Why is it their business? Unless it were showing anyway, I don't think I'd bring it up. As they themselves have said about your cousin, "your body, your choice". You can just throw that at them if they do see it.
Well when we inevitably got to Italy over the summer to see the family, I will be wearing shorts and I don't want the first time they see it be in front of the entire family cause that will probably be a billion times worse lol
I would be fine with them striking, but they are striking literally every month and I rely on trains for work and uni, as do a lot of my friends, and so we end up having to work something else out even though I paid an extortionate amount for the train pass that I can only use half the time. I know why they're striking and I support their cause, but I am not the reason their pay is shit. They need to do something that inconveniences their bosses or whatever, not something that does nothing for their bosses and fucks literally everyone else over.
NTA. Bruh, as someone who grew up in a rough household, I would never EVER say that to anyone. Anyone who has parents like yours are lucky yes, but its not something to hate you for. Sounds like shes jealous. Also, imagine wanting to make a traumatic part of your life your main personality trait? So weird. Your bf not defending you is terrible and I would dump him personally.
NTA tf did I just read? How you exploiting them if you're paying them? She sounds jealous (tbh I am too, I hate cleaning and will defo get cleaning people in when I can afford them)
NTA. Sit down with your boyfriend and tell him he needs to kick this lazy slob out. He's stolen your stuff and doesn't take care of himself. What an ass.
I basically said I was happy to clean the kitchen as long as someone else hoovered or swept the floor because I hate that job and then people just said "i'll clean this" and "i'll do this" and have mainly stuck to it. I live on the ground floor so I'm the only one who showers in the downstairs bathroom and use it more than anyone else so I thought it would be fairest if I cleaned it
Why is it their business? Unless it were showing anyway, I don't think I'd bring it up. As they themselves have said about your cousin, "your body, your choice". You can just throw that at them if they do see it.
Well when we inevitably got to Italy over the summer to see the family, I will be wearing shorts and I don't want the first time they see it be in front of the entire family cause that will probably be a billion times worse lol
I would be fine with them striking, but they are striking literally every month and I rely on trains for work and uni, as do a lot of my friends, and so we end up having to work something else out even though I paid an extortionate amount for the train pass that I can only use half the time. I know why they're striking and I support their cause, but I am not the reason their pay is shit. They need to do something that inconveniences their bosses or whatever, not something that does nothing for their bosses and fucks literally everyone else over.
NTA. Bruh, as someone who grew up in a rough household, I would never EVER say that to anyone. Anyone who has parents like yours are lucky yes, but its not something to hate you for. Sounds like shes jealous. Also, imagine wanting to make a traumatic part of your life your main personality trait? So weird. Your bf not defending you is terrible and I would dump him personally.
NTA tf did I just read? How you exploiting them if you're paying them? She sounds jealous (tbh I am too, I hate cleaning and will defo get cleaning people in when I can afford them)
NTA. Sit down with your boyfriend and tell him he needs to kick this lazy slob out. He's stolen your stuff and doesn't take care of himself. What an ass.
NTA please stop talking to your hopefully exboyfriend
INFO: Did you and your roommates ever agree on what you would consider "fair" and/or divide up chores explicitly? What was your agreement?
I basically said I was happy to clean the kitchen as long as someone else hoovered or swept the floor because I hate that job and then people just said "i'll clean this" and "i'll do this" and have mainly stuck to it. I live on the ground floor so I'm the only one who showers in the downstairs bathroom and use it more than anyone else so I thought it would be fairest if I cleaned it
NTA your wife seems to have very little trust in you :(