Humans are naturally social. The way this is written anon seems to hope to feel something but is feeling dejected that he didn’t. He says he doesn’t want to be close to anyone, but if he was truly apathetic why not smash and leave? He also specifically mentions that she has agency ( why would this matter except to open the possibility of being chosen or left? ). The lack of feelings can just be dissociation from a deep fear.
They do it because someone else did it to them and then they joined in to not be bullied. As for what to do, depending on where you live that’s harassment based off of sexual orientation and isn’t legal. Beyond that I can’t really tell you.
It’s so weird how so many people here seem to be blaming women for society not caring about male suicide rates, aren’t men just as culpable, if not more so, when it comes to now doing anything about it?
The issue that I will scream from the rooftops is that the patriarchy impacts *both* sexes and is upheld by *both* sexes. We have made great strides in empowering women and changing our attitudes to their roles in society. The same cannot really be said about men. There is growing sentiment that male gender norms should be changed but the fact is that people tend to place the social pressures that cause them squarely on men. This is a problem everyone is responsible for, just like men had to take responsibility to not treat women like subservient humans.
A vet who goes crazy from PTSD isn't a sad origin story? And how do you go crazy from seeing "fucked up shit" if you have no soft spot for anyone? And how is a person actually evil if they have a traceable reason why they act that way?
Unfortunately OP as the bad gender we are expected to take the blame for the rest. It is what it is. I’m not clear on if you’re a man or amab but I don’t think it’s on you to take insults because someone has trauma. Though they are perfectly valid in having strong protective feelings that doesn’t make it acceptable. Just like anything people with BPD do we have take responsibility for what we say and do. I would say to make sure to validate feelings before saying something like that next time if you didn’t
I don’t have any advice but I’ve struggled with this a lot myself so I empathize. After feeling neglected at particularly difficult times I’ve had I just realized that I shouldn’t be placing them in such a high position and importance. I take them plainly as what they show me. So I’ve simply adjusted now and I prioritize myself more and I don’t treat them as close friends just people to hang out with.
Did it bum you out to do that? Was it hard to “demote” your friends, so to speak? I think I’d feel bad doing that, knowing it’s part of something they’re born with and can’t control too much.
It was much more painful hoping for more care from people who had no intention to do so. Let’s say they actually have no control over it, then what? What does suffering to try to force a close bond do for me? It is one-sided empathy for people who aren’t even asking for it. Nobody can do the work of both sides of a relationship. They have to change or I have to change my needs. So I changed my needs.
I started riding on an 07. It will wheelie and cruise just fine and handles extremely well but if you’re cruising at highway speeds it’s not comfortable and it’s not really made for it. I haven’t road an 09 but I can imagine the extra power going a long way for the mid to top end because I no longer ride the 07 after getting a cbr1000rr. So I’d say the 09.
If your source is online posts I’d be very careful about that when building your worldview. Online is not reality, there are millions of people in a country and we tend to focus on the vocal minority.
So… fear of intimacy?
Where do you read fear?
Humans are naturally social. The way this is written anon seems to hope to feel something but is feeling dejected that he didn’t. He says he doesn’t want to be close to anyone, but if he was truly apathetic why not smash and leave? He also specifically mentions that she has agency ( why would this matter except to open the possibility of being chosen or left? ). The lack of feelings can just be dissociation from a deep fear.
I just do it at home from YouTube videos. No religion involved just breathwork and meditation
Considering they used the word petrol this is not American
The government will never ban AI because doing so leaves us behind other countries
Man who claims to be Christian calls apologizing and turning the other cheek "pussy shit"
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What is your source for this? There are ~300k emergency room visits for dog bites per year in the US according to this study regardless of breed.
Don’t let women leech off your salary kings, they are equal now, getting more degrees than men, and you deserve to be spoiled too. Drizzle drizzle
They do it because someone else did it to them and then they joined in to not be bullied. As for what to do, depending on where you live that’s harassment based off of sexual orientation and isn’t legal. Beyond that I can’t really tell you.
It’s so weird how so many people here seem to be blaming women for society not caring about male suicide rates, aren’t men just as culpable, if not more so, when it comes to now doing anything about it?
The issue that I will scream from the rooftops is that the patriarchy impacts *both* sexes and is upheld by *both* sexes. We have made great strides in empowering women and changing our attitudes to their roles in society. The same cannot really be said about men. There is growing sentiment that male gender norms should be changed but the fact is that people tend to place the social pressures that cause them squarely on men. This is a problem everyone is responsible for, just like men had to take responsibility to not treat women like subservient humans.
I cannot for the life of me understand why a silly meme and a fun quiz is so serious
Gabor Mate, Robert Sapolsky, Bessel van der kolk
We can definitely afford to put more focus on people and not companies and cost saving
Does it turn
OP literally found a 20 year old photo and thought “I must post this!”.
That album right below it is from
Practice self-compassion. Easier said than done, but you can still hold yourself to a standard while having compassion for yourself.
A vet who goes crazy from PTSD isn't a sad origin story? And how do you go crazy from seeing "fucked up shit" if you have no soft spot for anyone? And how is a person actually evil if they have a traceable reason why they act that way?
If you're going to be this stubborn, you could just use they/them. Applies to anyone you meet.
Unfortunately OP as the bad gender we are expected to take the blame for the rest. It is what it is. I’m not clear on if you’re a man or amab but I don’t think it’s on you to take insults because someone has trauma. Though they are perfectly valid in having strong protective feelings that doesn’t make it acceptable. Just like anything people with BPD do we have take responsibility for what we say and do. I would say to make sure to validate feelings before saying something like that next time if you didn’t
Why is Jagex making this decision for me? If my cat rebels they will be turned to death runes
I don’t have any advice but I’ve struggled with this a lot myself so I empathize. After feeling neglected at particularly difficult times I’ve had I just realized that I shouldn’t be placing them in such a high position and importance. I take them plainly as what they show me. So I’ve simply adjusted now and I prioritize myself more and I don’t treat them as close friends just people to hang out with.
Did it bum you out to do that? Was it hard to “demote” your friends, so to speak? I think I’d feel bad doing that, knowing it’s part of something they’re born with and can’t control too much.
It was much more painful hoping for more care from people who had no intention to do so. Let’s say they actually have no control over it, then what? What does suffering to try to force a close bond do for me? It is one-sided empathy for people who aren’t even asking for it. Nobody can do the work of both sides of a relationship. They have to change or I have to change my needs. So I changed my needs.
I started riding on an 07. It will wheelie and cruise just fine and handles extremely well but if you’re cruising at highway speeds it’s not comfortable and it’s not really made for it. I haven’t road an 09 but I can imagine the extra power going a long way for the mid to top end because I no longer ride the 07 after getting a cbr1000rr. So I’d say the 09.
If your source is online posts I’d be very careful about that when building your worldview. Online is not reality, there are millions of people in a country and we tend to focus on the vocal minority.
disaster girl
Unfortunately thugging it out doesn’t really work in the long run.
I did take issue with the title being: “venting is always bad for you”. Always??