I have a schnose too. You have a pretty spacious philtrum, so I don't think a septum would elongate your nose (mine doesn't, or at least I like to think so). While it's true that in some places septums are less well received than nostrils, If you get a horseshoe, you can always flip it up. My personal opinion is that you'll look good with either piercings, or even with both.
Omg! I never thought I’d find someone I can relate to on this. I actually knew our dog was dying because I could SMELL it off him. No one believed me that he was sick and he ended up passing away shortly after. He smelled sick to me, like rancid, sour smell.
Omg I can smell when animals are going to die too ! I can't really explain it but it's a very unique smell that when it hits you, you just know it's the end. Don't know if I can do it with people tho.
Me (22 cis F) and my boyfriend (22 FTM) have been together for almost five years now. We started our relationship as a "lesbian" couple, and two years in, he came out to me and started hrt 1.5 years ago. It was tough, and if you click on my profile, you're going to see that most of my posts are about managing his transition as a couple. We almost broke up, and we went to couple/individual therapy, which helped us immensely. Now we're happy, we went to college together and got a diploma, we also have a cat together that we love, and we are thinking about a stronger engagement in some years.
It’s known as globus sensations ; I did have it constantly for days , now I take strong mint chewing gum and that really helps with the lump type of sensation which is very uncomfortable
Hi, I can't be sure but I don't think there is any good reason to think you have throat cancer. Especially at that age. But as someone who went through health anxiety I know that getting checked and being told you're fine will not stop the anxiety. So I recommend treating the anxiety itself.
I was already in a relationship with this guy when my traumatic amnesia crumbled and the memoryresurfaced. We dealt with the pain and the ptsd it caused me together, and are now pretty happy. We had a long pause in term of physical activities because it was impossible for me to engage in that, but we have what we could define as a "normal" life concerning that.
I was working at a elder house, as a cleaning lady. They started asking me care related stuff, like changing and washing resident, or feeding them. One day I was asked to deliver medication and start working in the special unit where the patient with dementia/alzheimer were. I went there once and just gave up right away. I study to work in the museum field, I have absolutely no skills in health care, and I will certainly not give medication to heavily sick patient for minimum wage.
I have lots of secondhand books, I buy them on Momox or Vinted for exemple (I'm European maybe it doesn't exist anywhere else idk), usually they are in good condition and really affordable. I sometimes find great art book in "book boxes" that we have in the streets, you can really find some unique editions there !
Yeah the void, the chaos, the roller coaster of emotions and having that deep frustration and being somewhat reckless can definitely be appealing at times. There is a beauty in it but it if you understand duality but at the same time it's not worth it at all and will eventually only lead to more and more problems. Also it could be due to the fact that it is indeed better to feel negative emotions than to just be numb. At least most people think like that.
Thank you so much for your comment. The void is indeed very appealing, because somehow it's easier than relentlessly fighting for hapiness, and as you said, there is a certain amount of beauty in it that I find alluring. But you're right it only cause problems in reality, and I have to keep fighting and accept the downs.
Oui aucun soucis, je suis bi et actuellement avec un homme trans. Le plus important soit que la personne me plaise physiquement et mentalement, le reste c'est juste de la logistique.
I feel so stressed by it, the feeling of the clock ticking, and my time here running out. I am young and healthy, but I feel a deep urge to live the fullest life possible, I am hungry for life if it makes sense. There's probably not one month when I don't think about potential regrets on my death bed and I urge myself to live, whatever it implies.
Pas du tout une spécialiste, pas trans, mais je suis très proche de personnes trans donc je prends ma chance pour peut-être éclairer un peu la chose. C'est pas tant au niveau de la société que ça pose problème, plus au niveau physique.
Cis woman here, my boyfriend is ftm, when we make love I feel honored that he let me interact with his body since I know it's not easy on him. I don't see him as his parts tho, he's my man, and I love his body as it is. His genitalia set doesn't affect how I perceive him, and I don't think your girlfriend will be like that (at least I hope), but I understand the extreme vulnerability/dysphoria, and as the cis partner I just want to make my partner feel as validated and as safe as possible. He's not in a "different" category in my mind for being trans, he's in the "I love this personn and I want the best for him" category and that's where everybody should put you no matter of what you were AAB.
I'm sorry that you're going through this, being ftm I can understand some of the doubts going through his head, though in all seriousness, his feelings on why you're attracted to him likely are not your fault or responsibility, and it sounds like he needs to do some self-exploration (and therapy for himself would be a good idea if he isn't already in therapy sessions)
He's adressing that in therapy, at least that's what he tells me. It can get old as you say. I try to stay patient, because I know it comes from a place of self hate, but sometimes I must admit it gets on my nerves and makes me sad.
Nowhere strange but I always love reading these threads (although I did used to purge into plastic bags and hide them in my room but for some reason I was too scared to throw them away and then they fermented and burst and the stench was something else)
Omfg, I did that too, one time the smell was getting terrible and my mom was being really suspicious. I freaked out and took all of my little bags with me one morning in my school backpack, proceeded to transport them on a 1h bus ride, sweating my ass off because I was scared of being caught. I had to search for one empty toilet to throw them in one bin.... it was empty when I came, and full of little fermented vomit bags when I left... I still feel sorry for the cleaning lady....
Strasbourg cathedral ! There's so many details on the facade, and there's an amazing astronomical clock inside
I have a schnose too. You have a pretty spacious philtrum, so I don't think a septum would elongate your nose (mine doesn't, or at least I like to think so). While it's true that in some places septums are less well received than nostrils, If you get a horseshoe, you can always flip it up. My personal opinion is that you'll look good with either piercings, or even with both.
Thank you, fellow schnose owner :) Yes, you're right, I can always flip it ! I don’t think I'll go for both tho, so I'll have to pick my fighter.
I like the nostril more. And if you have allergies hold off until just after allergy season so you have the most recovery time before the next season
You're right , I'll do that and wait after the allergy season ! Thank you :)
My left fourth lobe is a pain in the ass. My right one ? Pure bliss, and I sleep on it every night...
Omg! I never thought I’d find someone I can relate to on this. I actually knew our dog was dying because I could SMELL it off him. No one believed me that he was sick and he ended up passing away shortly after. He smelled sick to me, like rancid, sour smell.
Omg I can smell when animals are going to die too ! I can't really explain it but it's a very unique smell that when it hits you, you just know it's the end. Don't know if I can do it with people tho.
Me (22 cis F) and my boyfriend (22 FTM) have been together for almost five years now. We started our relationship as a "lesbian" couple, and two years in, he came out to me and started hrt 1.5 years ago. It was tough, and if you click on my profile, you're going to see that most of my posts are about managing his transition as a couple. We almost broke up, and we went to couple/individual therapy, which helped us immensely. Now we're happy, we went to college together and got a diploma, we also have a cat together that we love, and we are thinking about a stronger engagement in some years.
It’s known as globus sensations ; I did have it constantly for days , now I take strong mint chewing gum and that really helps with the lump type of sensation which is very uncomfortable
Oh thanks ! I'll try strong mints !
Hi, I can't be sure but I don't think there is any good reason to think you have throat cancer. Especially at that age. But as someone who went through health anxiety I know that getting checked and being told you're fine will not stop the anxiety. So I recommend treating the anxiety itself.
Thanks for your reply, I know getting checked will only feed the circle, I'll try to treat the anxiety itself
I was already in a relationship with this guy when my traumatic amnesia crumbled and the memoryresurfaced. We dealt with the pain and the ptsd it caused me together, and are now pretty happy. We had a long pause in term of physical activities because it was impossible for me to engage in that, but we have what we could define as a "normal" life concerning that.
I was working at a elder house, as a cleaning lady. They started asking me care related stuff, like changing and washing resident, or feeding them. One day I was asked to deliver medication and start working in the special unit where the patient with dementia/alzheimer were. I went there once and just gave up right away. I study to work in the museum field, I have absolutely no skills in health care, and I will certainly not give medication to heavily sick patient for minimum wage.
I have lots of secondhand books, I buy them on Momox or Vinted for exemple (I'm European maybe it doesn't exist anywhere else idk), usually they are in good condition and really affordable. I sometimes find great art book in "book boxes" that we have in the streets, you can really find some unique editions there !
Blessed with a weirdo who even tried to eat cactus....
Yeah the void, the chaos, the roller coaster of emotions and having that deep frustration and being somewhat reckless can definitely be appealing at times. There is a beauty in it but it if you understand duality but at the same time it's not worth it at all and will eventually only lead to more and more problems. Also it could be due to the fact that it is indeed better to feel negative emotions than to just be numb. At least most people think like that.
Thank you so much for your comment. The void is indeed very appealing, because somehow it's easier than relentlessly fighting for hapiness, and as you said, there is a certain amount of beauty in it that I find alluring. But you're right it only cause problems in reality, and I have to keep fighting and accept the downs.
Oui aucun soucis, je suis bi et actuellement avec un homme trans. Le plus important soit que la personne me plaise physiquement et mentalement, le reste c'est juste de la logistique.
I feel so stressed by it, the feeling of the clock ticking, and my time here running out. I am young and healthy, but I feel a deep urge to live the fullest life possible, I am hungry for life if it makes sense. There's probably not one month when I don't think about potential regrets on my death bed and I urge myself to live, whatever it implies.
Making love, not fucking, really making love, with someone who loves you and the deepest parts of you and who you love just as much.
The hot goth girl of the sea, only goes out when the moon is right
Je n'arrive pas à comprendre le sujet de la transidentité.
Pas du tout une spécialiste, pas trans, mais je suis très proche de personnes trans donc je prends ma chance pour peut-être éclairer un peu la chose. C'est pas tant au niveau de la société que ça pose problème, plus au niveau physique.
Somehow it was both for me
Cis woman here, my boyfriend is ftm, when we make love I feel honored that he let me interact with his body since I know it's not easy on him. I don't see him as his parts tho, he's my man, and I love his body as it is. His genitalia set doesn't affect how I perceive him, and I don't think your girlfriend will be like that (at least I hope), but I understand the extreme vulnerability/dysphoria, and as the cis partner I just want to make my partner feel as validated and as safe as possible. He's not in a "different" category in my mind for being trans, he's in the "I love this personn and I want the best for him" category and that's where everybody should put you no matter of what you were AAB.
I'll do the dirty job and pick 7
Top left !!
I'm sorry that you're going through this, being ftm I can understand some of the doubts going through his head, though in all seriousness, his feelings on why you're attracted to him likely are not your fault or responsibility, and it sounds like he needs to do some self-exploration (and therapy for himself would be a good idea if he isn't already in therapy sessions)
Thanks for your input ! I appreciate it a lot !
He's adressing that in therapy, at least that's what he tells me. It can get old as you say. I try to stay patient, because I know it comes from a place of self hate, but sometimes I must admit it gets on my nerves and makes me sad.
I was SAed as a child, I was 6 or 7, and i suffered from traumatic memory loss until 2 years ago.
I had to look at it for three hours straight for an exam, describing and analyzing every details. His gaze is permanently haunting my soul.
Nowhere strange but I always love reading these threads (although I did used to purge into plastic bags and hide them in my room but for some reason I was too scared to throw them away and then they fermented and burst and the stench was something else)
Omfg, I did that too, one time the smell was getting terrible and my mom was being really suspicious. I freaked out and took all of my little bags with me one morning in my school backpack, proceeded to transport them on a 1h bus ride, sweating my ass off because I was scared of being caught. I had to search for one empty toilet to throw them in one bin.... it was empty when I came, and full of little fermented vomit bags when I left... I still feel sorry for the cleaning lady....