Mine said “I was too good for her”. She was right, especially when she started to treat me like crap shortly after that comment. Another time I was graduating school and she made this comment “now I have to get you something” - never got me anything, not even a congratulations, nothing. It was really weird to hear at the time but it all adds up - she had problems that couldn’t be fixed.
Right? They understand the social obligation of getting gifts for accomplishments and will acknowledge that they need to do it, and somehow, them saying it is enough of an effort. They take "It's the thought that counts" to a whole new level. "I thought it, what more do you want?"
Give her some strong phrases that she can pull from. Get her to practice and roleplay with you so she gets strong in being able to pull them out when needed.
I had constant eczema behind my ears, horrible ulcers in my mouth, and a vitamin B12 deficiency that required monthly injections. Didn't even consider them "symptoms." Thought it was just things my body did that it'll do for life.
Seems like a lot of people are missing that you can buy as many regular shipping bins that you want from Robin to place on your farm. I keep one at each entrance, one by the greenhouse, one by my shed, one by my crops, etc.
Last week, she said, "You just gotta take the bad with the good. You can't just abandon a relationship." We were discussing why my cousin stayed with her homophobic, racist, unemployed, abusive boyfriend.
We drove to Clarenville from town and never got a glimpse of blue sky or the actual sun, but the two minutes of darkness during totality was one of the coolest and eeriest things I've ever experienced. So even though we technically didn't see "the eclipse," I'm still glad we made the drive to be there for that. The people who said it's worth the drive to the path of totality even on a cloudy day were 100% correct!!
I did the same drive out to Clarenville. Even with the clouds, totality was worth it. I dragged my cranky fadder with me, and he was complaining the whole way out. The moment it snapped from 99% to 100%, he realized it was more impressive than he expected.
Lots of theoretical things have names without having any practical existence. For example, you invading women's spaces to tone police them is an act of misogyny, whereas not accepting your misogyny is in fact, not misandry, despite you every so desperately wanting it to be.
I don't want to reply to the loser you're talking to and engage in a conversation with him. But 9 says ago he commented "I am a man," and now he's conveniently saying he's a woman. So don't believe a word he says. He's willing to lie to invalidate your point because he's got no intelligent argument against it.
When I texted "Good morning :)" and he went off on a word salad rant about how manipulative I was to use a smily face just to get him to give affection back. He had me convinced that I was controlling and expecting too much from him. It all finally dawned on me at that moment that I had been walking on eggshells and dancing around his whims and now he was mad about a fucking smily face. It was never going to get better.
Working out the relationship with my mother. She can be mean and rude, and I feel my relationship with her was why I was so susceptible to the abuse from my nex. Accepting bad behavior was normalized to me as a child.
What you're feeling is completely normal. Many of us have gone back and regret it. It's easy to remember all the good times and pretending that the bad wasn't as bad as we made it out to be. But it is. There is a reason you left.
Yes he wanted to be with me 24/7. When I woke up in the morning, he'd text good morning. He knew when I took my lunch break at work. He'd text for the whole hour when he knew I was going for a walk. He'd message me about food as I was getting groceries. Whenever my status showed online, he would immediately notice and flip me a text. He'd message me good night as I went to bed. It was overwhelming. There wasn't a moment he didn't want to spend with me. He'd want to actually hang out together whenever I had time, but any "alone" time I had, he was still there in my phone messaging, messaging, messaging.
Are there any gluten free Facebook groups in your area? Mine are all really active - one of the few things Facebook is useful for. It would help to share this with them.
Unfortunately, this is pretty common. Careful, he'll start learning therapy language and using it against you. Be prepared for "I don't have the bandwidth for that. Respect my boundaries. You're gas lighting me."
He had to sext with his ex because she had disassociative identity disorder and sometimes reverted back to when they were dating. You see, it would be bad for her mental health to snap her out of it, so he just had to reply in kind.
He isolated me away from everyone. I had nobody to talk to about what was going on except him.
Nex said early on that I would leave him and he was no good for me.
Same.
Mine said “I was too good for her”. She was right, especially when she started to treat me like crap shortly after that comment. Another time I was graduating school and she made this comment “now I have to get you something” - never got me anything, not even a congratulations, nothing. It was really weird to hear at the time but it all adds up - she had problems that couldn’t be fixed.
Right? They understand the social obligation of getting gifts for accomplishments and will acknowledge that they need to do it, and somehow, them saying it is enough of an effort. They take "It's the thought that counts" to a whole new level. "I thought it, what more do you want?"
Also, mine said - i dint tell you earlier cuz i knew how it would impact you and i dint want to upset u. 😅
Same. They've got an excuse for everything.
Give her some strong phrases that she can pull from. Get her to practice and roleplay with you so she gets strong in being able to pull them out when needed.
I had constant eczema behind my ears, horrible ulcers in my mouth, and a vitamin B12 deficiency that required monthly injections. Didn't even consider them "symptoms." Thought it was just things my body did that it'll do for life.
Talking about an event from 2014
And an article from 2019.
It really depends on the culture of where you live. You say people usually pay their own meals, so I'd say NTB
I don't want a casual relationship, but I do want to casually be having sex. I've had sex in every relationship I've been in right from the start.
You're allowed to leave for any reason.
Considering "a girl" is a female child from birth to age 16, the red flags would be with the parents not the child.
Yes, can we stop infantilizing women? You wouldn't title a thread, "What's the biggest red flag in a boy?"
Seems like a lot of people are missing that you can buy as many regular shipping bins that you want from Robin to place on your farm. I keep one at each entrance, one by the greenhouse, one by my shed, one by my crops, etc.
Last week, she said, "You just gotta take the bad with the good. You can't just abandon a relationship." We were discussing why my cousin stayed with her homophobic, racist, unemployed, abusive boyfriend.
I love a good "that's what she said" because it can be used in so many mundane situations to make them sexual.
We drove to Clarenville from town and never got a glimpse of blue sky or the actual sun, but the two minutes of darkness during totality was one of the coolest and eeriest things I've ever experienced. So even though we technically didn't see "the eclipse," I'm still glad we made the drive to be there for that. The people who said it's worth the drive to the path of totality even on a cloudy day were 100% correct!!
I did the same drive out to Clarenville. Even with the clouds, totality was worth it. I dragged my cranky fadder with me, and he was complaining the whole way out. The moment it snapped from 99% to 100%, he realized it was more impressive than he expected.
In between 8+ hours of work
All while building the international men's day parade float and setting up the male abuse shelters for them.
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Explain.
Lots of theoretical things have names without having any practical existence. For example, you invading women's spaces to tone police them is an act of misogyny, whereas not accepting your misogyny is in fact, not misandry, despite you every so desperately wanting it to be.
I don't want to reply to the loser you're talking to and engage in a conversation with him. But 9 says ago he commented "I am a man," and now he's conveniently saying he's a woman. So don't believe a word he says. He's willing to lie to invalidate your point because he's got no intelligent argument against it.
He's deleted it now and is pretending it never happened, doubling down trying to force his way.
Thanks for the update! I've got him blocked as I've got no interest in engaging with such disgusting men.
When I texted "Good morning :)" and he went off on a word salad rant about how manipulative I was to use a smily face just to get him to give affection back. He had me convinced that I was controlling and expecting too much from him. It all finally dawned on me at that moment that I had been walking on eggshells and dancing around his whims and now he was mad about a fucking smily face. It was never going to get better.
Working out the relationship with my mother. She can be mean and rude, and I feel my relationship with her was why I was so susceptible to the abuse from my nex. Accepting bad behavior was normalized to me as a child.
What you're feeling is completely normal. Many of us have gone back and regret it. It's easy to remember all the good times and pretending that the bad wasn't as bad as we made it out to be. But it is. There is a reason you left.
Yes he wanted to be with me 24/7. When I woke up in the morning, he'd text good morning. He knew when I took my lunch break at work. He'd text for the whole hour when he knew I was going for a walk. He'd message me about food as I was getting groceries. Whenever my status showed online, he would immediately notice and flip me a text. He'd message me good night as I went to bed. It was overwhelming. There wasn't a moment he didn't want to spend with me. He'd want to actually hang out together whenever I had time, but any "alone" time I had, he was still there in my phone messaging, messaging, messaging.
I did not say they should post in a Facebook group to "shut it down."
Are there any gluten free Facebook groups in your area? Mine are all really active - one of the few things Facebook is useful for. It would help to share this with them.
Unfortunately, this is pretty common. Careful, he'll start learning therapy language and using it against you. Be prepared for "I don't have the bandwidth for that. Respect my boundaries. You're gas lighting me."
He had to sext with his ex because she had disassociative identity disorder and sometimes reverted back to when they were dating. You see, it would be bad for her mental health to snap her out of it, so he just had to reply in kind.
Things got really bad, so I started doing a lot of personal work to improve our relationship.
I'm a Sims 4 player. It's trained me to be very tolerant of bugs.
Haha same. In comparison to the Sims 4, Palia is a polished gem.