Whatttt I literally never said they canāt have their baby in a crib??? Iām saying they shouldnāt be in another room. Woah youāre clearly insecure about it and spreading misinformation. Saying a baby smelling their mom makes them sleep worse. Just think about that for a secondā¦..
Sleep training shouldnāt really happen until 5-6 months but you can definitely set a good foundation earlier. However, Iāve found that itās much more difficult to do with baby in room. Iād probably move baby at around 4-5 months then do formal training at 5-6 months, but I also moved mine at 12 weeks. Just moving her to her own space she slept light years better than in our room
There are some very sad women in this group that are oddly obsessed with the bowmars. I have no idea why. They would probably be happier if they just stopped paying attention to her.
I think that people are rightfully tired of being silenced and watching her bully people left and right, then playing the victim. It happens pretty much every single day.
Postpartum hair loss usually happens on the side of the head. That's what happened to me, just a small, not very noticeable chunk fell out. I would say her head is like this from not being clean and the extensions.
Hers is def from everything you mentioned, but PP hair loss can definitely happen all over. I literally look like I have baby hairs that run into sideburns currently and duck fathers sticking straight up in the back and Iām 10 months PPš„²š„²
Also 10m PP and also fuzzy little hairs everywhere on my head. No idea wtf to do with them theyāre insane haha eventually theyāre starting growing down instead of out right?? Haha
That pre-bed wake time is too short; I would consider pushing bedtime back to 8/8:15pm and see if that helps at all. Schedule changes can take a couple of weeks to work so you would need to stick with it!
So many people here recommended a 4 hour wake window for her final and it was too much. It created even more issues. Also, would that have any relevance in her fighting nap 2? Sheās going to bed and waking at DWT so that is definitely not our issue right now š„²
Fighting nap 2 is a sign of being under tired for it. If you don't want to lengthen the wake time before bed, you could consider shortening the first nap.
Thank you!! I actually did cap her nap today and she took her second nap! Not gonna get my hopes up until itās consistent but it was a bit of relief for one day
I donāt know how you feel about this but my baby was colicky also, she was not as old your baby now and still isnāt but- we went to a chiropractor and it really helped. I hope you find the solution and your baby starts to feel better soon!
Wondering the same and thatās about when our EMW started as well! Literally this week (she turns 9 mo next week) she started making it to 7 and I hope itās not a fluke
Yes 7 am. But itās just been this week. Before now it was 5:30 am everyday so weāll see if it sticks. But in the days sheās made it to 7am she has horrendous naps š«£
This made me LOL but now I also want to cry. The 3-2 nap transition was fucking HELL and lasted. A WHOLE. MONTH. Yes, thatās right. I drove myself crazy trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. My productivity went down at work bc I couldnāt stop. It was an obsession. A moving target every 1-2 weeks is about right. What did I get myself into?? Iām trying to roll with the changes but I donāt really ārollā, Iā¦ā¦. Am like a ball in a pinball machine. Sigh, I donāt know if Iāll ever get used to these constant changes.
We did 3-2 SEVEN weeks ago and still getting EMWās. Iām so frustrated. I think it was transition, then she was teething and now sheās hitting the 8 mo sleep regression all in a row so itās been šµāš«
Did you wait long enough for the change to go into effect? Mine is only 5 months but we changed her bedtime from 7 to 8, and it took a few weeks to get the wake up a little later
Just add 10-15 min to the last wake window every few days until you get there. Right now her daytime naps are still all over the place so if that last WW will be longer than 3 hours we do give her a 15 min nap to make it through lol
Yeah my 8 mo old is at 3.5 hours for last WW and sometimes her last nap ends at 3:30 so she wouldnāt make it until 8 haha. But sheās the same. Completely taps out at 10.5 hours no matter the bedtime.
Whatttt I literally never said they canāt have their baby in a crib??? Iām saying they shouldnāt be in another room. Woah youāre clearly insecure about it and spreading misinformation. Saying a baby smelling their mom makes them sleep worse. Just think about that for a secondā¦..
Girl you are not seriously implying having baby in their own room is abuse and neglect. My lord.
āWhy my kids arenāt goingā but he will do absolutely nothing to help with their education and make Ali do everything.
Sleep training shouldnāt really happen until 5-6 months but you can definitely set a good foundation earlier. However, Iāve found that itās much more difficult to do with baby in room. Iād probably move baby at around 4-5 months then do formal training at 5-6 months, but I also moved mine at 12 weeks. Just moving her to her own space she slept light years better than in our room
God forbid a doctor try to give actual medication to make a child better? lol jfc
There are some very sad women in this group that are oddly obsessed with the bowmars. I have no idea why. They would probably be happier if they just stopped paying attention to her.
I think that people are rightfully tired of being silenced and watching her bully people left and right, then playing the victim. It happens pretty much every single day.
Postpartum hair loss usually happens on the side of the head. That's what happened to me, just a small, not very noticeable chunk fell out. I would say her head is like this from not being clean and the extensions.
Hers is def from everything you mentioned, but PP hair loss can definitely happen all over. I literally look like I have baby hairs that run into sideburns currently and duck fathers sticking straight up in the back and Iām 10 months PPš„²š„²
Also 10m PP and also fuzzy little hairs everywhere on my head. No idea wtf to do with them theyāre insane haha eventually theyāre starting growing down instead of out right?? Haha
I hope so šš
That pre-bed wake time is too short; I would consider pushing bedtime back to 8/8:15pm and see if that helps at all. Schedule changes can take a couple of weeks to work so you would need to stick with it!
So many people here recommended a 4 hour wake window for her final and it was too much. It created even more issues. Also, would that have any relevance in her fighting nap 2? Sheās going to bed and waking at DWT so that is definitely not our issue right now š„²
Fighting nap 2 is a sign of being under tired for it. If you don't want to lengthen the wake time before bed, you could consider shortening the first nap.
Thank you!! I actually did cap her nap today and she took her second nap! Not gonna get my hopes up until itās consistent but it was a bit of relief for one day
I miss hate following her since Iāve been blocked š„²š„²
I donāt know how you feel about this but my baby was colicky also, she was not as old your baby now and still isnāt but- we went to a chiropractor and it really helped. I hope you find the solution and your baby starts to feel better soon!
Why is this getting down voted? Is chiros for infants controversial?
I don't think he's oblivious, i honestly think he doesn't care about her at all
I think he wants her to feel badly about her body until it is back to perfection
I chose that too and Iām still going strong
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View all stories here! Iām not blocked and still look here so she doesnāt get my engagement!
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Good thing no one asked for her fucking opinion
Iām so triggered by this logo after she messaged herself hate mail from this account šš
Ah same situation! Sorry for hijacking. My baby is 7 months today and weāve been struggling with EMW for ten weeks. TEN! He wakes between 4:15 - 5:00 for about 40 mins. We fall between undertired and over. Then as of last week, our naps went bad too: can no longer connect cycles and needs our help. Weāve decided to go cold turkey to 3/3/4 again and drop the last catnap, and hope that solves EMW but since itās been going on since he was 5 months old I donāt know if I believe anything anymore š© people say different things. Anyway I wonder if both can be true: that they can oscillate between under and overtired over a 24 hour period?
Wondering the same and thatās about when our EMW started as well! Literally this week (she turns 9 mo next week) she started making it to 7 and I hope itās not a fluke
Do you mean sheās making it at 7am? If so - DREAMY!! Maybe itās just developmental thing. I was really hoping it was caused by sunlight but honestly, we totally blacked out the room like crazy people and not figured out that heās actually waking just before Sunrise anyway š© I donāt know what to do anymore. Going to stick with 3/3/4 and cut our naps to 30 minutes and two hours respectively and, well, just cross fingers. Good for you though if youāve just started to see success
Yes 7 am. But itās just been this week. Before now it was 5:30 am everyday so weāll see if it sticks. But in the days sheās made it to 7am she has horrendous naps š«£
Worst sense of fashion. You are not 21 in college anymore. This is not Chasers.
Oh shit a UT alum š
Cool story Sarah
She's mentioned before that Josh doesn't watch her stories.
Lol I canāt blame him, Iām sure heās told her before sheās embarrassing and she flipped her shit and told him not to watch.
I just absolutely donāt believe that at not even 2 years old that O doesnāt still need a mid-day nap
āNight tremorā I really hope no one is actually paying her.
This made me LOL but now I also want to cry. The 3-2 nap transition was fucking HELL and lasted. A WHOLE. MONTH. Yes, thatās right. I drove myself crazy trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. My productivity went down at work bc I couldnāt stop. It was an obsession. A moving target every 1-2 weeks is about right. What did I get myself into?? Iām trying to roll with the changes but I donāt really ārollā, Iā¦ā¦. Am like a ball in a pinball machine. Sigh, I donāt know if Iāll ever get used to these constant changes.
We did 3-2 SEVEN weeks ago and still getting EMWās. Iām so frustrated. I think it was transition, then she was teething and now sheās hitting the 8 mo sleep regression all in a row so itās been šµāš«
Did you wait long enough for the change to go into effect? Mine is only 5 months but we changed her bedtime from 7 to 8, and it took a few weeks to get the wake up a little later
When you made this adjustment, how did you push back a whole hour without overtiredness? Did you add a nap in late in the day to get them through?
Just add 10-15 min to the last wake window every few days until you get there. Right now her daytime naps are still all over the place so if that last WW will be longer than 3 hours we do give her a 15 min nap to make it through lol
Yeah my 8 mo old is at 3.5 hours for last WW and sometimes her last nap ends at 3:30 so she wouldnāt make it until 8 haha. But sheās the same. Completely taps out at 10.5 hours no matter the bedtime.
She acts like she discovered and invented skin care.
No one is mad at you for ābouncing backā itās the unrealistic manner in which you did it, sis.
Ohhhhh my god
How to keep my businesses afloat without changing my shitty personality
i mentioned speech therapy on one of the postsā¦ but, i donāt have instagram. it was either a) a lurker on here or b) herself.
I mean do we actually have enough info to think her kid needs speech therapy? I doubt it.