What helped me a little is realising that these things stem from me trying to do stuff PERFECTLY. Didnt matter what it was it had to be perfect (like planning how to ask that girl out, which exact words to use etc)...you basically need to unlearn this and accept "good enough". Things dont always workout the way we want em
Yeah i have 9 of this type of friends I love them more than family, I went to 6-7 different schools in two different states plus my dad is from KCK and I’m from OKC. All of them are mirror images of eachother and me, we also have similar backgrounds in random ways. Some of them know eachother some don’t.
Definitely, my most recent ex (INFJ) said it got her excited when I’d nerd out about random stuff. It’s not worth getting into a relationship if your person isn’t fully into you
You’re fine it’s just the situation, I’m 2 years older than you and working on the certs for my big boy job currently to move out. My best advice would be to keep doing what you love and remember life doesn’t get any easier you just get stronger
Well just last night my entire family got into a giant argument that lasted an hour. Someone ate a particular grocery I BOUGHT. I texted my stepmother “could y’all ask me before eating my __ next time”. She replies “First of all, I didn’t use your cheese so maybe ask me if I even used it. Talk to your dad and your brothers. 😑”. I reply “I said y’all not you” and that spirals into a giant argument all because this moron is a moron. I’m in the wrong FOR ASKING TO NOT HAVE MY GROCERIES EATEN. So that somehow leads to me being an introvert and how that offends her for some reason (which has nothing to do with my stuff being taken) perpetuating the cycle of why I don’t feel comfortable talking with a moron. And of course dad’s a simp so now that she’s in the wrong AGAIN she doesn’t get checked it’s me who’s in the wrong for communicating boundaries 😂 but again “why don’t you speak with us”
I agree with your statement not with the title of the post. People aren’t dumb because storytelling is circular as a result of writers who aren’t deserving of their positions. The people they’re putting in charge of directing these projects whom I won’t name because we’re on Reddit, are the reason Entertainment as a whole has gone down the drain and become a propaganda fest….
Yes, a manipulator is what you're describing here. Someone who likes to pretend they're doing one thing, while really trying to pull the strings and influence events and peoples' actions around them.
Intelligence, common sense, A degree of agreeableness and disagreeableness (yes simultaneously), empathy, honesty, Respects nature, artist or appreciates multiple forms of art,sense of humor, Ideally introverted
I’m the same, in video games I often try and counter the Meta through off picks and outright prefer utilizing my favorite playstyle with mastery to meta play styles just for an outcome
No but I’m African American and code switch very well
He’s the Goat imo and my best friend who’s INFJ as well thinks the same. Kanye is the goat and J Cole too lol
I don’t
I was so scared to see what the word was gonna be after “massive” 💀
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The only people holding my hands are little kids and GFs, I love when people hold my hand and wish they’d do it more
What helped me a little is realising that these things stem from me trying to do stuff PERFECTLY. Didnt matter what it was it had to be perfect (like planning how to ask that girl out, which exact words to use etc)...you basically need to unlearn this and accept "good enough". Things dont always workout the way we want em
It’s weird I read this after smoking and ruminating on why I need to accept “good enough” is “good enough” when there’s no better options
I try my absolute best to do all three and that’s what counts in the end 😂
Yes but I’ve always been this way, I prefer the regular looking girl with personality and a gentle side
As long as you both know what it is I see no harm
Yeah i have 9 of this type of friends I love them more than family, I went to 6-7 different schools in two different states plus my dad is from KCK and I’m from OKC. All of them are mirror images of eachother and me, we also have similar backgrounds in random ways. Some of them know eachother some don’t.
Nah
Definitely, my most recent ex (INFJ) said it got her excited when I’d nerd out about random stuff. It’s not worth getting into a relationship if your person isn’t fully into you
You’re fine it’s just the situation, I’m 2 years older than you and working on the certs for my big boy job currently to move out. My best advice would be to keep doing what you love and remember life doesn’t get any easier you just get stronger
My expectations aren’t too high I’m just not at the level I need to be yet.
That’s weird, I wear anime merch specifically to attract like minded people because I won’t go and seek other people
I like this. Actionable passive attraction.
Right? Tactical laziness
Well just last night my entire family got into a giant argument that lasted an hour. Someone ate a particular grocery I BOUGHT. I texted my stepmother “could y’all ask me before eating my __ next time”. She replies “First of all, I didn’t use your cheese so maybe ask me if I even used it. Talk to your dad and your brothers. 😑”. I reply “I said y’all not you” and that spirals into a giant argument all because this moron is a moron. I’m in the wrong FOR ASKING TO NOT HAVE MY GROCERIES EATEN. So that somehow leads to me being an introvert and how that offends her for some reason (which has nothing to do with my stuff being taken) perpetuating the cycle of why I don’t feel comfortable talking with a moron. And of course dad’s a simp so now that she’s in the wrong AGAIN she doesn’t get checked it’s me who’s in the wrong for communicating boundaries 😂 but again “why don’t you speak with us”
I agree with your statement not with the title of the post. People aren’t dumb because storytelling is circular as a result of writers who aren’t deserving of their positions. The people they’re putting in charge of directing these projects whom I won’t name because we’re on Reddit, are the reason Entertainment as a whole has gone down the drain and become a propaganda fest….
Probably, I’m the oldest of my generation on both sides and it’s awful
I don’t mean to be that guy but you sound like a late stage capitalist who has to be productive indefinitely
That’s my everyday life so I’m not sure
Yes, a manipulator is what you're describing here. Someone who likes to pretend they're doing one thing, while really trying to pull the strings and influence events and peoples' actions around them.
The correct answer
Counter question, have you ever had someone who was real and loyal and a good person to you whom you met after the age of 18
Intelligence, common sense, A degree of agreeableness and disagreeableness (yes simultaneously), empathy, honesty, Respects nature, artist or appreciates multiple forms of art,sense of humor, Ideally introverted
It's mostly matter of practice. I know rules and can win with beginners, but I never bothered with actually learning openings or strategies.
I’m the same, in video games I often try and counter the Meta through off picks and outright prefer utilizing my favorite playstyle with mastery to meta play styles just for an outcome
Especially that last point, I started dating an INFJ two weeks ago and I’ve never met someone so helpful
Why would they worry? It’s already here man the time for worrying been past 😂