Our experience is that it’s not necessarily fakes but a lot of people are not prepared for the lifestyle and get in too fast and end up having issues so they just disappear. The lifestyle quickly reveals the cracks in a relationship and if your not prepared to fix those in a healthy way then a lot of people just get out. You will learn quickly who is real by how they talk. We definitely don’t share photos right away and if they get mad or ghost then we figure they are not our type of people anyway.
They were wonky before the update too. At least for me. They'd randomly work but most often not. Maybe we'll get lucky and they fix it with the boot tuck in bug
We’vefound folks using our photos as far as 6 states away. It’s hysterical lol all our real profiles are verified though so we only meet through those.
Similar experience here. Only my wife got obsessed with this couple we met from hours away… she would ignore other closer couples in group texts in favor of them.
I have no experience with blue chew but I know that Roman provides “sildenafil” which is just generic viagra and works really well for me. But I think they’re probably very similar tbh.
Sounds like us and it’s completely normal. Between work, kids and life, she has no interest in spending time chatting. Our free time is almost just as rare as our adult nights at that time in our lives.
She has been hesitant about clubs in the past. She goes through waves of come confidence issues and has this idea in her head that if you don’t look like a porn star with washboard abs you’ll be shunned at the clubs
We don’t even entertain the idea of soft swaps anymore, and if she’s even real, we’d assume it was a very one-sided arrangement that’s a powderkeg for drama.
This all day. Some people have gotten offended when we don’t want to entertain soft swaps. I’m all for people doing what they want in the lifestyle but as you said, super powder keg if it’s a one sided arrangement. For us it’s also we don’t have a lot of time to get out so when we do we want to party lol. Not hang with some nervous nellies 🤷🏻♂️.
I’m the total opposite. I’m swinging situations I almost always struggle to get off. I don’t know if it’s the blue chew, nerves, the condoms, or just plain old sensory overload. Maybe it’s a combination of all of those things?
Post the together ones FOR SURE. If you’re worried about showing your face put those in the private section. We keep G rated photos public on ours and anything x rated in private galleries we can open for people we vibe with.
Our policy has been act without shame and no one has anything to use against you honestly. We have the same outlook as a few others on this post. We don’t broadcast it from the rooftops but don’t really care who knows. As long as it’s not our parents haha.
Yes definitely I'm going to be as low key as possible about this. Do you ever worry if you're outed that will somehow affect your job, or job security?
The basics. Condoms, lube, cleansing wipes, gum, deodorant, extra undies and the blue chew. Also a game usually if we’re meeting up with a new couple, a fun light for hotel rooms and a Bluetooth speaker. Also ibuprofen lol.
Our experience is that it’s not necessarily fakes but a lot of people are not prepared for the lifestyle and get in too fast and end up having issues so they just disappear. The lifestyle quickly reveals the cracks in a relationship and if your not prepared to fix those in a healthy way then a lot of people just get out. You will learn quickly who is real by how they talk. We definitely don’t share photos right away and if they get mad or ghost then we figure they are not our type of people anyway.
THIS we got in so quick and it wasn’t so much cracks in the relationship as the fact that it exposed how little free time we actually have 😑
They were wonky before the update too. At least for me. They'd randomly work but most often not. Maybe we'll get lucky and they fix it with the boot tuck in bug
This boot tuck in has been giving me horrible anxiety 😑
All my outfit updates don’t stay and I can’t customize the packs for each member of my team
We’vefound folks using our photos as far as 6 states away. It’s hysterical lol all our real profiles are verified though so we only meet through those.
Depends. Sometimes a few times a month. Sometimes not at all for months at a time. Life gets busy. It’s a hobby!
Similar experience here. Only my wife got obsessed with this couple we met from hours away… she would ignore other closer couples in group texts in favor of them.
I have no experience with blue chew but I know that Roman provides “sildenafil” which is just generic viagra and works really well for me. But I think they’re probably very similar tbh.
Bruh give the Blue Chew a shot. It’s still generic V but way cheaper than Roman from my memory.
She could be just too good looking and it makes dudes nervous 🤷🏻♂️. I keep blue chew on hand for when I’m intimidated by a major hottie lol
Vanilla friendly event. No play it’s an actual bar. Good crowd all kinds of people. Cool for making connections!
Sounds like us and it’s completely normal. Between work, kids and life, she has no interest in spending time chatting. Our free time is almost just as rare as our adult nights at that time in our lives.
Yeah i wasn’t ready for the ebb and flow or even aware it was a thing. We’re back into a more communicative place again and reaching out again. !
Does she feel the same about going to clubs? She may just not like the online thing.
She has been hesitant about clubs in the past. She goes through waves of come confidence issues and has this idea in her head that if you don’t look like a porn star with washboard abs you’ll be shunned at the clubs
We don’t even entertain the idea of soft swaps anymore, and if she’s even real, we’d assume it was a very one-sided arrangement that’s a powderkeg for drama.
This all day. Some people have gotten offended when we don’t want to entertain soft swaps. I’m all for people doing what they want in the lifestyle but as you said, super powder keg if it’s a one sided arrangement. For us it’s also we don’t have a lot of time to get out so when we do we want to party lol. Not hang with some nervous nellies 🤷🏻♂️.
You are sexy
It’s a dude
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩This is a dude using fake pictures. Half the comments he’s made on here say he has an 11 in bbc from Allentown…. PIC HUNTER 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Nice watch! Just bugs me that it says day date when it clearly is not.
This is like the dive dials in explorer cases that still say scuba or dive. I get the ick
I hope she gets poison ivy
37f36m voorhees ;)
Are you guys going to do a second run of these?
Some folks have scheduling issues. I know my wife and I require some patient matches to find a night we can get out!
I’m the total opposite. I’m swinging situations I almost always struggle to get off. I don’t know if it’s the blue chew, nerves, the condoms, or just plain old sensory overload. Maybe it’s a combination of all of those things?
Post the together ones FOR SURE. If you’re worried about showing your face put those in the private section. We keep G rated photos public on ours and anything x rated in private galleries we can open for people we vibe with.
Just shape it up a little tighter. Give it some shape. Hubs will regret it if it goes lol.
Our policy has been act without shame and no one has anything to use against you honestly. We have the same outlook as a few others on this post. We don’t broadcast it from the rooftops but don’t really care who knows. As long as it’s not our parents haha.
Yes definitely I'm going to be as low key as possible about this. Do you ever worry if you're outed that will somehow affect your job, or job security?
No lol there are actual OUT and proud swingers at my job. I’m not and we haven’t had to cross that bridge yet either lol
The basics. Condoms, lube, cleansing wipes, gum, deodorant, extra undies and the blue chew. Also a game usually if we’re meeting up with a new couple, a fun light for hotel rooms and a Bluetooth speaker. Also ibuprofen lol.