BloomingBrains

Yes it is self inflicted. All the times I got rejected I had secretly paid them off to reject me while impersonating someone else because I'm a masochist and I loved being depressed.

Women make up 50% of society and influence it accordingly.

Its not the rejection itself but often the way its delivered. I doubt many people who make this statement have ever been treated like a night stalker for just speaking to a woman in a respectful manner. I doubt they know what is like to be afraid for their own safety because others will see them as a threat to be eliminated.

But it’s not that it’s just nice-y nice, it’s work, and skill.

And in regard to point 2… it definitely doesn’t mean “literally every man sees every woman this way”. It’s usually referring to how women are portrayed in media

"Just because you have daddy issues doesn't mean you get to make obscene statements like men make you uncomfortable" has to be one of the greatest zingers of all time. I'm adding it to my personal dictionary of comebacks.

Because therapy doesn't actually do anything to fix the problems at their source. Maybe that's fine for women, due to the discrepancy between (average) male and female psychology when it comes to dealing with problems. Men want to solve problems, women like to talk about it. Therapists don't solve problems, they talk about it. Which is why most therapists are women and it doesn't help men.

I once asked a gay sub about the refrain that "it sucks to be gay because men are gross". How common it was and the reasoning behind it. I explained that I'm a straight man myself who has no issue with people not finding men gross even though I do find men gross, but I'm failing to really conceptualize how someone can be attracted to a gender they find gross. I understand sexuality is not a choice but if you think a gender is gross (like I do about men), wouldn't you just be not attracted to them then?

I see the rationale very commonly among feminists these days that if a guy claims to have been abused, abusers practice DARVO, so claiming to have been abused is actually evidence of being an abuser. But only when it's a man making the claim, of course.

Same logic as "evil men pretend to be nice, so being nice is actually evidence of being evil". Also only applied to men of course.

I think the best counter argument is that men aren't more violent in general, its just that the most violent people who ever lived are mostly men. Most serial killers are men, true, but so are most peace activists like MLK, Ghandi, etc. And not only that but men also use violence as way to protect innocents from violence more often than women do. For every male aggressor, there are 5 male protectors that use violence defensively. Most villains may be men but so are most heroes, and there are far more heroes than villains.

To be fair affordable housing is the biggest issue this generation is facing and is looking extremely dystopian at the moment...but then that logic should also apply to female shelters.

So she's trying to profit from the horrific torture and murder of other women? What a psychopath.

Tbf the original comment isn't something I'd agree with either. Women having the advantage when it comes to appearances is a relatively small problem all things considered. What actually gives men trust issues are bigger problems like being accused of being a rapist and shit like that.

Yeah this guy picked a weird hill to die on, but the thing is she's still wrong because all of that has nothing to do with the topic.

I've only ever had sex with one woman, but in all the time that I've known her I've never been able to finish just from sex. I have to pull out and use my hand. I think society over-hypes how great sex is supposed to be, physically. Maybe something about porn placing too much emphasis on orgasm and all that? IDK but for me its more about the emotional and intimate connection. At some point you just have to accept that it is what it is.

"Ok bro, then be a good boy and don't approach or try to have any kind of relationship with women, ever, since by your own words you're scaring them and they have good reasons to be afraid."

Women can just stop men's advances, they can have pepperspray/tazer/gun.

Anyone who thinks that society caters towards men and fulfilling their desires has no imagination as to what kind of society that would actually look like.

Its so much more than "I can't get a BF". Its being harassed and labelled an incel, Elliot Roger, rapist, etc. just for:

Meanwhile, the homeless war veteran PTSD experience...

Safe spaces are psychotic. There are legitimate reasons for being afraid of men--such as past rape victims or whatnot. But something tells me that probably wasn't the case for all the women in that space. Legit androphobia is one thing, but this is clearly political.

Then stop dating fuckboys. I guarantee you that most women who end up with guys who treat them like a set of holes do so because they treat themselves like a set of holes. Its really easy to find guys who respect women.

I think its extremely shitty to use a child's death to attack the mother for her dating choices. Its possible she didn't know the guy was a psycho at first, that's not her fault if he turned out to be one.

Feminists unironically mirroring Donald Trump talking points is one of the most dystopian things I have ever seen. We really are headed towards the timeline where Idiocracy eventually becomes a documentary.

Classic begging the question/circular logic.

The truth is that intersectionality does exist, but it applies more to men than women. Intersectionality could very well be a useful concept when talking about black men, for example. But the feminist lie that women have it worse than men prevents that from ever being brought up because they will always focus on black women instead .Which means black men, the group that intersectionality could actually help shine some light on, will be ignored.