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  1. NTA, you had a deal your following that deal, she wanted the cat she takes care of it.

  2. Do you realize her scooping the littler could permanently deform the child—or kill it? Very low probability, but non-zero.

  3. I used to have Hellofresh but got frustrated with some stuff. Decided to try all three. Now, just to warn you, my favorite Hellofresh meals were vegetarian, though I am an omnivore. So next I tried Home Chef. It had a lot of mystery ingredients, which made using it to find recipes I like bad. It also had very few veggie dishes. Next I tried Blue Apron.

  4. NTA. And this person you have allowed into your house is a way worse alternative to being single. Flush that turd.

  5. NTA. While mid-read, I was so afraid that you redecorated without their input or permission. That you used their choices and left them customizing options is heart-warming.

  6. I had friends in college who were in your situation. I recommend you give her some sperm and let her do with it as she wills after you die (if you die). You are going to need a lot of care and attention near the end. You know who else needs a lot of care and attention? A baby. I was good friends with the mother in the situation I described. How do you choose between being there for your dying partner and doing what your infant needs? You don’t. Not without incredible pain and deep, deep, deep regret. Also, dying after coming to peace with it is one thing: leaving your beloved child behind is another. A vial of fluid? Not so much.

  7. Seems like there is much, much more to this story.

  8. Yes, I probably should have said that. To me, it felt worse to say she sucks (even if she is part of everybody) than to say she is justified in being an asshole.

  9. I'm sorry if I didn't listen, I don't know how to behave in these situations, this is all new to me

  10. OK. I believe that what you tolerate, you encourage. Your boyfriend enjoyed torturing you. Do you want a relationship with someone who enjoys giving you pain? Some people do. Are you one of them?

  11. OP, unless this is the first time you have encountered this subreddit, you knew everyone was going to tell you to leave him. Why did you post? You are defending him and saying you are forgiving and you really love him and all that stuff people always say when they know in their hearts that something is just not right.

  12. You don’t trust her. Don’t get me wrong: I think you have reason not to trust her. But the relationship is probably over. The question is, how long are you willing to live in a corpse of a relationship?

  13. YTA. So, dude. Read your post again but switch the genders. I guarantee you, people reading that would be saying, where does that entitled princess get off. “Everything she wants is reasonable…because she says so. That poor boyfriend.” That’s what we are saying about you: entitled, selfish, and not in the relationship to give, just to get.

  14. I’m having a hard time believing you aren’t a troll. What you describe is just pathological enough that people might believe it is real. If you are not a troll, then you need help, dude. Like, if you can’t get therapy, try self-help books. Like this

  15. NTA, but girl, you should have thrown all the pies on the floor, left, and never talked to that guy again.

  16. His finances would be way worse if you divorced him. Yours would be better. NTA.

  17. Can he like… get help without getting in trouble. I really don’t want to ruin his life over a mistake

  18. SO glad someone else had my 1st thought! Kathy is a national treasure!

  19. Yeah, but my impression of Kathy is that she would be tickled by this, not insulted.

  20. If you had told me when I watched him in the 90s that I would love him now, I would never have believed it, but the man is a treat.

  21. In my imagination, mom finds this update and feels like the utter piece of histrionic, victims-grabbing shit she is.

  22. I don’t disagree with you, and I think you are giving OP the right answer, but the other adult in the situation—the girlfriend—I feel so bad for her. The older she gets, the harder it will be to find a new partner, and for someone who likes being paired, her kids are essentially torturing her. I wish they had a grandparent or something who could give them a little talking to about what loving their mother means.

  23. I just want you to know that your post was, to me, unreadable. The large caps. The formatting, the wording. Just unreadable.

  24. NTA and anyone who says ESH or YTA has never had to deal with narcissist in-laws.

  25. The only thing that confuses me is that from your text, you see that it is over and all you have to do is tell him it is over (which he already knows). Why are you talking about him as your partner instead of your ex-partner?

  26. Because I wanted to see whether we can salvage it. I didn’t say I’m breaking up but wanted to let him know that if things are not going to change meaningfully, we should go separate ways. Sorry, writing under emotions makes sense in one’s head.

  27. I didn’t mean to be critical. But from here, it’s over. There is literally nothing he could do that could excuse the way he prioritizes you. You will be more unhappy at first, but you will be happier in the long run if you split

  28. Anyone who adopts a child then changes the child’s name, whatever the reason, is an AH. You adopt a child and love them for who the child is - name and all. YTA and the child will resent you for it someday if you follow through.

  29. They didn’t change the name they call the child. Adoptive families come with all the complexities that non-adoptive families have. This is a complex issue, and they didn’t do anything to change the reality that the child sees. I don’t see how you can say he will resent them any more than any teenager resents their parents during the developmentally appropriate time to resent stuff.

  30. Give her a plug in heated throw (she can drape it over her knees when she is at her desk). There are tons of them online. They feel warmer and more constant than a space heater, and yet they don’t heat the space around them (by design) as much as a heater does.

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