Try to look at yourself as a cute toddler and care for yourself as if you would someone that is not you; sometimes itâs easier to care for yourself this way; also, for me, when I feel like that, itâs a sign that Iâm relying to much on external help to fulfill my needs, so it makes me feel helpless and dependant on other people; find small things you do for your inner child and take the time to tell you with self compassion that âbeing human is often brutal and adulting is hard and life is full of big emotions, but youâre doing it â and over emphasize your small success âlook at you babe going out of the bed today, slayyyâ âwow, glass of water AND a meal, so healthyâ I know it seems unattainable but you can care for you and the more you do self care without relying on BF and family, the more your body is going to trust you to survive during those though emotion waves.
First off I want to say Iâm sorry you are going through this & I hope you can speak to your therapist soon. Iâll send some good vibes your way. I hope things get better soon & you are able to work through whatever is going on. đ«¶đ»âš
I'm sorry I was in the middle of replying earlier when I had to leave the house.. I had an emotional episode after reliving trauma that I buried under the surface..and I didn't check my period app because I thought things were okay..I just "recently" had a period and it should have been okay..but no..yeah.. this makes a lot more sense..the stress and mood instability being caused by my pms. I'm traumatized by reliving the trauma so intensely and severely. Every time I think about talking to the people I cut off when they were involved.. I feel immense fear and paranoia.. I'm in therapy trying to cope
Iâve read the book⊠Apple didnât know Maple was exiled or that sheâd tried to cross the river until after the kits were already dead. It was never the plan to bring them to Riverclan. Maple was planning to raise them as Thunderclan, and only tried to join Riverclan after being exiled from her birth clan. Apple was visibly upset when the kits drowned as well, showing he cared about them. He showed anger towards Maple for bringing them across the river-I donât blame him for rejecting her after she just drowned their kits. The worst the guy did was cheat on Maple; so I donât really think he counts as a âbad fatherâ, being how he never really got the chance to BE a father towards Mapleâs kits.
Ah, yeah. We do see Apple interact with the kits once early in the book, when Maple brings them to the river. Apple spots them and is actually pretty upset, because it wasnât safe to do that. He even scolds Maple for doing so, but of course it doesnât register in her mind. I think he would have been a decent father if the kits had lived-or at least as decent as he could be, trying to be loyal to Riverclan at the same time. The important thing to remember is that Maple is an unreliable narrator in her own book-sheâs delusional even before her kits die. Believing fully that her kits will be accepted by the clan-even after she reveals they were half Riverclan. Yeah-she was planning to reveal the secret herself once the kits were older. Another thing to note is that throughout the entire book, Maple and Reed were never actually TOGETHER. They never acted like a couple-no dates, no sneaking out to see each other. Reed is actually pretty distant. Maple just THINKS about them as a couple. So itâs possible that Reed didnât actually cheat- he was effectively ghosting Maple during the entirety of the book, and only got involved when he saw her putting their kits in danger. Itâs possible Maple was deluding herself into thinking they were still together.
Try to look at yourself as a cute toddler and care for yourself as if you would someone that is not you; sometimes itâs easier to care for yourself this way; also, for me, when I feel like that, itâs a sign that Iâm relying to much on external help to fulfill my needs, so it makes me feel helpless and dependant on other people; find small things you do for your inner child and take the time to tell you with self compassion that âbeing human is often brutal and adulting is hard and life is full of big emotions, but youâre doing it â and over emphasize your small success âlook at you babe going out of the bed today, slayyyâ âwow, glass of water AND a meal, so healthyâ I know it seems unattainable but you can care for you and the more you do self care without relying on BF and family, the more your body is going to trust you to survive during those though emotion waves.
Ancient is worth more..
LOL WHO SAID THAT?
Are you serious? Girl..those are worth atleast 3k
yes I am serious I want everyone to get pots poor and not poor every one deserves good pots
Dang.. I hope people enjoy em
Ashton
I have bm moths!!
I donât think they will ever have a fully offline mode. The closest thing is turning off cross-play on the playstation I believe.
Awww man..I was hoping for fully offline so I could play on road trips n stuff
I thought the spirit with the guitar was coming back :')) ..I was confused when the weasel appeared in my home
OH
Discord
Ty
I thought that fm amaris go for 2 mil tho
Never seen a fm amaris under 2.5M
Ohhh ok
Do the alchemy station
Where are these dragons coming from?
Daily login
Ohhh ty
First off I want to say Iâm sorry you are going through this & I hope you can speak to your therapist soon. Iâll send some good vibes your way. I hope things get better soon & you are able to work through whatever is going on. đ«¶đ»âš
I'm sorry I was in the middle of replying earlier when I had to leave the house.. I had an emotional episode after reliving trauma that I buried under the surface..and I didn't check my period app because I thought things were okay..I just "recently" had a period and it should have been okay..but no..yeah.. this makes a lot more sense..the stress and mood instability being caused by my pms. I'm traumatized by reliving the trauma so intensely and severely. Every time I think about talking to the people I cut off when they were involved.. I feel immense fear and paranoia.. I'm in therapy trying to cope
Oh no my egg its broken..
The chat..
LMAOOOO OMG
I have a baby fal still if u wanna offer, itâs not the one named Gyo
I only wanted gyo cause its like fake corrupted love :(
I want gyo so bad but I don't have an season creature I can offer up to 4 mut pots đ
Iâve read the book⊠Apple didnât know Maple was exiled or that sheâd tried to cross the river until after the kits were already dead. It was never the plan to bring them to Riverclan. Maple was planning to raise them as Thunderclan, and only tried to join Riverclan after being exiled from her birth clan. Apple was visibly upset when the kits drowned as well, showing he cared about them. He showed anger towards Maple for bringing them across the river-I donât blame him for rejecting her after she just drowned their kits. The worst the guy did was cheat on Maple; so I donât really think he counts as a âbad fatherâ, being how he never really got the chance to BE a father towards Mapleâs kits.
Ah I never read the book makes sense
Ah, yeah. We do see Apple interact with the kits once early in the book, when Maple brings them to the river. Apple spots them and is actually pretty upset, because it wasnât safe to do that. He even scolds Maple for doing so, but of course it doesnât register in her mind. I think he would have been a decent father if the kits had lived-or at least as decent as he could be, trying to be loyal to Riverclan at the same time. The important thing to remember is that Maple is an unreliable narrator in her own book-sheâs delusional even before her kits die. Believing fully that her kits will be accepted by the clan-even after she reveals they were half Riverclan. Yeah-she was planning to reveal the secret herself once the kits were older. Another thing to note is that throughout the entire book, Maple and Reed were never actually TOGETHER. They never acted like a couple-no dates, no sneaking out to see each other. Reed is actually pretty distant. Maple just THINKS about them as a couple. So itâs possible that Reed didnât actually cheat- he was effectively ghosting Maple during the entirety of the book, and only got involved when he saw her putting their kits in danger. Itâs possible Maple was deluding herself into thinking they were still together.
Thank you for explaining this to me /gen .. I don't think I have mapleshade's super edition
WHERE ARE PEOPLE GETTING ALL THESE GOOD WINS???
Teen idle marina
I have one if you still wanna trade for it
Sure.. 2 mut pots?
yea,my user is sazxvbj23444
Okay mine is meldrawsuwu
Hey you still want Lothim?
I'm sorry I'm not feeling well atm..if you want to give them to someone else I'm okay with that
Nah dw bout it, I'll hold on to it for yah
Do u want me to add you on discord still?
DEXYN..I have one of my oldest Sakura ones still..and one from before the seasons update
Damn, sadly i deleted my old ones from early 2020, but Dexyns deserve more love.
I think most people hate the fact they don't fly cause its kinda inconvenient
Okk sure gimme a min tho my user is lilyblosson124 I need to age it
omg yes im sorry i was napping- i'll add u
Nppp whatâs your user
meldrawsuwu!