difficult to clean areas. Unless you’re absolutely homeless, you probably have access to running water and soap. There’s simply no excuse for this sort of filth. I can’t imagine why someone would put up with this.
I know multiple actually homeless people who still manage to have good hygiene! leagues better than this guy, who presumably lives in a real house with a shower & at least one sink
Periareolar is when the tissue is removed from incisions around the nipple, leaving none of the large horizontal scars seen with double incision.
Oh! Does this make you as flat as regular DI or are there compromises like leaving some tissue or anything?
In my case I'm not completely flat, because my shitty low blood pressure almost killed my nips mid-surgery lol (even tho they were still connected to the stalk). I told my doc to prioritize keeping them functional, so she left a little tissue & is doing a revision in a couple months to finish the job.
Happened to me as well ugh. The issue is that health insurance never has the ability to put preferred name/pronouns on the account and the agents are required to use your name and say sir/ma’am
I hate when employees are required to use honorifics. It's so old fashioned, & so easy to go wrong. I hate being called ma'am for obvious reasons....but every cis women I know also hates getting ma'am'd, because it makes them feel old!
Blew it off but she was very visibly embarrassed which was good enough for me lol. I just started doing my shots at home after that
I hope the embarrassment made her act better for the next person! cuz damn
Similar here! I did burlesque and do all the gender bendy bits. I want to make a metallic version that’s well disguised until I reveal and then remove it :))) I hope you have so much fun and the most spectacular act, king!
that fucks so hard. you both sound so cool, I'd love to see these shows!
ohh this does seem like a good option!! i definitely want to prioritize NOT being that teardrop shape. :) do you think i’m small enough to qualify?? any other info that may be helpful??
I got buttonhole ('nipple sparing') double incision, & your chest looks just like mine used to!
Youre a good size for it, & you should definitely ask at your consultation! it partially depends on skin elasticity, which we can't really tell from a pic.
Yess I have all these skimpy little tops with cutouts and I can't wait for summer so i can wear them. Also during pride season ohhh my god this year's pride month is gonna go so hard dude
haha same....I've saved all these slutty little sheer / backless / deep V shirts for years, & i WILL be wearing the fuck out of them this summer
Men have better anatomy for anal sex so this is gonna backfire when you find out they love it.
Well then they can be the bottom all the time! problem solved
I hate the common phenomenon of men pestering their wives/gfs for sex when the lady is clearly tired, in pain, or clearly not in the mood.
There's a bunch of weird-ass names in the Netherlands. Basically everybody was 'son of' for ages (you were Peter Johnson, then your son would be Michael Peterson, then Jack Michaels etc etc). until Napoleon came along and made us French for a while. He mandated proper last names that would carry over and had to be registered. So you got a lot of names that were still son of (but wouldn't change), or "of my hometown" or 'my profession". And then you had a couple of guys that just thought "YOLOOOOO I'm sure it'll got back to normal after Napoleon". So then you get Poepjens (little poos), Lachniet (doesn't smile), Schele (Cross-eyed), Naaktgeboren (born naked)...you get the iea
tbh 'born naked' fucks as a last name, & i hope that one carries on forever
I'm pretty sure they're talking about Dylan Mulvaney.
Planet Fitness banned a cis woman for filming a trans women in the locker room. The trans woman was being normal & minding her own business. The cis woman was breaking the pretty normal & reasonable rule of "dont film people in locker rooms without their consent".
It's bizarre how all the people who go on and on about the horrors of HRT and how it's "unnaturally" messing with your hormones/etc. are totally fine with HRT when it's being prescribed to cis people. Like hormonal birth control, for example, which is often prescribed to help with menopause, or like, I'm cis and I'm taking it now to help with PCOS... and people with PCOS are also often prescribed spironolactone, because it's a hormone issue that's treated with hormone therapy. But when trans women want to take medication to increase estrogen and decrease testosterone, suddenly that's "dangerous".
My cis mom took "MTF hormones" because she was experiencing early menopause. She got "top surgery" for breast cancer - then got implants, bc she didn't feel comfortable in her titless body & wanted to modify it. Everyone was 100% okay with this. Insurance paid for the whole thing without requiring an abnormal amount of hoop-jumping
You realize I AGREE with you, right?
fair & you're right!
i have a buddy moved to reno, he has covered so much ground all through those mountains and it looks awesome
Can vouch that the terrain is great!
Impressive the number of redlibs in the comments ready even to support conservative media if someone dares only to pronounce the words "whore" and "homosexual". Bourgeoisie degeneracy put roots in their brain
bruh saying a meme sucks doesn't mean we like conservatives. youre doing the "oh so you like trump?" thing that libs do when we criticize them. be better than a lib.
What libs do is get offended by words and support identity politics to the point of criticising a meme criticising conservative media just because of "mean" words. Be better than a lib.
bruh i dont care about the word whore. im just saying sex workers & homos arent the ones upholding conservatism. like. materially thats just not true.
Except two elections ago was majorly important. Women are losing their rights thanks to that election.
Which happened in part because when democrats had the power to codify roe v wade to prevent that from happeneing, they wouldn't do it
I’m intersex and ftm, this shit still doesn’t make sense to me even if the guy was intersex as well
I can see like a very specific niche scenario (like David Reimer-esque) where they were originally male but raised female for whatever reason & transitioned back to being a dude. But that's like. probably not the case with the dude OP is talking about
i can't tell you what post-op vaginas smell or taste like but on a separate post on a different subreddit someone linked to pictures of how they look and i can assure you there is no noticeable difference. vaginas are already so varied among different cis women that if you mixed in the trans women's post-op vaginas with cis women's vaginas i wouldn't be able to pick them out. i really doubt anyone else would be able to either.
im convinced that terfs are only looking at the "<1 week post-surgery" pics, bc nothing looks good 4 days post-surgery. a ton of the fully healed pics look better than mine lol
I could have written the same about me and my gf too.
Plus I feel that being confident, whole, & happy as a single person means that you'll have a healthier relationship when you do meet someone!