How do people so easily assume they have a total understanding of themselves? In my experience, it’s been an ever changing and infinitely interesting journey inward. What’s with the visceral reactions to deeper understanding? It has to be deeper than sunk cost fallacy. If someone informs me of a new better way to approach the world, then I’m grateful not angry. Do people just lack compassion for themselves across time?
I think a lot of the “error phobia” comes from shared meritocratic values, which - in turn -engender preoccupations with provisional self esteem; professionalism; reputation and the climates of fear as well as reverence for instruction extravagated from the use of these concepts.
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The term home suggests a frame of mind. If you support anti homeless architecture then you might as well join the firing squad and kill defenseless human beings for the sport of it, and it doesn’t even matter, you won’t earn any extra accolades nor recognition aside from maintaining an obedient existence only as a mere proletariat of a deeply rotted system for doing so because what else does your anti-homeless architecture suggest to you?
How about just simply acknowledge our differences, realizing that a lot gets lost in translation within and without nuances and understand that we don’t necessarily need to clone from one another at such an absolutist rate just to exist as a thing with sentience?
Oh my god yes! I have long thought the issue with white collar jobs these days is that everyone is living (working) in this almost fake world, where they work too hard, stress about whatever corporate bs jargon nonsense is being pushed down their throat that week, and fail to remember how to just be themselves. Getting outside and experiencing normal jobs (blue collar, if you want to call them that) would do these people a world of good.
Until the novelty of this over glorified concept of a blue collar ‘normal job’ wears off and you realize you’re just working for another asshole who treats you like shit.. and you’re probably only participating in yet another Ponzi scheme.
I always think working in the corporate world as a trade off between intrinsic rewards and extrinsic rewards for me at least. It pays well(extrinsic), but you never feel accomplished and do not feel like you are helping anyone(intrinsic).
Another weird take that i see a lot, there really arent all that many protective parents and they also aren’t synonymous with good or caring parents. Protective parents can be some of the most controlling and harmful parents and i dont see them as any better or any worse than the average authoritarian parent. I also don’t understand why people are so bothered at the idea of children being kept safe or away from harm. Its never rooted in anything scientific it’s usually just that people feel like children need to build up a tolerance for being hurt, harassed, degraded, and abused in their daily life. What does that say about society?
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I’ll do what I have to do, but I honestly prefer greeting the day feeling genuinely well rested. I think op is right. So many people are frustrated, angry, totally insane, miserable, toxic, insufferable and walk around with a negative world view probably because they don’t understand the value of rest, proper nutrition and patience.
What is beginner’s mind?
that's nice. how tidy.
“How tidy,” ha, definitely using that.
How do people so easily assume they have a total understanding of themselves? In my experience, it’s been an ever changing and infinitely interesting journey inward. What’s with the visceral reactions to deeper understanding? It has to be deeper than sunk cost fallacy. If someone informs me of a new better way to approach the world, then I’m grateful not angry. Do people just lack compassion for themselves across time?
I think a lot of the “error phobia” comes from shared meritocratic values, which - in turn -engender preoccupations with provisional self esteem; professionalism; reputation and the climates of fear as well as reverence for instruction extravagated from the use of these concepts.
Just saw this comment haha. I understand more clearly now.
I appreciate your attempt to translate.
No shit.
Your submission has been removed as it is very likely not unpopular and has been constantly reposted. "Cancel Culture is bad" or "Cancel Culture is good/fine/ok" and similar posts are made here several times an hour. Constantly reposted topics are not unpopular enough for this sub.
Case, in point.
The term home suggests a frame of mind. If you support anti homeless architecture then you might as well join the firing squad and kill defenseless human beings for the sport of it, and it doesn’t even matter, you won’t earn any extra accolades nor recognition aside from maintaining an obedient existence only as a mere proletariat of a deeply rotted system for doing so because what else does your anti-homeless architecture suggest to you?
Every position I have ever applied to, thousands, have informed me of their hiring decision.
Well, that hasn’t been the case for everyone.
The film ‘Magnolia’ comes to mind. No central protagonist, no central antagonist. Non-dichotomous.
same honestly, I never understood why people like the attention
Same.
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How about just simply acknowledge our differences, realizing that a lot gets lost in translation within and without nuances and understand that we don’t necessarily need to clone from one another at such an absolutist rate just to exist as a thing with sentience?
What a ridiculous quote, if you judge a fish for anything it will be none the wiser and continue its life as a fish. Also Einstein didn't say it.
I heard something before to the effect of “kindly, let me help you or else you’ll drown, said the monkey placing a fish safely up a tree.”
Golly, that seems a bit despotic.
Have you ever practiced removing ‘be-form’ verbs from your writing/ speech/ thinking?
I think the game of ‘playing hard to get’ acts as recourse reserved only for the most vapid among us.
i hate the words normalize and problematic. It just pisses me off for some reason
What about the words paradigm and proactive?
Oh my god yes! I have long thought the issue with white collar jobs these days is that everyone is living (working) in this almost fake world, where they work too hard, stress about whatever corporate bs jargon nonsense is being pushed down their throat that week, and fail to remember how to just be themselves. Getting outside and experiencing normal jobs (blue collar, if you want to call them that) would do these people a world of good.
Until the novelty of this over glorified concept of a blue collar ‘normal job’ wears off and you realize you’re just working for another asshole who treats you like shit.. and you’re probably only participating in yet another Ponzi scheme.
I always think working in the corporate world as a trade off between intrinsic rewards and extrinsic rewards for me at least. It pays well(extrinsic), but you never feel accomplished and do not feel like you are helping anyone(intrinsic).
What does being helpful to people actually look like to you?
Such a variety of perspectives.
Thank you for this.
Aside from paranoia, I think pride is the most difficult thing to communicate anything to.
Another weird take that i see a lot, there really arent all that many protective parents and they also aren’t synonymous with good or caring parents. Protective parents can be some of the most controlling and harmful parents and i dont see them as any better or any worse than the average authoritarian parent. I also don’t understand why people are so bothered at the idea of children being kept safe or away from harm. Its never rooted in anything scientific it’s usually just that people feel like children need to build up a tolerance for being hurt, harassed, degraded, and abused in their daily life. What does that say about society?
This tendency to use the term “sheltered” as if it should register as pejorative…
"Fuck dem trees" (annoying neighbour proverb)
Fuck your proverbiality.
Why am I getting down voted? Oaks make me yawn. Bamboo gives me a jungle that you don’t have. Jealous morons.
People typically don’t use envy intelligently.
Depends on the mood. Depends on the interaction. Depends on the overall atmosphere. It just depends.
I don't.
I think he was referring to the other guy.
You guys have sex?
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A roof would be nice too.
Yeah, but typically a roof doesn’t go in your house as much as it goes on your house.
Wow that eight hour shift must be brutal. I work 13 hour shifts and still go out lol
Age?
I'm definitely not trying to work 11am-7pm. I would like some sunlight after work.
I’ll do what I have to do, but I honestly prefer greeting the day feeling genuinely well rested. I think op is right. So many people are frustrated, angry, totally insane, miserable, toxic, insufferable and walk around with a negative world view probably because they don’t understand the value of rest, proper nutrition and patience.
Only fans foot fetish videos.
We really need to embrace deconstructing societal gender norms and stop working and start marrying sugar mommas.
If everybody would just stop being stupid then maybe we would be able to think.
That looks like it offers so much potential for a vegetable garden.