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  1. Hi, it's 9 months later but I need this. Could I get a new link? :)

  2. Yep yep, my family spent the whole ride home gossiping and talking about people from church. Being judgmental is something I still have to actively work on because it was so engrained in me. I think this was truly my parents “social life”. They were almost giddy to do it.

  3. This. The car ride home was always "fun", in the sense that it meant getting another sermon to correct all the things we heard in church. Didn't matter how much my parents liked the church, they would always find some little thing the pastor said that they felt was important enough to ensure we knew the "correct" interpretation/application/etc. My parents were both Calvinists and missionaries, so the teachings about who would come to Christ and how were some Olympic level mental gymnastics.

  4. It's my messenger chats I'm concerned about lol. How do I talk to all my friend groups??

  5. Exactly this!! I don't use Facebook anymore, but I'm on messenger all day long with my family group chat and friend group chats.

  6. I’m honestly not sure what you mean by “components of Christianity”.

  7. I'm curious what you left. When people say they have left Christianity and are atheist now, there are more commonly used definitions of those things so I know what they left. For people who made more subtle changes in belief, I have to ask folks to explain bc there's such a wide spectrum of options.

  8. I don't need the most detailed story. Just curious what things you don't believe now that you used to believe. Has it just been social issues that changed? Soteriology? Eschatology? Like I can sum up that I left the church and have always believed in God, but do not contextualize God the way I did when I was in the church. I don't think the Bible is inerrant/infallible, and you don't need to be "saved" (there is no eternal conscious torment).

  9. So like....does the next AirBnB host know she's going to give birth in their house or...?

  10. Supposedly it's owned by a friend who is totally cool with the home birth happening. But she's an extremely unreliable narrator so who knows

  11. He is, but Paul is more delusional about their public impressions and thinks it's only snarkers that's think anything poorly about them. Nate figured out that it was genuine concern from followers and potential followers.

  12. 4. Just had 4 temporary crowns installed this morning and my face is still completely numb so I can't make facial expressions except with my eyes/eyebrows

  13. Thanks I’m in a better place now.  It always irritates me how homeschoolers are seen as godly, while the boys they assault are labeled as gay.  I didn’t even realize what SA was when it happened. 

  14. great she has moved on to reusing the tiktok trends that she failed to emulate the first time around... girl these dont get better with age

  15. It’s the tiny script font on the sleeve for me (also a designer)

  16. And it's thick! 3 lines! I love a good ironically "terrible" design, but even that is egregious.

  17. I have a couple of besties that I use for that. Like we don't necessarily chat every day but if I'm going on a date, I give them time, place, person, and set check in times. I always drive myself, it's gotta be an out of town thing for me to drive with and that doesn't happen until I trust them.

  18. Hi, are these videos still up at a different link?

  19. https://youtube.com/@DeconstructingDeeJayGee?si=7stcjV3PjWfIAMXn

  20. I was golden child + slave while living at home, became the black sheep as an adult, and entered my final form of missing child in April of last year.

  21. …Pilgrim?? Whoever it was that dug through his Twitter and explained that this whole Brazil thing is just part of his whole batshit conspiracy mission in LARPing as a “sOveReiGn cITizEn” was dead-on.

  22. Lol ty that was me. I hate Twitter but have kept my login since they made it private and you have to log in to see tweets because the fundies love that platform.

  23. just because macguyver could fashion and fix anything with bubble gum and hope doesn't mean the average joe can nor should.

  24. I built a dune buggy with my dad in Jr high/high school and the clutch cable broke while I was playing in the hills South of town. To fix it, I rode my bike into town (had planned to go for a bike ride after driving the buggy as far up as I could) and got Dad to Jerry rig it so we could get it back home. I don't remember what we did to fix it enough to get home, but I know for a fact it did not involve any thing fragile like a produce bag.

  25. I wonder what “certified” means in this regard. some people throw around therapy speak when it is legally dicey. is he licensed? that’s what matters imo.

  26. He is certified through Christian Sex Therapists, so not the secular certification board, which explains a lot. But he is a secularly licensed counselor supervisor.

  27. (I am both users. Reddit won't let you change your username so I've stopped using djghettosteve for the most part and just use the DeeJayGee account)

  28. I'm pro choice, but talking someone out of something is not a vote. They can argue what they would do, doesn't mean the pregnant person has to do what they suggest.

  29. You say "suggest" but truly they shame. They create straw men to make it seem that anything short of completing the pregnancy and delivery is reprehensible, immoral, or irresponsible.

  30. I wish girls got to opt in at 13 to getting an IUD* as a celebrated tradition. And each 5 or 10 year replacement was a celebration. And each removal to start planning a family was a celebration!

  31. It's too big for their body. It's too big for many women who have not had a baby. Implants like nexplanon are a better option.

  32. I think she's trying to seem sexy to randos on the Internet with that line. She's obvs very exhibitionist.

  33. People who have never learned to validate themselves will often trend that way. Heidi did them all dirty

  34. Tell me your husband doesn't sleep with you without telling me your husband doesn't sleep with you. Poor Dav is probably grossed out enough by any romantic or intimate act with her, so I bet they only go the full hog on rare occasions, or whenever Dav is too exhausted to keep running from Birthy.

  35. I mean why would he be intimate with someone who broadcasts it on Instagram like this? It's mortifying

  36. I was the golden child (until I became an adult and made decisions they disagreed with) but my little sister was "wicked child" or "Einstein" (crazy bed hair).

  37. "All evangelical/protestant churches reject the early church, etc." That is the same as saying that Protestant/Evangelical churches reject the New Testament, which is the single most authoritative source on the Early Church, it's leaders, practices, and beliefs. Do you really think that?

  38. Given how much most of them read into the NT that isn't actually there would indicate as much. They follow Paul and John more than Jesus. They reject simple creeds like Nicene in favor of much more prescriptive Westminster Confession (if they follow any creed/confession at all). Baptists all write their own statement of faith for each church because the existing creeds don't specify enough cultural values that they think are as/more important than core doctrines of the early church.

  39. I will try again sometime. I'm not familiar with all the different kinds of churches. Its kinda exhausting to even think about LOL

  40. Check out the creeds and confessions, a lot of them are very similar but some are a good deal different. Finding a basis of doctrines you believe/feel called to is going to be the best basis for building a church family.

  41. It's almost like a vague horrible thing is inevitable for a city as large as NYC

  42. Yeah, her vague prophecy is bound to come true at some point.

  43. Ummm but if I went to a toy store with a child and asked them to keep their hands to themselves, they would still be in trouble for not keeping their hands to themselves.

  44. Today in: what inanimate object are women being compared to?

  45. I've been using my maiden name through both marriages. It's an utter pain in the ass to change so it was never worth it for me to go through the aggravation.

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