Hey bro I’m about 6 months into the same situation. You’re in for a rocky fucking road of experiencing the full emotional spectrum to the fullest. Please hit me up if you need an ear who’s been through the same. It doesn’t feel like it gets better, but it does. Remember no matter what, she made that decision, you are NOT to blame at all. Good luck man.
Caught my wife of 8 years cheating a year ago. I know your pain bro. It's not the answer you want right now, but drugs are the worst path to go down with this mindset. Sleep, surround yourself with friends and family, eat good food and give yourself time and grace. It's not your fault, it's hers. Dm me if you need a listening ear. It does get better.
Thanks, Joe, for helping in that quest by blocking popular legislation that would have directly benefited people and made this election a runaway for Biden.
I wouldn't say annoying, but it really is almost impossible to kill. I have a lid, and some rough surface agitation and everytime I think it's all dead, the one that held on somewhere splits into 4 more. Now they've taken shelter in my HOB, surviving in there too.
Adding a few well cleaned rocks shouldn't do anything to disrupt cycling or otherwise. It's usually when you get into messing with the substrate, uprooting plants, and removing old decorations that spikes can occur. I'd say your only issue is figuring out placement out of the way of those plants and hardware!
They seem fine but I think they’ll be happier somewhere out of direct light. I put mine in the back corner and the leaves are nice and long and billowy
Specs: Cycled 20 gallon, 1 male betta occupant. 8 hours full spectrum light, 1 pump co-op easy green fert once a week after 10% water change. No co2 right now, this will change when I add more plants. Some anacharis in the tank as well.
You'll find that 99% of people in school, even what you thought were "best friends for life" become completely irrelevant in adulthood. Don't trip on these people too hard, you won't see most of them ever again after graduation.
Yeah they're root feeders so root tabs will benefit them, just check if the root tabs have copper in them. They take a bit of time to settle in where it'll look like nothing is happening but once they're settled they take off.
Does it need root tabs? My substrate is aqueons version of fluval stratum basically. New to planted tanks so im still researching tabs/fertilizing, etc
Hey bro I’m about 6 months into the same situation. You’re in for a rocky fucking road of experiencing the full emotional spectrum to the fullest. Please hit me up if you need an ear who’s been through the same. It doesn’t feel like it gets better, but it does. Remember no matter what, she made that decision, you are NOT to blame at all. Good luck man.
Make sure she didn’t cheat already. Mine hit me with the same request, turns out she was just trying to cover her tracks for something already done.
Caught my wife of 8 years cheating a year ago. I know your pain bro. It's not the answer you want right now, but drugs are the worst path to go down with this mindset. Sleep, surround yourself with friends and family, eat good food and give yourself time and grace. It's not your fault, it's hers. Dm me if you need a listening ear. It does get better.
22 minutes. We ride the line over here fellas 😎
Reminds me of the order Ricky made to get Sam losco fired
Fuckin caveman
Literally my favorite buzz. Takes the edge off the adderall. Everyone's experience differs tho
Entombed got me through my divorce and cheating so I'll always pick that. Actually Koi No Yokan as a whole is my favorite
Thanks, Joe, for helping in that quest by blocking popular legislation that would have directly benefited people and made this election a runaway for Biden.
4re34
You got this! Happy birthday!
Dislocated patella? Literally the same stupid fucking dance move that did this to me 4 years ago
Literally watched mine do this during my water change. Must be the biofilm
I wouldn't say annoying, but it really is almost impossible to kill. I have a lid, and some rough surface agitation and everytime I think it's all dead, the one that held on somewhere splits into 4 more. Now they've taken shelter in my HOB, surviving in there too.
Adding a few well cleaned rocks shouldn't do anything to disrupt cycling or otherwise. It's usually when you get into messing with the substrate, uprooting plants, and removing old decorations that spikes can occur. I'd say your only issue is figuring out placement out of the way of those plants and hardware!
Lush ice was my go to for 3 months. Now I'm on my 3rd unit that's auto firing after I hit, so I'm after a new brand.
I hope they're smarter than the real Cory and Trevor. Those 2 are duuuuumb!
Smokes let's go
10ppm is nothing to worry about! Also, gorgeous tank
They seem fine but I think they’ll be happier somewhere out of direct light. I put mine in the back corner and the leaves are nice and long and billowy
Was thinking of replanting the back one anyways, thank you!
Specs: Cycled 20 gallon, 1 male betta occupant. 8 hours full spectrum light, 1 pump co-op easy green fert once a week after 10% water change. No co2 right now, this will change when I add more plants. Some anacharis in the tank as well.
You'll find that 99% of people in school, even what you thought were "best friends for life" become completely irrelevant in adulthood. Don't trip on these people too hard, you won't see most of them ever again after graduation.
Yeah they're root feeders so root tabs will benefit them, just check if the root tabs have copper in them. They take a bit of time to settle in where it'll look like nothing is happening but once they're settled they take off.
Awesome thank you!
Yes I was going to suggest Vallisneria too. It grows pretty fast and it sends off tons of runners so it can get really dense.
Does it need root tabs? My substrate is aqueons version of fluval stratum basically. New to planted tanks so im still researching tabs/fertilizing, etc
Elodea (aka Anacharis to us old people)
Thank you!
Hey did your tank ever clear? Running into this same issue. Cycled but just won't stop blooming.
Toys will release chemicals into the water
So I've read! Planning to get all this artificial bs out this week