I am working on the same thing. I hate my last name because it is the last name of the person who abused me. It was so bad that I wanted to change it recently. The love of my life proposed to me and I was going to change it before than but now going to wait until I get married
Be honest and clear what you can offer and how it can be valuable to the influencer. Donât waste their time and donât beat around the bush about your expectations. Below is a couple examples of why I donât reply to brands, but I am not saying that you do this.
I donât really watch the bachelor but I was speaking of reality shows in general such as Christine from selling sunset, Francesca from perfect match and Alexandra Jarvis from selling OC.Â
Since u havenât watched the season, I recommend watching the episodes then letting us know how u feel. I think your opinion may change on her. Articles are meant to sway readers. Iâm not cool with the d3ath threats she says she is receiving but she has come off as a horrible person, as a bu1ly meant to push the negativity and hate towards Maria. Sheâs been doubling down instead of owning her nasty behavior and apologizing. From what we see, Maria hasnât done anything horrible to be called names from Sydney, Jess and Lea.
It may not come out that way but I am not choosing sides but just curious and would like to hear peopleâs opinions. The only opinion I have is the death threats are too far. Itâs one thing to discuss in here how you feel about the character or even comment on her video to tell her to calm down but the threats are too far. It is hard to truly know because of editing.
Continue to post content as you reach out. Donât lose momentum just because they donât reach out. Some take a while to reach out. It seems like you are adding yourself to databases. They will reach out once they have something that matches your credentials. In addition, I would look up fashion publicists and look for brands on LinkedIn. Search brand name + influencer/pr/public relationsÂ
You can let them know that the deliverables that they are requesting is for paid collabs only. You are willing to discuss the deliverables if they are willing to discuss payment. Otherwise, the requirement for gifted would be an in kind gift that you will post organicallyÂ
Unfortunately I work with tiktok shop sellers and most of them have a weird gmail account like this. But now Iâll know that if someone sends me a contract that requires me to download something itâs a trap.
I would message them to see if it is legitimate if you can. One main thing the scammers say is you will get free items that is month and shoutouts on their socials.Â
For pitches I usually introduce myself, say what I like about the brand, put a couple of post ideas, and ask if they'd be interested in collaborating. It's a good idea to do research on the brand so that you can speak to their values and talk about how they fit with yours! It feels weird at first, but it's not, they get pitches all the time, that's how the business works! It's the same for every freelance industry. Most won't reply, and I've given up at times. But there are ones who will reply and say they don't have any campaigns right now but will reach out in the future. I used to think they were lying, but they really will and have reached back out months and even up to a year later. It's a great way to build your network, but it is also a long game. Think of it as a strategy for introducing yourself and getting your name out there and you'll see the results a few months down the road if you do it consistently
I agree, it was nerve wrecking when I first started pitching afraid of what they may say but they have been so nice even when they say no. I did get brands reaching out when they can.Â
NTA, itâs easy to assume that you felt that you didnât have to pay given the circumstances but for them to think you paid? You even offered to help pay even though you thought they covered it. There was no indication that they expected you to pay. They were the ones pushing the drinks so they should have been responsible for those at the very least. It was a jerk move to add more drinks when they expect you to pay the whole bill. Yes, I agree there should be better communication about expectations but thatâs on them.Â
It hit me after watching it older. I was young and enjoy the obstacles but now itâs annoying that he let them tell him that he is an elder. They fought against the elders for worse but the fact that they just allowed them to break them apart again just because he is an elder. I canât believe would leave his family for that with no fight and even abandon his son. Like what! They just fought for their love. Piper even refused to help innocents to keep Leo. Leo could have at least said that yes I will accept but I am not leaving my family.Â
Definitely NTA, I canât believe she called you that and the son expected you to take it. You handled it better than I would but I understood as it made you happy to keep the grandchildren there. She owes you an apology.
Why would she need to be there rent free when she is paying her own rent and eating her own food. She stayed there because she felt the mom needed help and she is there without the boyfriend.Â
It seem like OP is only there because the mom canât be alone and is helping the mom out. The mom should be paying OP to take care of her but it seems like OP is being taken advantage of and made to believe that the mom canât be alone.Â
Thanks for your answer, I didnât think itâd be relevant there but Sam and I have a peculiar relationship. I guess thatâs what come out of arranged marriage. However I do cherish her and I think itâs mutual. She just has strong opinions and doesnât beat around the bush. From what I read, she isnât the only one thinking I am being stupid.
Who is the mother of your daughter? Your previous wife? It seems like Sam is the instigator in this. You deserve better than Sam. I would distance yourself from this situation and set your boundaries with your kids. They have no right to call you stupid.Â
NTA, your family is gaslighting you and not respecting your pain. They would have never chosen that name if it wasnât the name of someone you lost. They are trying to hurt you on purpose. Distance yourself from them if they donât want to listen to you. Go to a family counselor or mediator if they want to only listen to what you feel.Â
Then why are they mad that they didn't get invited? If I had a friend who was afraid of heights, I'm not inviting them to bungee jumping. If I have a friend who injured their ankle, I'm not inviting them to a pickup basketball game. If I have a friend who doesn't drink, I'm probably not inviting them on a wine tour.
I think it is OPâs delivery by making the decision that they cannot even hang out with them just because they are not able to participate. OP could have made the weight requirement clear as some friends that OP considered skinny may not meet it just because they are tall or muscular but OP doesnât realize it. It seem like they felt excluded and left out of the loop. For example, I will not be bungee jumping- especially right now with my temporary injury- but I would love to watch my friend do it. I will not be riding horses as I donât feel comfortable but I would still love to go.Â
So let your fat friends come along thinking they will be able to ride a horse and hope the workers say "sorry, you look too fat to ride my horse"? Yea... That'll be less embarrassing for the fat friends
I stated that they should still be welcomed to join them even if they cannot participate as long as they understand that they donât meet the requirements. Allow them to be humiliated and let the owners deal with them and humiliate them if they wonât listen to OP when they tell them they will not be able to participate. They deserved that humiliation if they want to be stubborn.Â
I think I would talk to their grams and tell her to let their father stay and not run them off. I feel bad that the sisters felt like he abandoned but they ran him off
Itâs like the sisters did not realize that Coke was possessed and didnât have a choice. They accepted him as a demon before he became human. I thought they figured it out until watching that episode when he made a surprise visit to try to help Piper where she made the statement that he hurt them when he chose to become the source of evil. It seem like she thought he had a choice. I wonder if they would have acted differently if he would have shown that he was not given a choice and asked for helpÂ
It had to be one and we were just introduced to Katrina through the tests. The tests were only showing Katrinaâs good side and that is all that we had had to choose from. We were able to see Sabrina use her magic for selfish reasons, unlike Katrina, even though it was just Sabrina making mistakes and learning. We had to choose one as evil according to the rules. I would have chose Sabrina as the evil twin if I was just to Compare what was we saw between Sabrina and Katrina when they first met. I wouldnât say Sabrina did evil things. They were normal teenager choices based on self interest and could be a sign of darkness if not improved. Of course, Sabrina did grow and learn.
Some people donât show their true selves, even to themselves, until after they realize it. She may have these urges but they just push them back until they canât.
Look, I know itâs frustrating. I was hoping I could get my reviews as I am at zero but sh*t happens. They way you are going about it is wrong and will see you as trouble. Do not go with your first instinct when trying to deal with an issue because the solution depends on how you react. They will only see your reaction if you behave this way. Honestly, this isnât the people at Skeepers nor the person who runs the Fresh account fault. The people at Sephora decided that it would be best to wait until January to release it and Skeepers are just messengers.
The daughter sounds like a good manipulator. She made you upset as she was behaving calm in front of the police. The police is wrong definitely but he just saw you acting on heavy emotion and decided that you were wrong based on that. I would report him to the supervisor, go to your representative and each police station has a supervisor as well. Please donât follow the advice of people saying you canât get arrested if you didnât break the law. Once the officer says leave or he will arrest you, leave as he can create some BS reason to arrest you. you will have to deal with the trauma of being arrested even if you later prove that you didnât do anything wrong. âLive to fight another dayâ is a saying I feel fitâs this situation. Listen to what he says and complain the next day.
See, at the very beginning I swore they said she couldnât see her before she turned 18. So when she turned 18 I expected to see her mom in the picture again but then they switched it to never seeing her again.
I get thar maybe the actress wasnât available but they could have made it to where the mom was on adventures. I am currently watching the show and they did say that she has to wait until she was 18 but they changed it. It annoyed me that they had that much control of allowing the mother see their daughter like that and I wish they fought harder for the right especially since they told her she can until she was 18
Itâs not his real name, but no heâs not Jewish. Honestly even if he was, heâs not from that town, he didnât have family murdered at that site, heâs not going to have any connection to going to see their old house etc.
I honestly donât see why wanting to eat a certain way should be a problem simply because youâre homeless. Lifeâs shit enough as it is and then you have people expecting you to always want to eat what they have boughtâŠâŠâŠ..but you wouldnât buy a colleague (for example) a sandwich without checking what they like or can eat.
exactly. she said something in the email like âto the students that cheated, you not only hurt yourselves but also your classmatesâ. i feel like itâs the professors/departmentâs responsibility to stop this from happening in the first place. idk why they think itâs okay to allow the cheaters to hurt everyone⊠not that cheating is ok but also the professors here should take some responsibility for letting it happen on such a broad scale.
Honestly same, I took an exam once and a student asked if it was open book and the professor basically said, "unless stated otherwise, online tests are open book.".
I am working on the same thing. I hate my last name because it is the last name of the person who abused me. It was so bad that I wanted to change it recently. The love of my life proposed to me and I was going to change it before than but now going to wait until I get married
Be honest and clear what you can offer and how it can be valuable to the influencer. Donât waste their time and donât beat around the bush about your expectations. Below is a couple examples of why I donât reply to brands, but I am not saying that you do this.
Having trouble coming up with a list of mean girls who are adored....
I donât really watch the bachelor but I was speaking of reality shows in general such as Christine from selling sunset, Francesca from perfect match and Alexandra Jarvis from selling OC.Â
Since u havenât watched the season, I recommend watching the episodes then letting us know how u feel. I think your opinion may change on her. Articles are meant to sway readers. Iâm not cool with the d3ath threats she says she is receiving but she has come off as a horrible person, as a bu1ly meant to push the negativity and hate towards Maria. Sheâs been doubling down instead of owning her nasty behavior and apologizing. From what we see, Maria hasnât done anything horrible to be called names from Sydney, Jess and Lea.
It may not come out that way but I am not choosing sides but just curious and would like to hear peopleâs opinions. The only opinion I have is the death threats are too far. Itâs one thing to discuss in here how you feel about the character or even comment on her video to tell her to calm down but the threats are too far. It is hard to truly know because of editing.
Sir Pentious using everyone as an excuse to flirt with Cherry Bomb, heâs so cuteÂ
Continue to post content as you reach out. Donât lose momentum just because they donât reach out. Some take a while to reach out. It seems like you are adding yourself to databases. They will reach out once they have something that matches your credentials. In addition, I would look up fashion publicists and look for brands on LinkedIn. Search brand name + influencer/pr/public relationsÂ
You can let them know that the deliverables that they are requesting is for paid collabs only. You are willing to discuss the deliverables if they are willing to discuss payment. Otherwise, the requirement for gifted would be an in kind gift that you will post organicallyÂ
This is very common. I get so many a day. Gmail is a major indicator that it is a scam.Â
Unfortunately I work with tiktok shop sellers and most of them have a weird gmail account like this. But now Iâll know that if someone sends me a contract that requires me to download something itâs a trap.
I would message them to see if it is legitimate if you can. One main thing the scammers say is you will get free items that is month and shoutouts on their socials.Â
For pitches I usually introduce myself, say what I like about the brand, put a couple of post ideas, and ask if they'd be interested in collaborating. It's a good idea to do research on the brand so that you can speak to their values and talk about how they fit with yours! It feels weird at first, but it's not, they get pitches all the time, that's how the business works! It's the same for every freelance industry. Most won't reply, and I've given up at times. But there are ones who will reply and say they don't have any campaigns right now but will reach out in the future. I used to think they were lying, but they really will and have reached back out months and even up to a year later. It's a great way to build your network, but it is also a long game. Think of it as a strategy for introducing yourself and getting your name out there and you'll see the results a few months down the road if you do it consistently
I agree, it was nerve wrecking when I first started pitching afraid of what they may say but they have been so nice even when they say no. I did get brands reaching out when they can.Â
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NTA, itâs easy to assume that you felt that you didnât have to pay given the circumstances but for them to think you paid? You even offered to help pay even though you thought they covered it. There was no indication that they expected you to pay. They were the ones pushing the drinks so they should have been responsible for those at the very least. It was a jerk move to add more drinks when they expect you to pay the whole bill. Yes, I agree there should be better communication about expectations but thatâs on them.Â
It hit me after watching it older. I was young and enjoy the obstacles but now itâs annoying that he let them tell him that he is an elder. They fought against the elders for worse but the fact that they just allowed them to break them apart again just because he is an elder. I canât believe would leave his family for that with no fight and even abandon his son. Like what! They just fought for their love. Piper even refused to help innocents to keep Leo. Leo could have at least said that yes I will accept but I am not leaving my family.Â
Definitely NTA, I canât believe she called you that and the son expected you to take it. You handled it better than I would but I understood as it made you happy to keep the grandchildren there. She owes you an apology.
Obviously the sick mother doesnât want/need the help. Can I live in your house rent free 1/2 the week if I insist on heating up some food for you
Why would she need to be there rent free when she is paying her own rent and eating her own food. She stayed there because she felt the mom needed help and she is there without the boyfriend.Â
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It seem like OP is only there because the mom canât be alone and is helping the mom out. The mom should be paying OP to take care of her but it seems like OP is being taken advantage of and made to believe that the mom canât be alone.Â
Thanks for your answer, I didnât think itâd be relevant there but Sam and I have a peculiar relationship. I guess thatâs what come out of arranged marriage. However I do cherish her and I think itâs mutual. She just has strong opinions and doesnât beat around the bush. From what I read, she isnât the only one thinking I am being stupid.
Who is the mother of your daughter? Your previous wife? It seems like Sam is the instigator in this. You deserve better than Sam. I would distance yourself from this situation and set your boundaries with your kids. They have no right to call you stupid.Â
NTA, your family is gaslighting you and not respecting your pain. They would have never chosen that name if it wasnât the name of someone you lost. They are trying to hurt you on purpose. Distance yourself from them if they donât want to listen to you. Go to a family counselor or mediator if they want to only listen to what you feel.Â
Then why are they mad that they didn't get invited? If I had a friend who was afraid of heights, I'm not inviting them to bungee jumping. If I have a friend who injured their ankle, I'm not inviting them to a pickup basketball game. If I have a friend who doesn't drink, I'm probably not inviting them on a wine tour.
I think it is OPâs delivery by making the decision that they cannot even hang out with them just because they are not able to participate. OP could have made the weight requirement clear as some friends that OP considered skinny may not meet it just because they are tall or muscular but OP doesnât realize it. It seem like they felt excluded and left out of the loop. For example, I will not be bungee jumping- especially right now with my temporary injury- but I would love to watch my friend do it. I will not be riding horses as I donât feel comfortable but I would still love to go.Â
So let your fat friends come along thinking they will be able to ride a horse and hope the workers say "sorry, you look too fat to ride my horse"? Yea... That'll be less embarrassing for the fat friends
I stated that they should still be welcomed to join them even if they cannot participate as long as they understand that they donât meet the requirements. Allow them to be humiliated and let the owners deal with them and humiliate them if they wonât listen to OP when they tell them they will not be able to participate. They deserved that humiliation if they want to be stubborn.Â
I think I would talk to their grams and tell her to let their father stay and not run them off. I feel bad that the sisters felt like he abandoned but they ran him off
Itâs like the sisters did not realize that Coke was possessed and didnât have a choice. They accepted him as a demon before he became human. I thought they figured it out until watching that episode when he made a surprise visit to try to help Piper where she made the statement that he hurt them when he chose to become the source of evil. It seem like she thought he had a choice. I wonder if they would have acted differently if he would have shown that he was not given a choice and asked for helpÂ
I applied to a popular product that has won rewards and I wrote I can help with your campaign by showing my audience why your product is a top seller
Ok what evil thing did Sabrina do?
It had to be one and we were just introduced to Katrina through the tests. The tests were only showing Katrinaâs good side and that is all that we had had to choose from. We were able to see Sabrina use her magic for selfish reasons, unlike Katrina, even though it was just Sabrina making mistakes and learning. We had to choose one as evil according to the rules. I would have chose Sabrina as the evil twin if I was just to Compare what was we saw between Sabrina and Katrina when they first met. I wouldnât say Sabrina did evil things. They were normal teenager choices based on self interest and could be a sign of darkness if not improved. Of course, Sabrina did grow and learn.
Some people donât show their true selves, even to themselves, until after they realize it. She may have these urges but they just push them back until they canât.
Look, I know itâs frustrating. I was hoping I could get my reviews as I am at zero but sh*t happens. They way you are going about it is wrong and will see you as trouble. Do not go with your first instinct when trying to deal with an issue because the solution depends on how you react. They will only see your reaction if you behave this way. Honestly, this isnât the people at Skeepers nor the person who runs the Fresh account fault. The people at Sephora decided that it would be best to wait until January to release it and Skeepers are just messengers.
The daughter sounds like a good manipulator. She made you upset as she was behaving calm in front of the police. The police is wrong definitely but he just saw you acting on heavy emotion and decided that you were wrong based on that. I would report him to the supervisor, go to your representative and each police station has a supervisor as well. Please donât follow the advice of people saying you canât get arrested if you didnât break the law. Once the officer says leave or he will arrest you, leave as he can create some BS reason to arrest you. you will have to deal with the trauma of being arrested even if you later prove that you didnât do anything wrong. âLive to fight another dayâ is a saying I feel fitâs this situation. Listen to what he says and complain the next day.
See, at the very beginning I swore they said she couldnât see her before she turned 18. So when she turned 18 I expected to see her mom in the picture again but then they switched it to never seeing her again.
I get thar maybe the actress wasnât available but they could have made it to where the mom was on adventures. I am currently watching the show and they did say that she has to wait until she was 18 but they changed it. It annoyed me that they had that much control of allowing the mother see their daughter like that and I wish they fought harder for the right especially since they told her she can until she was 18
Itâs not his real name, but no heâs not Jewish. Honestly even if he was, heâs not from that town, he didnât have family murdered at that site, heâs not going to have any connection to going to see their old house etc.
I agree please donât choose a guy you may break up with in a couple of months over lifelong friendships. NTA
I honestly donât see why wanting to eat a certain way should be a problem simply because youâre homeless. Lifeâs shit enough as it is and then you have people expecting you to always want to eat what they have boughtâŠâŠâŠ..but you wouldnât buy a colleague (for example) a sandwich without checking what they like or can eat.
I agree. Also, they could have allergies or something . Plus, it doesnât hurt to get what they like if the choices are the same price
exactly. she said something in the email like âto the students that cheated, you not only hurt yourselves but also your classmatesâ. i feel like itâs the professors/departmentâs responsibility to stop this from happening in the first place. idk why they think itâs okay to allow the cheaters to hurt everyone⊠not that cheating is ok but also the professors here should take some responsibility for letting it happen on such a broad scale.
How much did this change your grade? I would go to the board if it made any negative impact
Honestly same, I took an exam once and a student asked if it was open book and the professor basically said, "unless stated otherwise, online tests are open book.".
I have professors who say that and then professors who said the opposite. That felt we should assume it is closed book if the donât say anything