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  1. Hugs to you….you have my utmost empathy. It sounds like these people are kind of embroiled into your daily existence. At some point in the future, you will have your ideal life and you can look back at him in disgust.

  2. Keep the burner phone charged. Keep cash or a prepaid debit card in your bag. When you get where you’re going, open a bank account with a different bank than where he banks, so that the bank does not inadvertently give him your contact info.

  3. I went through something similar and I am sending you hugs right now. Please reach out to a DV advocate and make a plan to leave. It took every bit of my strength to finally leave once and for all. I went back and left my ex-abuser 5 or 6 times. Back and forth like a revolving door. I still have night terrors and PTSD but it’s getting better. I went to a therapist who told me that breaking the trauma cycle is like kicking a drug addiction. The trauma cycle alters one’s brain chemistry apparently.

  4. I was in a similar situation about 3 years ago & I had found this online at the time…: I hope that this helps you……

  5. An audit of a seafood processing plant. There were big vats of raw scallops in brine. My job was to stir the scallops with a 4 foot paddle while the partner guessed the number of scallops in each vat. My clothes stunk so bad when we were done that I had to throw my clothes away.

  6. I can’t stand Lawson & Tiffy Pics & I can’t put my finger on the reason why I can’t stand them.

  7. I have thought the same for my ex. Would love to key his new truck. Have fantasized about burning down his house and his precious cabin.

  8. You’ve got to put up a boundary here. Don’t let him manipulate you. Put yourself and your child first. No one else can do this except for you. You don’t want to lose your child do you? Bring the 3rd party.

  9. Yes it is possible. You have to go on one of those no-sugar, no-carb diets though, like Chiro-Thin.

  10. What kind of business/industry is it? I represented a client this summer in an audit. The prior preparer (not me) reported $0 in shareholder compensation with $200k in distributions. The entity owns gambling machines which are passive in nature. The auditor did not have an issue with it.

  11. Normal people work from the principle that loving someone means that you should meet with love and consideration in return. . . Unfortunately, that relationship model has NOTHING to do with the way toxic relationships work. . . When you love a toxic person, your love guarantees that they will treat you badly. . . They don’t do it because there is anything wrong with you or your love - there isn’t. . . They do it because they CAN. . . Your love gives them the necessary access to and power over you that they relish - and use in such an unnatural way. . . Of course, this is so counterintuitive that it takes you the longest time to truly grasp it. . . If you had believed this early on, what - if any - difference do you think it would have

  12. Normal people work from the principle that loving someone means that you should meet with love and consideration in return. . . Unfortunately, that relationship model has NOTHING to do with the way toxic relationships work. . . When you love a toxic person, your love guarantees that they will treat you badly. . . They don’t do it because there is anything wrong with you or your love - there isn’t. . . They do it because they CAN. . . Your love gives them the necessary access to and power over you that they relish - and use in such an unnatural way. . . Of course, this is so counterintuitive that it takes you the longest time to truly grasp it. . . If you had believed this early on, what - if any - difference do you think it would have

  13. I am the victim of Claire’s ear piercing and a random kiosk in the middle of the mall. Both time nasty infections. The one with the kiosk was the worst thing. At one point a huge pustule/boil/ god knows what burst on the back and I only knew because blood and pus started dripping on my shoulder. Plus once it’s that infected they don’t suggest taking it out since it can seal in the infection so I had to wait it out.

  14. If you're able, you could call your local DV specialist services and they can help you make a safety plan. You could google 'acts of resistance' or check out Dr Alan Wade's videos on YouTube. Educating ourselves can be so empowering and helps remind us that this isn't okay, nor is it our fault.

  15. I love this idea of getting a burner phone and hiding it at your workplace. Then you can start documenting what he is doing to you. I hope that you will consider making a safety plan for yourself and an exit plan.

  16. Don't let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people. You shouldn't drink poison just because you're thirsty.

  17. I found this online when I was going through a traumatic breakup with my abusive ex-fiancée. I hope this helps:

  18. "I put a roof over your head and fed you and put you in school so that magically makes everything I did okay."

  19. They didn’t come to my college graduation or my wedding. Both of these were quite devastating at the time.

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